Free Republic
Browse · Search
Religion
Topics · Post Article

Skip to comments.

Did Mary Have Other Children?
Christian Apologetics and Research Ministry ^ | Unknown | Matt Slick

Posted on 06/13/2011 3:57:07 PM PDT by HarleyD

One of the more controversial teachings of the Catholic church deals with the perpetual virginity of Mary. This doctrine maintains that Mary remained a virgin after the birth of Jesus and that biblical references suggesting Jesus had siblings are really references to cousins (Catechism of the Catholic Church, paragraph 510).

As the veneration of Mary increased throughout the centuries, the vehicle of Sacred Tradition became the means of promoting new doctrines not explicitly taught in the Bible. The virginity of Mary is clearly taught in scripture when describing the birth of Jesus. But is the doctrine of her continued virginity supported by the Bible? Did Mary lose her virginity after Jesus was born? Does the Bible reveal that Mary had other children, that Jesus had brothers and sisters?

The Bible does not come out and declare that Mary remained a virgin and that she had no children. In fact, the Bible seems to state otherwise: (All quotes are from the NASB.)

An initial reading of these biblical texts seems to clear up the issue: Jesus had brothers and sisters. But such obvious scriptures are not without their response from Catholic Theologians. The primary argument against these biblical texts is as follows:

In Greek, the word for brother is adelphos and sister is adelphe. This word is used in different contexts: of children of the same parents (Matt. 1:2; 14:3), descendants of parents (Acts 7:23, 26; Heb. 7:5), the Jews as a whole (Acts 3:17, 22), etc. Therefore, the term brother (and sister) can and does refer to the cousins of Jesus.

There is certainly merit in this argument, However, different contexts give different meanings to words. It is not legitimate to say that because a word has a wide scope of meaning, that you may then transfer any part of that range of meaning to any other text that uses the word. In other words, just because the word brother means fellow Jews or cousin in one place, does not mean it has the same meaning in another. Therefore, each verse should be looked at in context to see what it means.

Lets briefly analyze a couple of verses dealing with the brothers of Jesus.

In both of these verses, if the brothers of Jesus are not brothers, but His cousins, then who is His mother and who is the carpenters father? In other words, mother here refers to Mary. The carpenter in Matt. 13:55, refers to Joseph. These are literal. Yet, the Catholic theologian will then stop there and say, "Though carpenters son refers to Joseph, and mother refers to Mary, brothers does not mean brothers, but "cousins." This does not seem to be a legitimate assertion. You cannot simply switch contextual meanings in the middle of a sentence unless it is obviously required. The context is clear. This verse is speaking of Joseph, Mary, and Jesus brothers. The whole context is of familial relationship: father, mother, and brothers.

Psalm 69, A Messianic Psalm

There are many arguments pro and con concerning Jesus siblings. But the issue cannot be settled without examining Psalm 69, a Messianic Psalm. Jesus quotes Psalm 69:4 in John 15:25, "But they have done this in order that the word may be fulfilled that is written in their Law, they hated Me without a cause."

He also quotes Psalm 69:9 in John 2:16-17, "and to those who were selling the doves He said, "Take these things away; stop making My Fathers house a house of merchandise." His disciples remembered that it was written, "Zeal for Thy house will consume me."

Clearly, Psalm 69 is a Messianic Psalm since Jesus quoted it in reference to Himself two times. The reason this is important is because of what is written between the verses that Jesus quoted.

To get the whole context, here is Psalm 69:4-9, "Those who hate me without a cause are more than the hairs of my head; Those who would destroy me are powerful, being wrongfully my enemies, What I did not steal, I then have to restore. 5O God, it is Thou who dost know my folly, And my wrongs are not hidden from Thee. 6May those who wait for Thee not be ashamed through me, O Lord God of hosts; May those who seek Thee not be dishonored through me, O God of Israel, 7Because for Thy sake I have borne reproach; Dishonor has covered my face. 8I have become estranged from my brothers, and an alien to my mothers sons. 9For zeal for Thy house has consumed me, And the reproaches of those who reproach Thee have fallen on me."

