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A rare victory for common sense. I wonder if the court would have ruled the same way if Baby Mama had been trying to get child support?
1 posted on 10/25/2014 11:56:33 AM PDT by Slings and Arrows
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To: Slings and Arrows
something is not quite right with this sentence

"and learned about the baby only after it was born, "
2 posted on 10/25/2014 12:01:28 PM PDT by stylin19a (Obama ----> Fredo smart)
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To: Slings and Arrows

Courts are messed up as is our society. Even, apparently, conservatives.

He has no more rights than a dog and being told, in however manner, was a courtesy.


4 posted on 10/25/2014 12:12:19 PM PDT by ifinnegan
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“A rare victory for common sense.”

Why does he have any right.

He is not married to her.

He is not even with her.

He is nothing.


5 posted on 10/25/2014 12:13:30 PM PDT by ifinnegan
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If someone posted a message on face book meant for me, I wouldn’t get it either. I don’t even read text messages. If someone wants to tell me something, they can use the same phone they are texting with to call me.


6 posted on 10/25/2014 12:15:19 PM PDT by Graybeard58 (Fear God, and keep his commandments: for this is the whole duty of man. Eccl 12 V.13)
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I hope and pray he didn’t take the baby away from its true adoptive parents.

Men should keep their sperm to themselves, unless they’ve got plans for the child they might create.


7 posted on 10/25/2014 12:15:21 PM PDT by Yaelle
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To: Slings and Arrows
“Why would Facebook be any less reliable than other forms of electronic communication?” wrote Justice James Winchester in a dissenting opinion joined by two other justices. “Does the Court require a face-to-face confrontation with witnesses? Face-to-face discussions can be denied; letters can remain unopened; and faxes can be lost.”

Sorry, I usually agree with you but in this case I agree with the dissenting judges. He was informed.

And what is he planing on doing now?

Take the child and raise her?

She is two and has been in a settled home since birth.

I would be against taking the child away from her parents at this point.

16 posted on 10/25/2014 12:35:49 PM PDT by Harmless Teddy Bear (Proud Infidel, Gun Nut, Religious Fanatic and Freedom Fiend)
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I think it is a very sad yet serious situation for the little boy. People should be more responsible in these relationships and this is one reason being why. It’s a blessing the woman carried the baby. I don’t know what to say, hopefully they will allow the child to stay with the adoptive mom and dad because it would be very hard on the child now. I really feel for the father in some points though, I hope all adults put the child’s happiness and well being first. I have to say, this dad is not fully excused here himself for being in a relationship casually so, I don’t know if I am at a point to just say he has a blanket right to get the little boy in his custody. It’s clear the father and mother didn’t have a good trust in one another from the start.


17 posted on 10/25/2014 12:35:51 PM PDT by Christie at the beach
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To: Slings and Arrows; Lazmataz

Laz. I’m pregnant.


19 posted on 10/25/2014 12:42:13 PM PDT by Diana in Wisconsin (I don't have 'Hobbies.' I'm developing a robust Post-Apocalyptic skill set...)
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To: Slings and Arrows

Fact of the matter is, more than any Obama or Democrat leftist can dream of, these type of men who will impregnate a woman and leave her before he even knows if she is pregnant have caused the harm to our society we experience today.


28 posted on 10/25/2014 1:06:50 PM PDT by ifinnegan
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Ironically, if the whore of a mother had aborted, the situation would not be as complicated. Now, the man whore must battle with the adopters.


33 posted on 10/25/2014 1:15:35 PM PDT by sagar
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I would think that the court would require an acknowledgement from the father that he was aware of the child and was willing to waive his rights to custody.

I mean, what did this woman do, just state she had told him? Print out the facebook message?

None of that makes sense to me.


35 posted on 10/25/2014 1:21:34 PM PDT by jocon307
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“I wonder if the court would have ruled the same way if Baby Mama had been trying to get child support?”

Good question! Government agencies would have done whatever it takes to track the quy down, and be sure he got the “message”. Why didn’t the courts insist on some proof of notice to the father, before awarding the child to adoptive parents? This could have been done in several ways: registered mail, process server — even by email or Facebook, if there were a confirming reply.

Fathers have responsibilities for their children — regardless of marital status. If fathers have the responsibility of paying child support; isn’t the flip side of that responsibility some modicum of parental rights?


50 posted on 10/25/2014 1:48:34 PM PDT by USFRIENDINVICTORIA
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To: Slings and Arrows

This makes no sense. In order to adopt biodad has to sign off on the adoption and agree to loss of parental rights. The courts insist.


61 posted on 10/25/2014 2:51:03 PM PDT by Chickensoup (Leftist totalitarian fascism is on the move.)
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