Unfortunately, many wives these days are disgustingly overweight and have a terrible attitude.
Is it any wonder their husbands shun them? They’re going online to look at Megan Fox, not Jabba the Hut.
Pornography use is often the symptom of a much larger problem. (Pun intended.)
I definitely agree with the attitude on a lot of women and thought about that when I posted what I did. Because of the depressed attitude that many women have — they do tend to overeat and therefore become overweight.
And believe after a certain age the weight comes off much more slowly than it did when I was younger. LOL!
I hear ya with the terrible anti-male attitude. I hear it from other women, and it's a shame, acting like sex with their husbands is one more odious duty in their day. That is WRONG and while cheating or porn addiction is wrong, I can understand the man giving up when he is pushed away and belittled for his healthy desires.
But I can't agree with you on the weight issue. Believe it or not, is can be healthier for an older woman to have more meat on her bones -- and after a certain age it may be nearly impossible without surgery to remain with the 20-year-old figure. And the guys at that age are also not always as trim as they once were. As long as the lady is only eating healthy foods, and getting some moderate exercise, she shouldn't have to constantly worry about her weight for her loving husband.
Unfortunately, many wives these days are disgustingly overweight and have a terrible attitude.
Is it any wonder their husbands shun them?
I don't want to take anyone to task here, but I want to make certain I understand some of the sentiments that are being expressed.
We aren't actually saying that men succumb to sexual perversion because their wives are fat are we? I present for your consideration the case of one Tiger "Idiot" Woods.
Pornography is just as much a perversion of the proper use of sex as any other sexual sin and suggesting that since men are allegedly more visually stimulated it's somehow a corollary of the "no fat chicks" rule is not acceptable. We're still doing this after all this time: "And Adam said: The woman, whom thou gavest me to be my companion, gave me of the tree, and I did eat." Blaming our women for our own faults. In the sanitized words of Richard Pryor "How long, O Lord! How long will this 'nonsense' go on?" Marriage isn't the cohabitation of two people, marriage is the union of two halves of a whole. That's why homosexuals can't do it at all and the rest of us can't do it serially.
If your definition of marriage stops at cohabitation for mutual benefit then ok, good luck with your civilization collapsing around your ears.
There can be no such thing as "pornography use", there is only "pornography abuse". It's not like alcohol, or food, or television, or computer games or anything else that can either be used or abused. Therefore there is nothing that justifies or mitigates its abuse.
"I'm hungry" ok eat.
"I'm tired" ok sleep.
"I'm bored" ok play.
"I'm thirsty" ok drink.
"My wife is a land whale"... ok Lesbian Spank Inferno?
Jill: How could you possibly enjoy a film like that?That may be hilarious social commentary... come to think of it, it might even be true, but it's fundamentally wrong.
Steve: Because it's got naked women in it. Look, I like naked women. I'm a bloke. I'm supposed to like them. We're born like that. We like naked women as soon as we're pulled out of one. Halfway down the birth canal we're already enjoying the view. Look, it is the four pillars of the male heterosexual psyche. We like naked women, stockings, lesbians, and Sean Connery best as James Bond. Because that is what being a boy is. And if you don't like it darling, join a film collective. Look, I want to spend the rest of my life with the woman at the end of that table there. But that does not stop me wanting to see several thousand more naked bottoms before I die. Because that's what being a bloke is. When man invented fire, he didn't say, "Hey, let's cook." He said, "Great! Now we can see naked bottoms in the dark. As soon as Gutenberg invented the printing press, we were using it to make pictures of, hey, naked bottoms. We've turned the Internet into an enormous international database of naked bottoms. So, you see, the story of male achievement through the ages, feeble though it may have been, has been the story of our struggle to get a better look at your bottoms. Frankly, girls, I'm not sure how insulted you really ought to be.
A wife who does not make an effort to keep her husband sexually satisfied, should not be shocked when he turns to other ways to satisfy his needs. If he's getting laid less than once a week, then don't be surprised if he decides to look at alternative means of release.
I have news for you. It’s not just men who are visually oriented. I am a VERY visually oriented woman and I have never used pornography. If I can do it, so can any man. Gender is not an excuse for immoral behavior. Men and women are equally accountable before God.
Perhaps being a straight male you have not noticed this, but men are a lot heavier today than they were 50 years ago too. Yet women make up only a third of porn viewers. Why is that? Could it be that they remember that marriage is supposed to be a union for life “for better or worse, in sickness and in health” as opposed to the men who put their unrealistic fantasies and expectations before the emotional wellbeing of their wives?
It is men like you that make lesbianism and sadism so attractive to women. And then you wonder where all the hot girls are!