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An interesting look at marriage -- the good and the bad of second marriages.
1 posted on 01/19/2019 11:33:40 AM PST by Salvation
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Monsignor Pope column from OSV ping!


2 posted on 01/19/2019 11:34:51 AM PST by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: Salvation
But we see many seemingly happy people in their second marriage. What is your perspective on this?

We see many seemingly happy people who molest children, rob banks, and defraud investors. What is this guy's perspective on this?

3 posted on 01/19/2019 11:44:02 AM PST by Alberta's Child ("In the time of chimpanzees I was a monkey.")
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Msgr. Pope is so amazing, he is so clear, so full of light.

He addresses this horrible trend and dilemma of society with rock-solid moral teaching and logic but in a gentle yet firm manner that we can imagine Jesus, Himself would administer.

This one is worth more than bookmarking, it deserves printing out and framing for the wall.


4 posted on 01/19/2019 11:54:08 AM PST by Hostage (Article V (Proud Member of the Deranged Q Fringe))
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Totally agree with Pope here, Sal.

Saved May 24, 1971.

Marriage ended in 1972 with man's Court divorce decree.

A marriage, sad or happy, once consummated, lasts as long as both shall live, ends only when death parts them.

Never committed the sin of remarriage adultery.

The Lord Jesus and The Holy Ghost are my intimate Comforters, forever.

Never alone.

5 posted on 01/19/2019 12:02:36 PM PST by imardmd1 (Fiat Lux)
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Only in the RCC tradition is it a sin for my wife to marry me and considered to live in adultery after she divorced her monster of a first husband who beat her daily, was a drunk and whoremonger...she married him stupidly when she was 19 and in a bad home situation...

Oh...we have been very happily married for 38 years....

Thankfully, she was not raised a RC inspite of her father being one...


8 posted on 01/19/2019 12:24:15 PM PST by Popman
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To: Salvation

All people are fallible, mistake makers. Why is the one mistake of choosing
a bad spouse unforgivable?


34 posted on 01/19/2019 1:34:32 PM PST by Joe Bfstplk (How unfortunate tarring and feathering was abandoned.)
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To: Salvation

A second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience.

L


35 posted on 01/19/2019 1:35:20 PM PST by Lurker (President Trump isn't our last chance. President Trump is THEIR last chance.)
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To: Salvation
Jesus says if you divorce your wife and marry another, you commit adultery.

What if your wife divorces you? Also must note that Jesus walked the Earth under the Old Covenant - the New Covenant started when he arose from the dead.

36 posted on 01/19/2019 1:36:38 PM PST by trebb (Don't howl about illegal leeches while not donating to FR - it's hypocritical.)
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Marriages, 1st bad, 2nd not so bad, 3rd great for 40+ yrs. Are these rules from clergy who never married? Did God say this all about 1 marriage or was it a living breathing Man who was quoted? I bet God didn’t have a wife. His mother probably never approved of any women he brought home. LOL, my mother thought she was God when I brought any girl home, until the last one. 1st Marriage, too soon to young, 2nd, rebound, third perfect match. #4? I think not, I’m done now. I never asked for it, I was an atomic age kid, grew up in the American Dream family time, wife,job, house 2 kids, but it took me 37 yrs to find a Mrs. Cleaver.


37 posted on 01/19/2019 1:37:54 PM PST by Bringbackthedraft (What is earned is treasured, what is free is worth what you paid for it.)
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I escaped infidelity and my wife escaped infidelity and abuse.

We celebrate 45 years this April.


45 posted on 01/19/2019 1:59:46 PM PST by N. Theknow (Kennedys-Can't drive, can't ski, can't fly, can't skipper a boat-But they know what's best for you.)
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Second time was the CHARM for me
Do not marry the wrong woman. Think twice. Ask questions
And once you have kids. It’s all about them not you anymore
They grow up and then model you


46 posted on 01/19/2019 2:03:08 PM PST by Truthoverpower (The guvmint you get is the Trump winning express !)
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Thank you for sharing.


49 posted on 01/19/2019 3:06:19 PM PST by CondoleezzaProtege
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yep, what about the children, often the victims of divorce..how about their happiness?

I know someone who is on his 4th marriage and still serves as a lector and receives Holy Communion every week..


61 posted on 01/19/2019 7:09:43 PM PST by Coleus (Vivat Jesus)
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Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, blame on me.


143 posted on 01/21/2019 9:26:46 AM PST by Kickass Conservative (Democracy, two Wolves and one Sheep deciding what's for Dinner.)
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