Sunday Morning Talk Show Thread 22 January 2006

Various big media television networks ^ | 22 January 2006 | Various Self-Serving Politicians and Big Media Screaming Faces

[Alas Babylon!]

The Talk Shows

Sunday, January 22nd, 2006

Guests to be interviewed today on major television talk shows:

FOX NEWS SUNDAY (Fox Network): Sens. John McCain, R-Ariz., and Richard Durbin, D-Ill.; University of Maryland's men's basketball coach Gary Williams.

MEET THE PRESS (NBC): Sen. Barack Obama, D-Ill.

FACE THE NATION (CBS): Sens. Pat Roberts, R-Kan., and Joe Lieberman, D-Conn.

THIS WEEK (ABC): John Kerry, D-Mass.; Reps. Peter Hoekstra, R-Mich., and Jane Harman, D-Calif., chairman and ranking Democrat of the House Intelligence Committee; actor Gary Sinise.

LATE EDITION (CNN) : Sens. George Allen, R-Va., and Charles Schumer, D-N.Y.; Pakistani Prime Minister Shaukat Aziz; formerUnited Nations Ambassador Richard Holbrooke; former Secretary of State Lawrence Eagleburger; South Korean Foreign Minister Ban Ki-moon.

[maica]

I would hope that at least one of America's intelligence agencies is monitoring what American Friends Service Committee groups are planning in their "peaceful" "activism."

[Arizona Carolyn]

Except George Clooney brought it into every household watching the Golden Globes last week, causing distress for Abramoff's 12-year-old daughter leading his father to write a scathing letter to the editor and to Nick Clooney to complain about Clooney's uncalled for comments...

[bray]

Except Pat Paulsen (RIP), is literally dead

So he still has a better sense of humor than Yaaawn!

Pray for W and Our Freedom Fighters

[eeevil conservative]

LOL! Sorry-- I did take that in a totally different direction than your point....
sorry!

Well, my son is licking woulds today...his GF broke up with him, and his Broncos just lost.....tough day for him....

Just for fun- since it is a FOTTBALL day- I will post this other ditty I wrote too--( yes, I am a football fan. I was scared to death when my son wanted to play, because I don't know anything about the politics of football, etc...I have since learned that the BEST moments, and the BEST lessons for his life have come from him playing football in high school..)

I'll post that other piece in a minute...

[eeevil conservative]

RUDY!


To say that being a mother is the hardest job in the world is so cliche. It is said so often that we really don't give it any thought. Most people think about the hours, and the selflessness put into it and miss the REAL meaning of the statement. Even us mothers nod, and know it's true, we don't often spend time thinking about what TRULY makes the job of being a mother so hard. Today was one of those days that helped to put this old cliche back into focus for me.

My son is 16. He is kinda little for his age compared to the other kids at school, and it is especially noticeable when he steps out onto the football field (or stands on the sidelines). He's a Junior this year- and it is his FIRST year playing football. He is very athletic, built and cut well, but still pretty small and quite inexperienced in organized sports, let alone FOOTBALL! He comes home each day after practice and shares how much he lifted, how many 40 yrd sprints he won (6 out of 15 he came in first- he is pretty fast). He plays wingback, but would LOVE to play safety or wide receiver, and with his speed and ability to jump- he would fair pretty well in those positions. But with his size and just starting to play his Junior year, he truly lacks the self-confidence and experience to SHINE.

I am a typical mom, and think everything he does is awesome and I am very proud. I see the talent he possesses quite easily. I also see the tender ego and heart of a 16 year old boy that grew up without his father in his life until he was 14, and how he struggles to find the man inside of him. I see how he measures himself by others. It is normal for 16 year old boys to go through this, but it also breaks my heart. It is particularly painful because I know that no matter how well-adjusted he his, he still feels the sting from the abandonment of his father in his early years and the pain he has endured by my poor decisions.

His first scrimmage game was last Friday, and I was the typical mom, jumping out of my seat exclaiming "Kevin's on the field! Kevin's on the field!" the very first time I saw him run for a play. I laughed at myself, of course. His little sisters, 5 and 6, clamored at the fence yelling his name as he stood on the sidelines, and he graciously turned and smiled and waved. How nice of him not to get embarrassed and try to ignore them. It was such a relief to see his teammates think it was cute too, instead of razzing him over it.

But tonight was different. Tonight he looked agitated on the sidelines. He finally got to get in for one play- the second to last play of the game. It was at the other end of the field and since I was firmly planted in the front row, I really didn't get to see it. The game ended, and we waited by the locker room as he came to get out of uniform. I walked up to him, slapped him on the shoulder and said "Hey, All-Star!" He turned around to look at me, and I could see the fury all over his face. "What's wrong?" I asked. "I RAN INTO THE QUARTERBACK!" He snapped, and I saw the tears well up in his eyes. MY HEART SHATTERED!

How could I fix this? What do I do? What do I say? The mother in me wanted to grab him and hug him and tell him everything was okay, just let him cry. But THANK GOD I am a bit wiser than that, or am I? As my insides burned and my arms ached to hold him, I smiled and said, "Hey, at least you didn't get your hands on the ball and run to the wrong end zone." He rolled his eyes and tried to smile. "Shake it off! It was one play." I said "My ONLY PLAY." He mumbled, and he disappeared into the locker room.