This messianic Psalm clearly shows that Jesus has brothers. As Amos 3:7 says, "Surely the Lord God does nothing unless He reveals His secret counsel to His servants the prophets." Gods will has been revealed plainly in the New Testament and prophetically in the Old. Psalm 69 shows us that Jesus had brothers.

Did Mary have other children? The Bible seems to suggest yes. Catholic Tradition says no. Which will you trust?

Of course, the Catholic will simply state that even this phrase "my mother's sons" is in reference not to his siblings, but to cousins and other relatives. This is a necessary thing for the Catholic to say, otherwise, the perpetual virginity of Mary is threatened and since that contradicts Roman Catholic tradition, an interpretation that is consistent with that tradition must be adopted.

The question is, "Was Jesus estranged by His brothers?". Yes, He was. John 7:5 says "For not even His brothers were believing in Him." Furthermore, Psalm 69:8 says both "my brothers" and "my mother's sons." Are these both to be understood as not referring to His siblings? Hardly. The Catholics are fond of saying that "brothers" must mean "cousins." But, if that is the case, then when we read "an alien to my mother's sons" we can see that the writer is adding a further distinction and narrowing the scope of meaning. In other words, Jesus was alienated by his siblings, His very half-brothers begotten from Mary.

It is sad to see the Roman Catholic church go to such lengths to maintain Mary's virginity, something that is a violation of biblical law to be married and fill the earth.


TOPICS: General Discusssion; Mainline Protestant
KEYWORDS: brothers; cousins; mary; nameonebrother; relatives; stepchildren
Navigation: use the links below to view more comments.
first previous 1-20 ... 781-800801-820821-840 ... 1,021-1,026 next last
To: Lera
I guess that the student is unwilling to learn. Or has a short attention span.

You made the assertion that nowhere does the Bible tell us to pray for one another. I provided you with two examples each from Jesus and Paul.

You now provide me with four verses of Paul ranting at the Athenian Jews. Our entire conversation has been me answering your questions or points and you immediately changing the subject. May I enquire as to your driving record and the number of accidents you have had?

801 posted on 06/20/2011 6:06:50 PM PDT by MarkBsnr (I would not believe in the Gospel if the authority of the Catholic Church did not move me to do so..)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 799 | View Replies]

To: MarkBsnr

The verses apply

BTW I have a perfect driving record
Never been in an accident while driving and never gotten a ticket , not even one for parking
Oh and just for your information I have driven things that most me can’t handle ;)


802 posted on 06/20/2011 6:15:48 PM PDT by Lera
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 801 | View Replies]

To: Lera

errrr

That should read I have driven things that most men can’t handle

I need to take this keyboard apart again *sigh*
(sticky ice tea )


803 posted on 06/20/2011 6:19:31 PM PDT by Lera
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 802 | View Replies]

To: MarkBsnr
There are more, but the whole thing is that the whole model is built upon the idea of kingdom. That's why the role of Mary was accepted by the Church so quickly in the first century.
Quite fascinating fiction. You must certainly be aware that no such concept as Mary being Queen of Heaven was even mentioned for many hundreds of years. Even the Assumption nonsense did not appear for 400 years after Christ and from apochryphal origens.

Does Jesus Call Mary Queen of Heaven? Do any of the Apostles call Mary Queen of Heaven? Does Mary play a significant part in Acts? Is Mary mentioned as playing ANY part in the first generation church? Is Mary healing the sick? etc... Produce a Christian source calling Mary the Queen of Heaven from the first century?

