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Porn Is Like Heroin In The Brain
Focus On The Family ^ | Nov. 19, 2004 | Stuart Shepard

Posted on 11/19/2004 3:07:51 PM PST by Lindykim

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To: Ksnavely

(a) I'm not saying anyone in particular here does that - although a number of you support the practice rabidly. By supporting the rights of others to do the same, you are sharing the responsibility.

(b) No, I do not engage in either of those practices, JFYI.

I am speaking about the cultural acceptance* (and forced legal acceptance) of all-pervasive pornography. If men don't masturbate while watching porn, why do those "adult" movie shops offer private booths?

No, I've never been in one. But anyone can see them as they drive or walk around towns.

*Although it would be very interesting to find out what percentage of a given population - the country as a whole, particular states or communities - want the continued legalization of porn, and what percentage want to see some restrictions.


481 posted on 11/26/2004 9:17:23 AM PST by little jeremiah (Moral absolutes are what make humans human.)
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To: little jeremiah; Modernman
I am sorry but that is a hasty conclusion to say that the moral of the story is that porn ruined this otherwise fine and descent man. What you suggest is that this man was upstanding, with no prior problems, until evil porn got ahold of him and corrupted him. Well this story does not address all the issues. Was this man always with drawn and incapable of reciprocating love (even before porn)? Were there any past traumatic events in his life? Was there any issues with the way women treated him (were the women he picked simply incapable with him thereby driving him away? There are so many more questions I could ask. To say that you know the sole cause of his problem is very presumptuous, and a gross oversimplification of what probably is a much more complex situation. The porn could have been the symptom of a much deeper problem instead of being the problem. Some people run from there problems with drugs, some with alcohol, some with sex. You don't solve the problem by getting rid of their escape by the help of the nanny state, you solve the problem by finding and fixing the root cause.
482 posted on 11/26/2004 9:20:33 AM PST by Ksnavely
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To: little jeremiah; Modernman
You like its purpose, and therefore, since you worship your own flickering desires, you deem it worthy.

That is quite the logical jump there. To be quite honest it is a logical jump that is false and shows that you are not listening to his argument at all. You cannot say that simply because he opposed your measure of government control and restriction on pornography that he is obsessed with it and is totally controlled by his desires. Have you considered that he may fear the potential ramifications of government regulating on free speech? Have you considered the fact that he may think there is a more effective way to stop pornography? No, you haven't, you have undeservedly wrote him off as some lunatic porn addict who does not want his vice taken away. I think you are cheapening this debate with that rhetoric and in all honestly making your side look bad. My advice to you would be to present your case in a more effective manner that does not make hasty and possibly erroneous assumptions about some one.
483 posted on 11/26/2004 9:29:54 AM PST by Ksnavely
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To: Long Cut

I am surprised that you do not consider Edmund Burke and Thomas Jefferson intellectual and moral superiors. I accept them as such. Will people be quoting your wise words two hundred years hence?

Of course, every soul is equal in the eyes of God. I am not saying those men (or any others) are inherently more worthy.

But as far as a deep understanding about the nature of human nature, society, government, and morality, they are in a different league than you, me, or any supporters of pornography here on this thread.

Regarding your feeling that all speech warrants protection, here are two thoughts for people reading this to consider:

1. Up until the leftist SCOTUS decided, with pressure from the leftist (as we all know) ACLU and pornography producers, that there was a right to porn under the Constitution that no one had ever known was there (kind of like the right to kill unborn babies that no one had known was there), porn was not even considered "speech". Naked dancers on stage is "speech"? The protected speech clause is meant for ideas - that no ideas or political or other points of view can be silenced.

1. There are many kinds of speech that do not have protection, as I mentioned above - slander, libel, false advertising, lying under oath, yelling "fire" in a crowded theater, speech that incites violence or treason, etc. I am not a lawyer so I don't necessarily know all the right terms and kinds. But any sane or rational person understands that some speech is not protected nor deserves protection.


