I have news for you. It’s not just men who are visually oriented. I am a VERY visually oriented woman and I have never used pornography. If I can do it, so can any man. Gender is not an excuse for immoral behavior. Men and women are equally accountable before God.
Perhaps being a straight male you have not noticed this, but men are a lot heavier today than they were 50 years ago too. Yet women make up only a third of porn viewers. Why is that? Could it be that they remember that marriage is supposed to be a union for life “for better or worse, in sickness and in health” as opposed to the men who put their unrealistic fantasies and expectations before the emotional wellbeing of their wives?
It is men like you that make lesbianism and sadism so attractive to women. And then you wonder where all the hot girls are!
I have news for you. It’s not just men who are visually oriented. I am a VERY visually oriented woman
Most women care about status, social dominance, and to some extent money. Weight is not necessarily a disqualifier. Think Tony Soprano (or the fat guy who plays him).
Of course there are exceptions to every rule.
And then you wonder where all the hot girls are!
They are mostly slurping empty calories at Starbucks, hell-bent on destroying the best asset that God gave them. Honestly, it's heartbreaking to watch.