804 posted on 06/20/2011 6:26:18 PM PDT by bkaycee
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 798 | View Replies]

To: Lera
The verses apply

To what? Oh and just for your information I have driven things that most me can’t handle ;)

Umm, are you claiming multiple personalities? :)

805 posted on 06/20/2011 6:38:43 PM PDT by MarkBsnr (I would not believe in the Gospel if the authority of the Catholic Church did not move me to do so..)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 802 | View Replies]

To: bkaycee
There are more, but the whole thing is that the whole model is built upon the idea of kingdom. That's why the role of Mary was accepted by the Church so quickly in the first century.

Quite fascinating fiction. You must certainly be aware that no such concept as Mary being Queen of Heaven was even mentioned for many hundreds of years.

The truth is that the first icon was painted by the Gospel writer Luke and it was of Mary. Mariology is woven into the Church's history and was integral to the early Church. The mother and child icon and later sculptures almost dominated holy depictions. Even if I did produce first century evidence, would you then believe? Do the fact that the first definition of the Council of Ephesus negate anything? The Trinitarian Formula and the Nicene Creed was first defined at Nicea. Since they were not in existence prior, does that negate them?

806 posted on 06/20/2011 6:40:59 PM PDT by MarkBsnr (I would not believe in the Gospel if the authority of the Catholic Church did not move me to do so..)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 804 | View Replies]

To: bkaycee
There are more, but the whole thing is that the whole model is built upon the idea of kingdom. That's why the role of Mary was accepted by the Church so quickly in the first century.

Quite fascinating fiction. You must certainly be aware that no such concept as Mary being Queen of Heaven was even mentioned for many hundreds of years.

The truth is that the first icon was painted by the Gospel writer Luke and it was of Mary. Mariology is woven into the Church's history and was integral to the early Church. The mother and child icon and later sculptures almost dominated holy depictions. Even if I did produce first century evidence, would you then believe? Do the fact that the first definition of the Council of Ephesus negate anything? The Trinitarian Formula and the Nicene Creed was first defined at Nicea. Since they were not in existence prior, does that negate them?

807 posted on 06/20/2011 6:40:59 PM PDT by MarkBsnr (I would not believe in the Gospel if the authority of the Catholic Church did not move me to do so..)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 804 | View Replies]

To: Lera
That should read I have driven things that most men can’t handle

It provided a nice opportunity for a zinger!!! :)

808 posted on 06/20/2011 6:42:41 PM PDT by MarkBsnr (I would not believe in the Gospel if the authority of the Catholic Church did not move me to do so..)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 803 | View Replies]

To: MarkBsnr
The truth is that the first icon was painted by the Gospel writer Luke.
An unsupported legend, hardly verifiable truth. Quite unlikely considering the prohibition of the second commandment.
Mariology is woven into the Church's history and was integral to the early Church.
The early church is totaly silent on the various Marian heresies for the first 400 years or so years until the apocharyphal pagan transitus Marie writings appear and are condemned by the Church but later brought in. See 2 Pet 2

The evidence is entrirely lacking to support any of your assertions. The entire NT does not record Mary playing any active part in the NT church! No one is praying to Her! She is not sitting on a throne, anywhere. She is not dispensing "grace" to anyone! She is not performing miracles. She is not part of the Apostolic ministry in ANY way!

Unfortunately, the church allowed heresy to influence her and let Mary became a focus for all sorts of nonsense 500 YEARS after the Biblical events occured! See the reference by Jesus about traditions of men.

809 posted on 06/20/2011 8:06:46 PM PDT by bkaycee
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 807 | View Replies]

To: Cronos; Lera; bkaycee
Wait -- Osiris, the Egyptian God from 2000 BC was called "He was called Lord of Lords, King of Kings, God of Gods...the Resurrection and the Life, the Good shepherd...the god who 'made men and women be born again" -- shock! Jesus is given a title that was once used by a PAGAN god!

How about a little back up source for your claims? Show us where Osiris was given all those titles. Source, please.

