Posted on 03/14/2006 11:28:51 AM PST by KevinNuPac
Terri's Day challenges the nation to unify
Kevin Fobbs
March 13, 2006
Terri's Day — A Celebration of the Culture of Life honoring Terri Schiavo with a day of remembrance challenges each and every one of us to stop for a moment and ask ourselves a question, do we respect ourselves, our families, our lives?
And if we are faced with the question of the possible certainty of death, does anyone truly know, or even have the faintest clue about, our wishes? That is the greatest good, the greatest legacy that Terri Schiavo's death and an annual "Terri's Day" can bring to our lives and to the celebration of the Culture of Life.
On March 18th, we as a nation will begin to grieve again, to reach into our hearts and feel with our collective national spirit what the Schindler family felt last year at this time as each moment since Terri was disconnected from the feeding lifeline, the moments crept by like hours and hours like days.
All of us have felt in some way that pain — even if it were only in the privacy of our loved one's home, hospital room, hospice or perhaps talking with an attorney and doctor attempting to make sense out of some fleeting comments made in a conversation perhaps voiced ten, twelve or even two decades earlier — not necessarily an expression of her true feeling about an end-of-life decision but merely an incidental musing in a long-forgotten side conversation.
For at least one million Americans, and quite possibly a whole lot more, this is an opportunity to voice an opinion through a pledge supporting a resolution in each state called "Terri's Day — A Celebration of the Culture of Life." Each and every person who cares that your family, your spouse, your mother, your father, your sister or brother understands with clarity what you wish the end of life for you to be, with dignity and certainty should sign the online pledge at www.kevinfobbs.com and take the additional step to sign a Living Will — or as they call it at www.terrisfight.org, the Will to Live.
Some have asked why Americans should care about an annual Terri's Day. It is quite simple, we tend to keep turning the page on the Culture of Life because we feel it does not affect us. We tend to believe that seemingly universal belief that those who are handicapped, those who are not quite living a "perfect" life or by contemporary notion "ideal" then those lives are possibly disposable, marginal, not relevant, and part of the Culture of Death which embraces a "disposable society."
But life and our values for the Culture of Life are not disposable. Think about the young people today who would rather hurt themselves or even take their own lives rather than feel "imperfect" or the elderly person whose family is told by an insensitive health care professional while the stricken person struggles to cling to life, "she would be better off in another place," — just let her die, disconnect her from life, because her quality of life is not up to "contemporary standards. "
Why does celebrating the Culture of Life in Michigan become so essential for all of us in America? It is important for several reasons. Dr. Jack Kervorkian, also known as "Doctor Death" helped launch first in Michigan and then the nation the notion of the death culture. Secondly, and equally as important, at the May 12 event — just two days before Mother's Day — there will also be a "Mary's Moms" celebration of those women and mothers who have met challenges in standing up for some aspect of the Culture of Life.
This past weekend I sat at my cousin's funeral — or going home celebration, which more accurately describes it — thinking about the dearly departed and how she packed so much caring for others into her life even as she struggled with illness and advancing age. She was a wonderful woman who had lived through many, many challenges in her life, but in her 73 years she had met these challenges with dignity and had conveyed to her family when would be the right time to allow her to pass away.
Her daughter, who is a minister, spoke to the packed church about the times when, with all of her pain and then a stroke, the doctors had informed them that perhaps it was better to let her go. Yet that was three years ago that that occurred, and if the family had listened to the doctors and refused to see how she fought back and not only recovered but went back to volunteering at the church to feed and clothe the homeless. The medical professionals didn't care about an elderly lady who was on dialysis, but the family did and they knew better. Patricia lived three more years — years her extensive extended family considered "a gift from God."
So isn't part of the lesson of Terri's legacy and Terri's Day for families and loved ones to have a meaningful conversation with their family and to have the written document on hand as well that conveys the wishes clearly and concisely? You betcha.
As I sat in the church I thought of all of the families across the nation and the world who were sitting at their loved one's bedsides — or even standing outside of a hospital emergency room — overwhelmed with emotion, torn by what may be days of conflicting anguished decisions. I thought again of how out of death we may have the certainty of life. Terri's death reminded the nation that yes a state can and will starve you to death, and your family may be rendered helpless as you watch your loved one's precious life forces drain slowly away.