484 posted on 11/26/2004 9:36:38 AM PST by little jeremiah (Moral absolutes are what make humans human.)
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To: Ksnavely

Read my comment above. I've made many rational and reasonable arguments on this thread, and so have others. But people who irrationally support pornography can't hear them.


485 posted on 11/26/2004 9:38:04 AM PST by little jeremiah (Moral absolutes are what make humans human.)
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To: Ksnavely

It would be very interesting if people could discuss topics like these without using libertarian code words.

But I guess that's too much to hope for.


486 posted on 11/26/2004 9:39:10 AM PST by little jeremiah (Moral absolutes are what make humans human.)
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To: little jeremiah
the various states, counties, cities and so on have no right to limit or restrict porn. They have a few little rights like porn shops can't be located within a certain number of feet from schools, or underage kids can't go buy it in "adult" shops.

That's not "no right to limit or restrict." Short of outright banning, what further restrictions would you want that the courts have forbidden?

But with porn all over the internet, it is inevitable that kids are exposed to it.

Unless parents do their job and monitor Internet use. Why should adults who want porn be restricted so parents don't have to do their jobs?

And a certain number of adults who indulge are then more likely to seek out children or adolescents as sex partners.

A certain number of adults use alcohol to work up their nerve to commit crimes, but I don't think that's a sufficient reason to ban alcohol; do you?

Another point is that by legalizing porn, the sexual content of all media including advertising is "dumbed down". We see yearly that explicit sexual content is more and more pervasive. The amorality crowd think this is fine, but it is not.

I don't think it's fine either, but I doubt it wouldn't have happened if porn had remained more restricted.

They (you?) say that if someone does't want porn in their life, they don't have to access it. That's the same arugment abortion proponents say - if you don't like abortion, don't have one.

Abortion violates a person's rights; porn made and viewed by consenting adults does not.

487 posted on 11/26/2004 9:40:10 AM PST by Know your rights (The modern enlightened liberal doesn't care what you believe as long as you don't really believe it.)
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To: little jeremiah; Modernman
"He wants everyone in the cesspool along with him."

No he doesn't. That is a total straw man there. No one (including Modernman) ever said that we want you to be viewing pornography along with the rest of the degenerates. In fact he and I have said the opposite numerous times.

"would not have it dangling in front of them"

Again you are mischaracterizing the issue. Porn is not dangling in front of anyone. You have to purposely choose to access it to obtain it.

"But now, being practically omnipresent"

again you are mischaracterizing the issue. It sounds to me like you think that porn is just everyone waiting to suck you in. Either you live in the playboy mansion, or you have a problem with self control. If you do not want to see pornography don't seek it out. Playboy magazines don't just jump into your lap, nor do porno movies sneak their way into your house, into your dvd player, and turn themselves on when you least expect. It sounds to me like your paranoid.
488 posted on 11/26/2004 9:47:49 AM PST by Ksnavely
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To: mdmathis6
"well I have to let even the pornographers have their say cause its free expression and that trumps even 3000 years of accepted morality."

That's not the argument; the argument is that "accepted morality" doesn't include using force to make others avoid immoral acts that violate no rights.

But it is the arguement in our country

Who's making that argument? I'm not.

Men are truly free only when they act within the dictates of their own God regenerated consciences.

Nobody proposes to make anyone view porn.

The thought consciousness that allows for porn in the first place is decidedly anti-religious and anti morality. It does not allow for Religious free expression

My pro-freedom argument allows for religious free expression.

The 18th century framers never envisioned the envelope being pushed this far with respect to the 1st amendment. Washington stated that "Religion and morality" were the "twin props on which our liberty rests"

Sorry, but generalities about morality aren't sufficient to show that the Framers didn't really mean what the plain language of the First Amendment says.

489 posted on 11/26/2004 9:49:36 AM PST by Know your rights (The modern enlightened liberal doesn't care what you believe as long as you don't really believe it.)
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To: little jeremiah; Modernman

So by that measure, anything that is unmoral should be outlawed. May I ask who gets to define what is moral? you keep pulling these quotes about morality then assigning them to your cause of abolishing pornography based on the assumption that since you believe it is immoral then it is there by qualified as immoral. I do not agree with the way you are twisting the founding fathers words.


