Posted on 04/26/2017 12:33:50 PM PDT by EveningStar
...Ladies, don't ever do the following five things for a man — or for anyone.
1. Change your appearance...
2. Compromise your passions...
3. Wait for his approval...
4. Cancel already-set plans...
5. Let him change who you are...
(Excerpt) Read more at popsugar.com ...
Mainly the benzodiazepines (e.g. Valium) and selective serotonin reuptake inhibitors (e.g. Prozac).
Take some of each daily, along with a chaser of feminist misandry, and you will never, ever have to take responsibility for your own actions again!
ROFL!
Truly strong women are comfortable in their own skin and don’t need to re-mold a man to prove how strong they are.
Strong women are freaking retarded.
Strong Bourbon on the other hand.
But that one goes both ways. As a male, I’m admitting it.
Both should want to stay attractive for the other.
No, Nicole. Your ass makes those jeans look fat.
strong men will change and improve women. In one way or another i have asked my wife to do everything miss wang has said not to do. Her “strong” woman is a weak woman and anti G-d.
Ah yes, another inner city liberal member of the slutterati telling women just the opposite of what it takes for happiness and fulfillment.
“Accept ‘child’ support well after ‘child’ turns 18”
“Trash talk dad and alienate him from the child(ren)”
A man marries a woman hoping she'll never change, and she always does.
I missed Prager today but I see I agree with him. To a point. I always wish I could ask Dennis, about the all-important women looking great for their man, which is a very high priority for him, if a man is ok getting a new younger wife every so often to keep up the young hottie in the bed thing. Like he did. And I adore his wife very much. She is a great person. But he did marry thrice.
Women should consider their man, and they should attempt to stay nice looking for him etc. Women can change in mild ways for their man. Do they chatter too much? Have habits that bug him? Both sexes can alter some things for their mates. Be considerate.
But the author has a huge point that we can’t forget. There are a lot of people with borderline personality disorder out there, often women, who Merge with their new man so much they lose any self. So if that is you, think about it and try to seek information about how people cope with borderline on their own. It’s the one personality issue (comes from childhood) that THERAPY DOESNT HELP. Well, sociopathy is only minimally helped by therapy but that is another story. The infrastructure of therapy MAKES BORDERLINE WORSE in some cases. Just thought I’d mention that.
Also, too young girls are ALL “borderline” because they don’t know who to be, yet. Which is why no one but another 15 year old should have a relationship with a 15 year old girl. It’s ok for a young teen to surround herself for a few months with her guy’s favorite music, sports, hobbies. Wearing his hoodie to school, etc. It’s normal at that age. For both of them.
Because everyone KNOWS "passions" are legitimate by definition....
But the man must:
1. Change his appearance...
2. Compromise his passions...
3. Wait for your approval...
4. Cancel already-set plans...
5. Change who he is...
A man who does # 2 through 5 is labeled an insensitive jerk who runs roughshod over his wife. A man who doesn’t take his wife’s suggestions on improving his appearance is labeled a slob who doesn’t care about his wife. Marriage is compromise, period. Both sides have to compromise. This Nicole Yi either isn’t in healthy relationships or is only in relationships with men she can control.
BINGO!
Everyting miss wang has, uses or owns was created and built by a man. You owe your pathetic existence to men.
Once children are involved if your passion is, for example, base jumping off tops of buildings, you will probably be asked to dial that back a notch, no matter how supportive and loving your wife is. You might be asked to not work weekends. Maybe golfing every weekend makes it hard for her to manage the kids on her own and she asks you to go earlier in the day or maybe not every weekend. Whatever. If people want to do whatever we want without any pushback ever, don't get married. If you do choose marriage, spouse gets a vote or at least gets to bend your ear over it. And frankly that cuts both way no matter what the shrew who wrote the original article thinks.
NEVER let your husband use the intern as a cigar humidor!
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