810 posted on 06/20/2011 9:17:22 PM PDT by boatbums (God is ready to assume full responsibility for the life wholly yielded to him.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 745 | View Replies]

To: bkaycee
The issue of Mary's virginity for protestants is a non issue after the Virgin birth of Jesus Christ, but for the Roman church, to maintain the required belief in the Marian dogmas (Immaculate Conception, Assumption) for entrance to heaven, it is easier if she remained ever Virgin. So no matter what scripture plainly states about Mary, Roman Catholics cannot agree because it will cost them salvation. This also displays the "actual" pecking order of authority in Rome, Church 1st, Scripture subordinate.

You have made a very important point. Like you, I couldn't care less what Mary did after the virgin birth of Jesus Christ. She had every right and it was totally within the law that she have a normal husband/wife relationship and have other children. She was certainly a very blessed woman and, through her faith and obedience, she was given the great honor of bearing the Messiah. But that's it.

If the Catholic Church had left it at that or even if they had left it up to the individual to accept her continued virginity, I would have no problem. What they did that was without Scriptural authority was to make the belief in her perpetual virginity as well as her "sinlessness" a mandatory rule/law of the faith. They proclaimed that it was of the faith and that those who denied it could NOT be saved. If anyone rejected it they were told they were self-excommunicated. In other words, believe what we say is true or you will go to HELL. They went TOO FAR. That is why I reject their assumed infallibility and why I know they are NOT teaching the truth. "Do not go beyond what is written", is what Paul said. They did just that and not only on this point, I may add.

811 posted on 06/20/2011 9:29:32 PM PDT by boatbums (God is ready to assume full responsibility for the life wholly yielded to him.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 753 | View Replies]

To: bkaycee; OLD REGGIE
Watch out, Bkaycee & Old Reg, there are certain people who are known to badger and hound someone and ignore their answers while going on to invent what in their own minds you could be saying. They then run with that and post false conclusions as what you believe. Soon others who are too lazy to look back at your posts to judge for themselves what you are really saying, run with it too. Before you know it, you are tagged with ridiculous labels that they will now carry from thread to thread. It is known as dishonesty, hypocrisy and bearing false witness. I would suggest ignoring them as no amount of refutation will matter.
812 posted on 06/20/2011 9:40:37 PM PDT by boatbums (God is ready to assume full responsibility for the life wholly yielded to him.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 778 | View Replies]

To: bkaycee; OLD REGGIE

And dumb jokes, don’t forget those. A real “commodienne”.


813 posted on 06/20/2011 9:43:17 PM PDT by boatbums (God is ready to assume full responsibility for the life wholly yielded to him.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 782 | View Replies]

To: MarkBsnr; Lera

Many outside the faith don’t even know what they believe in — and they don’t believe what they believe!


814 posted on 06/20/2011 10:05:16 PM PDT by Cronos ( W Szczebrzeszynie chrząszcz brzmi w trzcinie I Szczebrzeszyn z tego słynie.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 786 | View Replies]

To: OLD REGGIE; bkaycee; madison10; MarkBsnr
Really old_reggie -- why the reticence to give bkaycee and madison the sola scriptura proof for “biblical unitarian universalism”?

It's quite good, I'm sure, using sola scriptura as the Unitarian Universalists do to deny everything we Christians believe in..

815 posted on 06/20/2011 10:08:01 PM PDT by Cronos ( W Szczebrzeszynie chrząszcz brzmi w trzcinie I Szczebrzeszyn z tego słynie.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 781 | View Replies]

To: Lera

Thank you, Lera. Well put.


816 posted on 06/20/2011 10:40:43 PM PDT by Joya (Jesus is coming back. Something to look forward to, it is more than enough.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 732 | View Replies]

To: Lera

Link to the Dec. 2010 Running from Babylon article

http://runningfrombabylon.blogspot.com/2010/12/decapitated-and-amputated.html

= = =
excerpt

A great and violent storm off the coast of Caesarea in Israel on December 14, “unburied” an ancient statue of a woman.

The barely 4-foot high statue was semi-buried in ocean sand as sea foam rushed past her and then swirled back out to sea again.

