The wife left 01/2004. I filed for divorce 11/2005 after she had my mailing address changed: she knew it was time for car insurance renewal; I didn't get the bill and the policy I've held since 1981 was dropped for non-payment of premium. My attorney says forget it. I thought I had the address mess straightened out. Nope. I'm due a substantial refund from the IRS for 2004 (yeah, it was delayed, but that's been resolved). The refund was mailed to her address in a different city (she's done the address change, in my name, again). Question: What can I...