Maybe it's that simple. My sister-in-law told me of a lady she knew at work who just got married at Age 49 -- first time -- to a guy who's fifty-something -- first time for both. Apparently there are many stories about his difficulty getting the nerve together to ask for that first date! And they seem quite happy together. So there are exceptions to the rule.
I think part of what happens is that, as we mature, we not only lose our physical appeal but we also get more particular about mates -- more set in our ways. Twenty years ago, I'd date a girl who was a smoker. Not now. Twenty years ago, I'd take a chance on a woman who was uncomfortable in sports cars, unwilling to fly in small planes... I'd figure I could win her over. Not now. I am a crusty old curmudgeon, and appeal to nobody.
But I'm cool with that.
d.o.l.
Criminal Number 18F
I hear you. I'd love to be in a relationship again, but I've been a widow for 15 years (I was widowed in my 30s) and kinda set in my ways. I don't know who could stand a right wing, colored gal, rock and roll nut.
On the other hand, if you like rock (I'm downloading music from iTunes as we speak) and home cooking, maybe we could be housemates? : )
When you're in your twenties, you are willing to put up with a lot if it will get you laid. As the hormones cool off, it becomes less of an issue