She faced west, towards America, but has no eyes to see with as she was found both headless and armless. (1)

An Israeli archaeologist who examined her believed she might be a nearly 1,700 year old state of Aphrodite.

Aphrodite to the Greeks but Venus to the Romans. Venus has long been associated with the morning star, a title that Lucifer took for his own to deceive millions through the millennia into worshiping him and not the Son of God, Jesus Christ.

We learn from the Book of Enoch (apart from the Bible but referenced by Jude) that Lucifer and 1/3 of the angels who joined with him in his rebellion in an attempt to seize the throne of God were cast down to earth and that all these fallen angels were male. There appear to be no references to female angels — angels are referred to as the “sons of God.”

Genesis 6 (and the Book of Enoch) notes that some of these fallen angels took wives to have children, bearing gigantic offspring as a result. Genesis 6 does not note that any of these fallen angels took husbands in order to bare children.

I note that to write this: I believe that ANY female goddesses that appear in mythology are nothing more than Lucifer in drag. That is probably what is really meant by addressing many of these goddesses as “queens.”

Aphrodite/Venus is NO different. Aphrodite or Venus is only Lucifer and no female, and no iconography can persuade me otherwise.

end of first excerpt
= = =

= = =
second excerpt

... Much has been written on the Internet about Liberty and who and what she truly represents. One has to wade carefully and spit out seeds as you go. But one idea does persist: the Statue of Liberty is meant to represent an ancient goddess who has many names but apparently one purpose — freedom from tyranny. Since many “ancient goddesses” (and modern day “Virgin” apparitions) are nothing more than Lucifer in a dress, then what freedom does he represent? Simply put — freedom from the “tyranny” of the God of the Bible. Nothing more. And Lucifer will seduce anyone by any means at any time with any tool.

Aphrodite can be traced to Isis and Isis has been re-imagined as the Statue of Liberty, and now a form of the Statue of Liberty has appeared on the coast of Israel without head and without arms after a violent storm.

Aleister Crowley, the utterly lost and utterly undone British occultist (polite way of saying Satanist) who died in 1947, melted the complex genealogy of Aphrodite/Venus/Hathor/Isis to simply declaring that Isis is Babalon, a name he created by changing the ‘y’ in Babylon to an ‘a.’

Therefore, Bertholdi’s Isis/Liberty is Crowley’s Isis/Babalon.

Oh the web the deceiver weaves!

While the statue uncovered Dec. 14, has been called a ‘treasure,’ although its intrinsic value may be reduced for lack of head and lack of arms, its uncovering came at a price to the Israelis: an area of cliff with yet still to be studied treasures was washed away into the ocean.

“We don’t see this discovery as such good news,” one of (Yigal) Israel’s colleagues at the antiquities authority told Reuters. “Better relics remain hidden and protected than that they be exposed and damaged.” (1)

Loss of land and loss of ancient identity.

That was the price for a decapitated drag queen.

The place of emergence for Aphrodite in Caesarea was at Ashkelon where, during the time when Samuel the prophet judged Israel, another ‘god’ was rendered decapitated and amputated.

It was Dagon and it was in a showdown over the Ark of the Covenant.

Ashkelon was one of the five major cities of the Philistines, the other four being Ashdod, Gath, Ekron and Gaza, the city where Samson was taken in chains to the temple of Dagon to be made “sport of” by the Philistines but, instead, Samson pushed apart two pillars of the temple collapsing it and killing a great many (Judges 16). Even now this last act of Samson’s is remembered in general as a reference to Israel’s quiet nuclear capabilities and their willingness to retaliate against an enemy with use of nuclear force via the Samson Option.

Unfortunately, like Samson, Israel may first have to suffer the loss of sight.

The Philistines captured the Ark at the battle of Shiloh and in triumph offered the Ark to their god Dagon by placing the Ark in the Temple of Dagon that was in Ashdod.

