Posted on 11/19/2023 11:29:57 AM PST by nickcarraway
QUESTION: I’ve been with my boyfriend for two years and can imagine us getting married and having a family together. The only issue is that he often likes pictures of other women on Instagram and chats with them. It makes me feel like I’m not enough. I’ve challenged him and he says it’s not cheating and is just a bit of fun. Should I just accept his behavior as part of our relationship?
ANSWER: Whether or not this is considered ‘cheating’ is beside the point here. Your boyfriend is doing something that makes you uncomfortable and rather than listen to your concerns, he’s dismissing you. You don’t need to accept his behavior if it doesn’t feel okay for you.
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“Two years of dating”
She’s not dating him. She’s living with him he’s living the life of a 17 year old boy
That’s who birth control is for. The plethora of perpetual 17 year old boys
Women are vocal about it but this is who is voting for abortion rights. These overgrown boys tgat stupid women cater to and get nothing but this crap from
She’s an idiot.
Yep
No, we’re not cheating, we’re chatting. :)
““Just cause a dog is chained to the porch, doesn’t mean he can’t howl at the traffic.”
Just because you’re on a diet doesn’t mean you can’t read the menu.
wy69
>>> What are you wearing?
A lovely lime green chiffon jacquard dress with matching Sam Edelman pumps.
Liking is not cheating.
Chatting in not cheating but it does imply an attempt to make a connection that is troubling.
Instagram is actually just a dating site so if you are in a serious relationship both of you should delete your accounts.
But you do as you like.
if he knows it bothers her he could stop. i would take this as a big clue he’s not that into you.
The ladies are still purty...
Geez lady, you’re just an easy piece. What are you thinking.
If liking another woman’s photos is cheating, then posting photos is ALSO cheating.
Bryan Kohberger would like to know if it’s proof of stalking.
I asked a similar question to a preacher once.
I asked him if looking at a pretty woman as I was driving by was a sin?
He said, “Not unless I were to drive around the block and come back to look again!”😁
I think I saw you at the airport, stealing luggage.
Instagram has a bunch of Ho’s on it who are always trolling for men and asking them to go to some link to get to know them. The link is usually a pay-per-view Onlyfans.
I had to put text on my picture saying; “Grandpa doesn’t want any young girlfriends, thank you!”
Really cut down on this sometimes hardcore spam but a few still are stupid enough to try or they’re just bots (more likely).
Looking ain’t cheating touching is.
Everyone looks women and men
I have been married to the same woman for almost 40 years. If I have any secrets I have to ask her what they are.
“The only issue is that he often likes pictures of other women on Instagram..”
Duh! Get used to it...that’s the least of your worries.
No....He’s likely getting all he wants without marrying her.
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