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What Does it Mean to Have Your Marriage Blessed?
http://canonlawmadeeasy.com/2014/06/19/what-does-it-mean-to-have-marriage-blessed/ ^ | June 19, 2014 | Cathy Caridi, J.C.L.

Posted on 06/20/2014 6:23:47 AM PDT by Weiss White

Q: My daughter stopped practicing her faith and was married to a protestant in his church. Now she has come back, and her protestant husband is preparing to become a Catholic too, next Easter. They understand that their marriage isn’t valid in the eyes of the Catholic Church, but the parish priest told them he can just “bless their marriage” and it will be all right. Can that possibly be true? –Eamon

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To: laotzu

Don’t worry.....the rcc will find one verse and twist the tar out of it to make it fit.


141 posted on 06/20/2014 6:44:53 PM PDT by ealgeone (obama, borderof)
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To: Individual Rights in NJ

OK. That does clear it up a lot.


142 posted on 06/20/2014 7:47:23 PM PDT by metmom (...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith....)
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To: CynicalBear
Not even a sparrow falls without God’s will

This is where I appear to fall off of accepted Christian doctrine.

The most important miracle of Jesus was that He made God change his mind. Before Jesus, all sinners went to hell.

The miracle of Jesus was redemption. God allowed no redemption prior to Jesus. With the exception of those(none) that committed no sin, we all went to hell..Noah, Moses, Soloman, etc...they all went to hell.

If our lives are the will of God, then why would there be a Judgement Day? If our lives are God's will, what are we to judged for?

We do not fall because of God's will, and neither does the sparrow. God has high hopes for us, but the failings, and fallings, are ours, not God's.

I truly enjoy this subject, and would very much appreciate your take on it.

143 posted on 06/20/2014 7:50:46 PM PDT by laotzu
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To: Legatus

Incoming in

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And thank you and God bless you for your honesty.


144 posted on 06/20/2014 7:52:14 PM PDT by metmom (...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith....)
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To: Mashood

So what exactly is the big deal about having the Catholic church recognize a marriage?

My marriage is valid and legitimate without the Catholic church condescendingly “approving” it.


145 posted on 06/20/2014 7:55:05 PM PDT by metmom (...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith....)
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To: EDINVA

Kind of ironic, isn’t it, that the Catholic church does not consider Any non-Catholic marriages as being legitimate or valid, except when a Catholic wants to marry said divorced non- Catholic.

Then they need to pay for an annulment.

Can you say “hypocrisy”?


146 posted on 06/20/2014 8:02:25 PM PDT by metmom (...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith....)
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To: CynicalBear
God knew our name before we were born, and something, something, something...Go Spurs!!

It is in the Bible. Look it up.(I hope I don't get "unpoped" for that)

147 posted on 06/20/2014 8:08:34 PM PDT by laotzu
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To: metmom
My marriage is valid and legitimate without the Catholic church condescendingly “approving” it.

I am so happy for you. Who is the Church compared to God? However; I have been "unpoped", so watch out.

148 posted on 06/20/2014 8:14:57 PM PDT by laotzu
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To: metmom

well, as I’m coming to understand it, the Catholic Church recognizes your marriage, assuming you and your Protestant husband were married in a church of your denomination. What they don’t recognize is the marriage of a Catholic in another church, and they don’t recognize the divorce of anyone married in any church. I guess that’s fair as it relates to their own followers, and their right to administer their sacraments.


149 posted on 06/20/2014 8:17:15 PM PDT by EDINVA
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To: EDINVA

The RCC’s problem is that GOD is the one who ordains marriage.

The RCC adding its stamp of approval to something already recognized by God is meaningless.

It’s a “Me too,” kind of thing.


150 posted on 06/20/2014 8:22:47 PM PDT by metmom (...fixing our eyes on Jesus, the Author and Perfecter of our faith....)
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To: metmom
GOD is the one who ordains marriage

Yes. Yes!! Not the government. Not the Church. Not the homosexual community. Not even Obama!!

Only God can bless, or ordain, a true marriage.