By signing the online pledge at www.kevinfobbs.com or going to www.terrisfight.org, you can learn about how to encourage your state legislature to establish March 31st as an official Terri's Day. Hold a Culture of Life Home Party or meet-and-greet to sign pledges, share ideas and support The Terri Schindler Schiavo Foundation as well as Culture of Life activities and events in your community or around the nation. Between now and March 31st you can make a dramatic difference for yourself, your family and for the nation. Stand up for the Culture of Life because one person, one life, one family can and does make a difference in America. Make the difference and be the difference today. America...The countdown for the Culture of Life has begun.
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Kevin Fobbs is President of National Urban Policy Action Council (NuPac), a non-partisan civic and citizen-action organization that focuses on taking the politics out of policy to secure urban America's future one neighborhood, one city, and one person at a time. View NuPac on the web at www.nupac.info. Kevin Fobbs is a regular contributing columnist for the Detroit News. He is also the daily host of The Kevin Fobbs Show on News Talk WDTK - 1400 AM in Detroit. Listen to The Kevin Fobbs Show online at www.wdtkam.com daily 2-3 p.m., and call in toll-free nationwide to make your opinion count at 800-923-WDTK(9385) © Copyright 2006 by Kevin Fobbs http://www.renewamerica.us/columns/fobbs/060313
"People"? The story is that they are cabbages.
Would that important work be, beating more students to death? Obviously he doesn't think his work includes arresting murderers, even if they are on his own staff.
If Ms. Vo is in better shape than Andrea was, I'm glad to have that information. Lenore is turning her grief into compassion and concern for another innocent in the Texas "system".
REFUSE EVIL. I am.
Why didn't I hear number 2 through 4? When someone is numbering talking points, shouldn't they keep the numbering going?
When Terri was abandoned, I thought it was roman empire all over again. One year later it turns out I was right. Terri wasn't just an isolated discardation of the Constitution!
Now more will flood to the border because Bush pretty much promised illegals HOME OWNERSHIP.
I don't think this is off topic because imo Terri was the first very public sign that real Americans were getting short sheeted by the country.
The blind sheik greer is going to guide the media to become proficient (as if they need it) on how to help the death worshippers kill more people more easily so he doesn't have to have actual hearings.
DOES JUDGE GREER HAVE COURT CASE ANY MORE? Since he is legally blind, when does he find the time to review cases, consult the media and travel the country, possibly the world on his MAGICAL MYSTERY DEATH TOUR?
Lock him up. www.judgegeorgegreer.com
Key question. Get your wishes down in writing, with copies to several people. That way, there can be no question about what you want, and none of your 'loved ones' can manipulate the system to get what they want.
You're wrong.
That's my entire post. Cutting my post in half changes its meaning. Terri was murdered and the so called defenders of the Constitution let it happen.
If they think there's going to be a Jeb/Hil ticket for pres and VP, they're not getting my vote.
No, it wasn't your entire post. Most of your post was about illegal immigration. That's not what this thread is about.
I was astounded to find that hospitals are the filthiest places to be in. Did he get MRSA? Antibiotics don't work on that germ. My mom contacted that in the second to the last place she was in. That "rehab" place. The sick thing was, no one called me, and we all trooped over there. All, including my very pregnant daughter. The bleeping nurse thought it was funny. So we all were exposed to it. Any chance that this was what he was infected with?
I cannot imagine how bad they feel. They have my prayers.
Freedom for illegals but Terri got death. She was an American and they are not. You have no idea how involved the gop was w/Terri's barbaric death. The Constitution is on life support.
What could they have done, and please site lines in the constitution or the laws which give them the power to do as you think they should have.
By the way, the thread still isn't about illegal immigration.
By the way, that's not what this thread is about :-)
The thread is about Terri. It was claimed that the 'Bushes didn't do enough.' So asking for proof that they had the power to do anything is off topic?
Then obviously, the claim that the Bushes didn't do enough is off topic as well. :)
We interupt this regularly scheduled program to remind you that today is the one year anniversary of the death of Mae Maguirk. While we mourned her passing, we took comfort in the knowledge that we prevented the eugenics fanatics from murdering her.
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Then write about Terri.
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