490 posted on 11/26/2004 9:51:32 AM PST by Ksnavely
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To: Ksnavely

I guess this poster would outlaw divorce, petty lying, and worshipping false gods.


491 posted on 11/26/2004 9:53:11 AM PST by verifythentrust
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To: little jeremiah
"Children have access to porn on the Internet without any difficulty"

Well I just disagree with you. As a parent, if you have a child that will be accessing the Internet, get a program that blocks certain content. It is cheaper, easier, and does not infringe on the freedom of others. You are again painting a false picture. It is the parents job to protect their kids not the government (this is a basic tenant of conservatism). Monitor your kids activities, get the programs that block unwanted content, get the cable that has password control, be a damn parent rather then outsourcing that job to the federal government.
492 posted on 11/26/2004 9:58:40 AM PST by Ksnavely
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To: Long Cut

When one's debate opponent engages in defensive rhetorical games, such as creating strawmen withwhich to attack their opponent, they are signaling their intellectual bankruptcy. You've not countered even one of the substantive issues I've raised.


Until nonConstitutionalist USSC justices such as Sandra Day O'Connor claimed to be able to read the Constitution and see 'penumbras, auras, & emanations" of knowledge knowable and seeable only to themselves and from which they magically created your much worshipped "consent" argument, no such thing existed. And guess what? No such thing exists in our Constitution. They made it up.


Only those with a Personally Vested self-interest would believe in the existence of a 'right' that gives them {sexual libertines?} the right to depersonalize, debase, demean, and dehumanize other people in order that they can be used as though they were nothing but a disposable sex toy.

This is a losing debate for you because you must defend something ugly, dark, and twisted and which should never have been allowed out of the Hell of infinite darkness.


493 posted on 11/26/2004 11:37:02 AM PST by Lindykim
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To: Know your rights; All

Well obviously we can't bring Washington et al back from the dead to ask him if the 1st amendment covers pornography. My question goes to the notion that if we could bring them back from the dead and ask as to their intent as to what the amendment should allow and should not allow, would we find them assenting to the way the amendment is currently viewed?

We know from reading the Federalist papers of the era that our founders believed that God was involved in the founding and nurturing of the nation, and that the practise of rather broadly agreed upon morality and religious dictates by the majority of the population would keep licentious factionalism in check!

You can poo poo my use of "generalities" as a weakness in my questioning but our founders themselves relied upon the generalities of accepted religion and morality in the population at large to keep the new republic strong.

They knew that to build a consensus based on the concepts of "rights" with-out the benign co-ercion of the latent morality of the Christianized population would be to produce a still-born nation, and at worst a nation of demoralized factions crawling back to Britain for order and security!

"With-out vision, the people are unrestrained" states Proverbs(or literally "go wild"). The culture war that is going on is about that vision of our selves as a great moral nation vs. those who would propose that we should not live under moral restraints; that Americans are nothing more special than animals who live by instinct and not by enlightened reason!


494 posted on 11/26/2004 11:46:58 AM PST by mdmathis6
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To: little jeremiah; Ksnavely

Ksnavely opined...May I ask who gets to define what is moral? you keep pulling these quotes about morality then assigning them to your cause of abolishing pornography based on the assumption that since you believe it is immoral then it is there by qualified as immoral. I do not agree with the way you are twisting the founding fathers words.


Little Jeremiah's sense of right and wrong is based solidly in God's transcendant moral law. Since you've questioned the legitimacy and/or veracity of his moral claims, one must assume that you base your sense of right and wrong on something else. Will you share with us what that is?
And where it comes from?


495 posted on 11/26/2004 11:47:02 AM PST by Lindykim
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To: Modernman

You claim to be unable to see the relevancy of a nonconstitutionally existant hocus-pocus man-created 'right' to your claim that such a right exists? Are you really sure you want to ask this silly question?


