There’s been a lot of fraud going on with people filing using other people’s identity. Plus, I think the IRS is probably still using 1980’s computer technology.
They both wanted a baby until one of them didn’t. It sounds like the husband is a selfish jerk, or maybe he just gave her a lame excuse because he thought she might not be a good mother.
You obviously haven’t figured out a way to extort money from foreign countries and hide it in 50 different shell companies yet. Come-on, man. Time to get with the program!