I stood outside, waiting. I rocked back and forth wishing there were a man there to tell me how to handle this without destroying him. I mean, as parents. we just don't have all the answers. We are doing ALL we can just to not totally WRECK their lives. I knew this was a crossroad moment in his life. This young teenager, trying to be a man, had come to a point where how he handled this could effect how he handled failure the rest of his life, especially on the BIG things in his life. This was a moment that would set a pattern for so many things. At this age they hang their identity on things that nobody else ever remembers. OH- I NEEDED HELP! How do I ease the pain? How do I allow him the opportunity to feel the pain without adding to it, and at the same time help him keep this tiny moment in perspective? How do I make sure he doesn't let this moment haunt him or define him without belittling how he feels?

This was truly a moment that required an academy award-winning performance from me, and the wisdom of ANYONE BUT ME! As my heart broke, my mind raced for the answer on what to do. I racked my brain, trying to think of a man I could call in for reinforcements. Okay, to be totally I honest- I was trying to think of a man that I could hand this whole thing over to and say- "Please fix this! I am afraid to touch it! I'll mess it all up! Here- YOU TAKE IT! PLEASE!" Finally I calmed down and the answer came to me.

He came out of the locker room and we walked to the car. On the way, I asked him if the coach said anything to him about it. This is when he explained that the coach sent in 3 guys. 2 wingbacks and a tailback- but no fullback. The quarterback told my son to play fullback. So, of course, he had NO IDEA WHAT HE WAS SUPPOSED TO DO OR WHERE HE WAS SUPPOSED TO GO! When he came off the field, the coach asked him, "What happened?" My son told him. The coach said, "Oh, my bad," and just shrugged it off. I just laughed and said "Well, that's cool. If the coach said 'My bad' then no worries." "But it was my ONLY play." was all he could say. But that was okay, I had a plan. "I got surprise for you." I told him.

We all piled into the car and I headed to Hollywood Video. I ran in and came out with a bag of movies. When we got home, I called my dad to tell him what happened, how I handled it, and what I was about to do, as my son took a shower. Thank GOD, my dad agreed. I had spent some time on the way home sharing with him some of my most embarrassing moments, and explained to him that he would live through it, and this moment just didn't define him and not to let it haunt him. My dad thought it was great that I didn't make it a BIG deal, despite my urge to coddle him and help him lick his wounds. Treating it like just another funny moment in life was pretty good. He was also thrilled with the next step. My son got out of the shower, and we sat down to watch "RUDY."

We laughed, we cried, and we cheered. As we read the little message at the end about how NO ONE had been carried off the Notre Dame field since 1975, my son looked at me and said "AMAZING MOVIE." He hugged me tight and said "Thanks mom!"

He then got on his computer and checked his zenga (OY!), kissed me goodnight and went off to bed. Right now he is laying in bed, drifting off to sleep. He has no idea that I just had one of the most TERRIFYING nights of my life, and I am PRAYING that I didn't just do EVERYTHING WRONG as a mother. He has no inkling that I hope I was a good mom tonight, and that it may be 20 years before I ever find out if I fumbled, or made a game winning Hail Mary catch in the end zone with 2 seconds on the clock. Chances are, I did neither. Chances are, I made a simple play that either gained a few yards or lost a few yards on the vast field of his life. As parents we get in a LOT of plays. But for THIS ONE HUGE MOMENT in his life, it was MY ONLY PLAY of the game.

[2rightsleftcoast]

You and me both. I hate the power player of the week segment. It's stupid and borrrrring. Would love more panel discussion instead.

[samantha]

Well Tell me now how long before the Kickoff (oopsey I mean the start) of 24? Would it help if The Play by play was done by Jack and Chloe sang the National Anthem?

[rodguy911]

Now that I would watch!! Less than 26 hours for 24!!

[rodguy911]

Great post slapshot.
There is no doubt in my mind at all the the msm/dnc media will sell out McPain in a hearbeat.
I have been saying that same thing all week.Like minds. The minute he crosses the line from "rino guest so we can pretend to be fair and balanced" to contender, he's out.

[Txsleuth]

Great story,...YOU are a terrific MOM!!!

I never had that particular problem...my son HATED sports..LOL

[rodguy911]

Welcome to fr Doug.

[sauropod]

Yes. He represents the school well. Far better than Connie Chung or Kiran Chetry, IMO.

[samantha]

I know but that is where they all seem to play. Charlotte seems to be the only game in town so to speak.

[samantha]

Football gives you training,discipline and camaraderie, and lasting friendships. You know that if you do not do your job, your team will probably lose, and your Coach,your teammates, the fans, and most of all your Mama will be highly and seriously annoyed with you. The really good point is that you can be a hero and have fame and fortune or be a worthless screwup and the goat of the game, and maybe the Season. Military life is similar, but if you muck up it may cost you or your fellow Soldiers their lives.

[csmusaret]

They play some football in Columbia SC too. Basketball is big in Durham, Chapel Hill, and Raleigh. They had a national championship football team in Boone this year. And Mint Hill is the home of the State Champion high school football champions for the fith year in a row; or is it 6,I lose track.

[USN40VET]

I wish more people shared your philosophy about life and raising children.

Thanks for posting your article.

[mjaneangels@aolcom]

""For Once In Your Lives Tell The Freakin' Truth!"

You got my vote on that one.

[Seattle Conservative]

I'm sorry the Broncos lost. But, I'm Sooooooooo happy the Seahawks are going to the Superbowl for the first time!!!

[A.Hun]

Congrats on the win SC. Your guys played great, mine had the worst game of the season.

My wife's cousin is from Washington St, and was thrilled also that they made it to the Superbowl for the first time in 22 years.

I'll be pulling for Seattle in the Super Bowl...at least I can claim then that the Panthers lost to the SB chapions!

[Christian4Bush]

Paulsen BUMP