As for your claim that you feel no sense of guilt......hogwash! Of course you do, otherwise you'd not be hunkered down in a self-defensive position while trying to fling useless arrows at me.


496 posted on 11/26/2004 12:01:48 PM PST by Lindykim
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To: Lindykim
Hey I will one up you, I will not only share it with you my view of morality, I will force you to live under it via government regulations (oh wait nvm because that is not what I believe that is what you believe) because apparently that is what the founding fathers wanted in your twisted interpretations of their intent.

I believe in God, i am a Christian, I would probably agree with every moral edict that JM would say. But look, God's transcendent law states that we should worship no other God before him, now do you see the state enforcing that? Would you be comfortable with the state enforcing that? Of course not, the founding fathers weren't either (even though you have all these nice quotes from the founding fathers talking about morality and religion being the crux of a free republic). There is a reason they chose the road they did and kept government from enforcing religious morality. The reason is simple, yes a moral society is essential, yes a people who exercise restraint is essential to a free republic I agree with you on all those points.

Where I disagree with, however, is by what means our society takes to assure those moral restraints are in placed. I believe that for a society to exercise moral restraint, it has to come from the bottom up, not from the government. It has to be a society who is moral because they chose too, not because they are forced too. It has to come from a society who is affected by a strong church and obeys God commandments of sex because they have been converted by God's love, not because the Nanny state took away their porn. Like prohibition proved, you will not fix the problem of an immoral people by taking away their vice, you can only fix the problem by changing the hearts of the people who have free will. This is all very Biblical, free will, God not forcing us to follow his commandments, you recognize any of these words from scripture?

The fact is I am extremely uncomfortable with this whole notion of government controlled and enforced morality. I think it misses the point. Should the government outlaw divorce, lying, smoking, drinking, eating McDonald's just because they are also bad for society? At what point is enough? At what point is too much freedom stripped in the name of morality?

I believe it is the Christlike response to try to change the hearts and minds of a nation by witnessing, and reaching out, not through government regulations and restrictions.
497 posted on 11/26/2004 1:29:56 PM PST by Ksnavely
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To: little jeremiah
The fact that you get so angry and vituperous is evidence that there is a voice in your heart you are trying to drown out. Even if you shut me and everyone who thinks like me up, that voice will still be there, and you'll still have to get angry.

No, the fact that I get so angry is the voice in my heart that resents serfdom, even if it's benevolent. You don't get it, but I don't want to wear your yoke and do things your way, anymore than I want to be the vassal of some regent.

You call it extreme libertarianism for a man to want to be able to make his own decisions. I don't. It really comes down to that. You have a semi-marxist view of society as the collective, and everything should be for the greater good of the collective. I don't. I believe freedom is for the individual, not the collective.

498 posted on 11/26/2004 1:46:32 PM PST by Melas
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To: Ksnavely

I agree with almost eveything you said and furthermore, I thank you for clarifying your stand.


On the issue at hand. Since it was by an unconstitutional USSC edict that the harm we're speaking of was unleashed upon American society, doesn't it seem logical to you that the harm be undone by a reversal of their poorly reasoned and highly disasterous edict? That is what I'm speaking about.


499 posted on 11/26/2004 2:14:46 PM PST by Lindykim
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To: puroresu
A good case can be made that the more sexually libertine a society becomes, the bigger and more controlling its government becomes.

Actually, I think history reveals that the reverse is true. In the U.S. the Progressive Era and the New Deal preceded the Sexual Revolution by decades. Europe was flirting with socialism long before they reached their current level of sexual libertinism.

Furthermore, in the 1980's porn became much more accessible through cable and videocassettes. This trend continued in the 1990's and up to today with the internet. During this time causal sex became more acceptable in the media and in society, but was tempered somewhat by the AIDS crisis.

These same past two decades of sexual libertinism have been the era of Reagan, welfare reform, and tax cuts.

500 posted on 11/26/2004 2:24:32 PM PST by timm22
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