I grew up in Belmar lived there from birth to age 28. It is amazing how often Belmar is in the news for such a small town. My family is an old time Belmar family for 4 generations but none of us live even close to it now. Back then Belmar was a working class shore town now it is quite expensive to live there. Plus it’s New Jersey, with all the NJ foolishness.
As a kid in the late 60s through the 70s it was a great place to live. We knew back in grade school that it was an above average place. The general feeling was that the surfers were not as shall we say polite as the rest of us. I did some time working for the Boro as an extra cleaning up the beach in the evenings. The surfer beaches we noticeably messier although the regular beaches we not neat and tidy by any stretch of the imagination.