151 posted on 06/20/2014 8:41:01 PM PDT by laotzu
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To: CynicalBear
Finally a Catholic who is honest about who they pray to. Thank you for that.
It's a "shortcut" CB. Just like "CB" is a shortcut for CynicalBear. But I bet you understood who I meant when I said CB. :) We pray to Mary and to the saints and to the angels (for their intercession). Other Catholics understand this; they don't need to be told the prayers are for intercession each and every time someone mentions prayer. In fact, it would be ridiculous to do so. It's sort of like a Cubs fan saying to another, "I'm going to see the Cubs play today in Chicago at Wrigley Field." The last three words of the sentence would usually be left off, as the other Cubs fan knows where the Cubs play baseball.
152 posted on 06/20/2014 9:11:35 PM PDT by mlizzy ("If people spent an hour a week in Eucharistic Adoration, abortion would be ended." --Mother Teresa)
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To: sitetest
Honest question here...is a marriage "valid" if it is only done in a Catholic church or must there also be a secular marriage "license", also?

The reason I'm asking is marriage has been around a LOT longer than the Catholic church and is found in ALL societies (in some shape or form) even before writing was invented. It is a contract, of sorts, between a man and woman - often involving both families - and is binding on both husband and wife. That was why divorce was invented - a man couldn't just walk off and the marriage made invalid. In America a state marriage license is required prior to when a marriage ceremony/rite is performed (blood tests used to be done along with the application) and the marriage is considered just as valid and just as legally binding whether it is a priest, minister, pastor, rabbi, imam or justice of the peace/notary public said the words and heard the vows.

So, talking about churches giving their "blessings" is more about feelings than it is about validity. Do you agree?

153 posted on 06/20/2014 11:51:52 PM PDT by boatbums (Proud member of the Free Republic Bible Thumpers Brigade.)
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To: metmom
Mine, too. We were married on our boat anchored off a beautiful island in Florida by our pastor. About twenty friends and family joined us and at sunset before Almighty God we were declared husband and wife. :o)
154 posted on 06/21/2014 12:31:36 AM PDT by boatbums (Proud member of the Free Republic Bible Thumpers Brigade.)
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To: Weiss White
Can that possibly be true?

Possibly...

155 posted on 06/21/2014 4:08:41 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: cloudmountain
That is, people make their own laws when God's laws don't fit into their agenda.

And then there is TRADITION; when what GOD has had written in the Book is just not enough.

156 posted on 06/21/2014 4:09:54 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: IC Ken
When I married my wife the Catholic Church wanted $ 5,000 for an annulment from her previous Catholic marriage.

I've always wondered why Joseph didn't get an annulment from Mary.

After all; the Roman Catholic Church teaches that she never did consummate their marriage.

157 posted on 06/21/2014 4:16:19 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Salvation
The Bible tells of us Christ’s first miracle. It was at a wedding.

Was a blessing given?

158 posted on 06/21/2014 4:16:59 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: Individual Rights in NJ
Take you garbage Catholic bashing elsewhere man.



Pope Stephen VI (896–897), who had his predecessor Pope Formosus exhumed, tried, de-fingered, briefly reburied, and thrown in the Tiber.[1]

Pope John XII (955–964), who gave land to a mistress, murdered several people, and was killed by a man who caught him in bed with his wife.

Pope Benedict IX (1032–1044, 1045, 1047–1048), who "sold" the Papacy

Pope Boniface VIII (1294–1303), who is lampooned in Dante's Divine Comedy

Pope Urban VI (1378–1389), who complained that he did not hear enough screaming when Cardinals who had conspired against him were tortured.[2]

Pope Alexander VI (1492–1503), a Borgia, who was guilty of nepotism and whose unattended corpse swelled until it could barely fit in a coffin.[3]

Pope Leo X (1513–1521), a spendthrift member of the Medici family who once spent 1/7 of his predecessors' reserves on a single ceremony[4]

Pope Clement VII (1523–1534), also a Medici, whose power-politicking with France, Spain, and Germany got Rome sacked.

 

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Bad_Popes

159 posted on 06/21/2014 4:19:31 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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To: sitetest
Much has changed since 1976.

In the church that Christ FOUNDED??

Why?

160 posted on 06/21/2014 4:21:48 AM PDT by Elsie (Heck is where people, who don't believe in Gosh, think they are not going...)
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