I just wanted to let you all know that my dad died at around midnight last night. I found out when I woke up this morning.
I'm currently in Nelspruit at debrief with my entire squad and I truly feel like there's nowhere else in the world I would rather be. Last night, I told my squad what was happening and they put me in the middle of the room and laid hands on me and prayed for me. They hugged me and encouraged me and loved me. I have never felt so loved or supported, but it's still really hard being here. It's not hitting me, but what is hitting me is the guilt. I'm really struggling today with feeling like he tried really hard to love me in his own way and I rejected him. It's just really hard.
Specifically, please be praying for my brother Gunner. He lived alone with my dad for over 10 years and is struggling with the guilt of not getting him help sooner. He is really in a bad place mentally and is very unstable, so I'm really scared of what he might do in this time. Also keep my Uncle Tom, who was really close with him, in your prayers, my sister Kristen, who's having a really difficult time, and my mom, who knew and loved my dad far better than I did.
Thanks again for your love and support. Mary
Prayers for all.
I would appreciate if you sent to your prayer group.
Mary is in her early 20’s, just graduated from college and is spending 11 months with a mission group to help the less fortunate.
Thank you for Mary.
Done.
Father God,
We lift up Mary and her family to You. May the Holy Spirit draw close at this time to give them comfort and peace that passes understanding in this time of sorrow. In the name of Jesus we bind any guilt and regret that Mary and Gunner have regarding their relationship with their father. May Mary’s mother feel Your love.
You are our Healer. You are our Comforter. You are our Peace and Rest. You are Forgiveness.
In the name of Jesus we pray. Amen.
RIP. Prayers and condolences to the family.
O God, our help in time of need, Who are just and merciful, and Who inclines to the supplications of His people. Look down upon Thy servant Mary and her family and have mercy on them and deliver them from the trouble that now besets them. Deal with them not according to their iniquities, but according to Your manifold mercies, for we all are the works of Your hands, and You know our weaknesses. I pray to you to grant them Your divine helping grace, and endow them with patience and strength to endure their hardships with complete submission to Your Will. Only You know their misery and sufferings, and to You, our only hope and refuge, they flee for relief and comfort, trusting in Your infinite love and compassion, that in due time, when You know best, You will deliver them from this trouble, and turn their distress into comfort. They then will rejoice in Your mercy, and exalt and praise Your Holy Name, O Father, Son and Holy Spirit, both now and forever and to the ages of ages. Amen
Prayers.
May the Lord bless you and keep you.
May the Lord make his face to shine upon you, and be gracious to you.
May the Lord lift up his countenance upon you, and give you peace.
And may the blessing of God Almighty Father, Son and Holy Spirit
Rest upon you and dwell within you
This day and evermore.
Amen.
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For your young friend who lost her dad last night.
And for you and your brother, Gunner, your sister Kristen and your mom who are dealing with the loss of your father.
May the Lord’s arms of love encircle and bless you all.
Prayers and condoleneces.
Prayers up for all in this family!
Prayers sent for this family.
Lost my Dad in 1979, I was 16, still miss him and think of him every day. I was blessed to have him.
Eternal rest grant unto Mary’s Dad O’Lord
and may perpetual light shine upon him.
May his soul and all the souls of the faithfully departed,
through the Mercy of God,
rest peace.
Prayers for you and family.
It's extremely painful to lose a parent-even if they weren't really "there" for you. (It's like part of you dies with them.)
I can say that your life will never again be the same. But you won't always hurt like you do today, and in the days and months ahead, either. The pain does get bearable with time.
For now-Let yourself feel it-"Let it out"-as the saying goes.
Prayers for your brother that he be comforted and not blame himself (We all have to go through death's door, one way or another.) Your dad has gone home to where he is supposed to be-With our Lord in heaven.
God comfort and keep you and your family.
Prayers for you and your family.
So sad. Praying right now.
I will be praying for Mary, her Mom, Dad and family.
Lord Jesus Christ our blessed Redeemer, rest the soul of Mary’s dad, Thy servant.
Comfort his family: his wife, Mary his daughter, and also Gunner, Tom and Kristen.
In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost, amen.