Posted on 10/23/2010 8:32:58 PM PDT by Salvation
The rulse say “no profanity” - as well as “no personal attacks”. You just broke two of the three simple posting rules.
Jim Rob seems to be OK with the gutter language that increasingly appears here. I am not.
I am glad to you are blessed with such a loving husband.
I have a friend whod drop-dead gorgeous. About 15 years into her marriage, her husband became addicted to porn. He started pressuring her into weird sex. The he started ignoring her. Finally he had an affair with a woman who would amuse his fantasies.
Yes, porn destroys marriages.
My husband is a prude when it comes to porn and I am so grateful for that! (Whenever he sees a girls gone wild commercial he thinks about our daughter doing these things and gets sick.)
Last winter I became very ill. I ended up gaining 30 pounds (on top of the 30 I was already overpacking). As sick as I was, it was the weight that I felt the most horrible about. Its taken me six months to take off that last 30 and Im still working on it.
Never once did my husband make me feel less. Not once did he make me feel unattractive. Knowing that I was always beautiful in his eyes gave me the strength to get my weight and health under control. There is no better motivation than feeling loved.
Had my husband become accustomed to only reacting to young, thin women, I dont think our marriage wouldve survived. Heck, I wouldnt have survived if he turned me away when I was doing my best. I needed loving comfort and acceptance when my body was falling apart.
There really does not seem to have been a time before porn in human history. Some of our oldest know texts were porn and pornographic images. And porn does involve using their imagination.
You have a one in a million, I guess. Keep up the good work, but remember that if the medication you take makes you gain weight, is it worth jeopardizing your health just to look a certain way? Is your worth only measured by the measure of your waistline? do years of service to your family get negated now because you have this problem? Is his satisfaction the only thing that matters?
btw...I’m going to enjoy my Sunday..feel free to breastbeat
I would not be surprised if a few people could become addicted to porn, like some people are predisposed to become addicted to alcohol.
Doesn't mean the rest of us can't have an occasional beer without any problems resulting.
Leave the thread.
A wife who does not make an effort to keep her husband sexually satisfied, should not be shocked when he turns to other ways to satisfy his needs. If he's getting laid less than once a week, then don't be surprised if he decides to look at alternative means of release.
Watch dancing slave girls?
Some times it is. I hear guys complain because their wife "just isn't interested any more" and I have to wonder if they have ever thought it is because they don't bother to interest her.
The guy that takes the time to get his wife warmed up and then takes the time afterwords to snuggle is going to get a lot more "happy sex" then the guy who is a "roll on, roll off" kind of guy.
There is also the other side of the coin in that a woman needs to make sure she makes time for her husband. Don't wait for him to make all the moves. Send the kids to mom and have a wonderful evening rolling around on the living room rug.
Spontaneity is nice but a well planned seduction says "I was thinking of you even when you were not here". That is a major turn on.
With all the information available out there from sex manuals to porn you would think that people know everything they need to be fantastic lovers. Weirdly enough the more they know the less they seem to use it.
Hey, by the way, didn’t notice this was a Religion Thread. I try to keep my goofin’ around down on those — you know, give respect and all. Sorry you had to ‘mod’ my comment, it was appropriate to remove it.
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IMHO, it is a tool of the left to destroy the fabric of America, and destroy the family unit, placing itself (big gov) as the head of the household.
Encouraging us (I include myself in us) to obey the posting rules is "breastbeating"? All righty.....
It is true. Men are hardwired for polygamy (produce as many offspring as possible) and women are hardwired for hypergamy (produce the most fit offspring possible). Let people follow their base instincts and you'll wind up with a miserable, primitive, unstable society. And a crapload of starving babies.
(Hey, sounds a lot like our urban centers these days, doesn't it.)
This is precisely why it is so important to have a civilization rooted in Judeo-Christian values which encourage traditional marriage, faithfulness, and obedience to one's husband.
We aren't actually saying that men succumb to sexual perversion because their wives are fat are we? I present for your consideration the case of one Tiger "Idiot" Woods.
People do things for different reasons so it's hard to generalize. There's an enormous difference between a steamy affair with an attractive cocktail waitress, and sitting all alone in front of your computer staring at pictures. It is reasonable to expect that men who have normal, functioning, non-repulsive partners use pornography at a relatively low rate.
It is extremely common for wealthy and powerful men to take advantage of the opportunities afforded to them. Temptation haunts them every second of the day, and all they have to do is say "yes" and it's theirs.
I’m curious what happened to his collection. If I could borrow it....uhhhh....for research purposes only of course.
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