I Samuel 5 records the account in which the first morning after the battle, when the Philistines went to the temple, they found Dagon face down before the Ark. They set Dagon back in his place (since he couldn’t do it himself). On the next morning, the Philistines again returned to the temple.

And when they arose early on the morrow morning, behold, Dagon was fallen upon his face to the ground before the ark of the LORD; and the head of Dagon and both the palms of his hands were cut off upon the threshold; only the stump of Dagon was left to him. —I Samuel 5: 4 (emphasis mine)

Headless and with no hands — only a stump left to him. And that was for coming into the presence of the Ark of the Covenant.”

end of second excerpt
= = =


817 posted on 06/20/2011 11:01:49 PM PDT by Joya (Jesus is coming back. Something to look forward to, it is more than enough.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 732 | View Replies]

To: Cronos
Wait -- Osiris, the Egyptian God from 2000 BC was called King of Kings -- shock! Jesus is given a title that was once used by a PAGAN king! does this mean that in such logic as in your post that Jesus is a pagan god?



That reasoning is not even logical


Daniel even called Nebuchadnezzar king of kings (Daniel 2:37)(Ezekiel did to BTW in chapter 26) Artaxerxes was called king of kings too (Ezra 7:12)


But this KING OF kings and Lord of lords comes from (this title belongs to Yeshua)

1Timothy 6:12 Fight the good fight of faith, lay hold on eternal life, whereunto thou art also called, and hast professed a good profession before many witnesses.
:13 I give thee charge in the sight of God, who quickeneth all things, and before Christ Jesus, who before Pontius Pilate witnessed a good confession;
:14 That thou keep this commandment without spot,
unrebukeable, until the appearing of our Lord Jesus Christ:
:15 Which in his times he shall shew, who is the blessed and only Potentate, the King of kings, and Lord of lords;


Not one place in scripture does Mary get the title queen of heaven , not one .
But then if you want to read Jeremiah chapters 7 and 44 you can see for yourself what became of the people who worshiped the queen of heaven .

818 posted on 06/20/2011 11:10:17 PM PDT by Lera
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 738 | View Replies]

To: boatbums

ping to 818 :)


819 posted on 06/20/2011 11:12:29 PM PDT by Lera
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 810 | View Replies]

To: Lera

Your post 732, ... Praying to idols and asking them to help will not change a thing and America is now quite full of people who bow down to idols and ask them for help instead of repenting and praying to whom they are supposed to. America is quite full of people who get insulted when they are asked to repent . BTW repentance starts with those whom say they know God and are called by his name . ...

... There is NOT one hail Mary in the Bible , NOT ONE ... it’s not in there

but

the “Queen of Heaven” is in there.

Jer 7:18 The children gather wood, and the fathers kindle the fire, and the women knead their dough, to make cakes to the queen of heaven, and to pour out drink offerings unto other gods, that they may provoke me to anger.

This brought judgement and national destruction to the northern kingdom of Israel because they would not repent they were taken as slaves and scattered to the nations. ...

The queen of heaven has an old history and all the nations of the earth were drunken in her , she goes by many names and she seduces people into bowing to her instead of our Creator.

= = =
Thanks, Lera. The sheep clothes wolves wear take many forms!


820 posted on 06/20/2011 11:18:03 PM PDT by Joya (Jesus is coming back. Something to look forward to, it is more than enough.)
[ Post Reply | Private Reply | To 732 | View Replies]


Navigation: use the links below to view more comments.
first previous 1-20 ... 781-800801-820821-840 ... 1,021-1,026 next last

Disclaimer: Opinions posted on Free Republic are those of the individual posters and do not necessarily represent the opinion of Free Republic or its management. All materials posted herein are protected by copyright law and the exemption for fair use of copyrighted works.

Free Republic
Browse · Search
Religion
Topics · Post Article

FreeRepublic, LLC, PO BOX 9771, FRESNO, CA 93794
FreeRepublic.com is powered by software copyright 2000-2008 John Robinson