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Father Patrick Allen, married father of two, leaves Anglicanism to become Catholic priest
Post and Courrier ^ | July 20, 2013 | Jennifer Berry Hawes

Posted on 07/20/2013 1:45:48 PM PDT by NYer


When Father Patrick Allen lay prostrate before the bishop for his diaconate ordination on June 29, Allen’s son, Henry, ran up to join his dad.

It was barely a week into Father Patrick Allen’s new ministry when, in the course of taking his two children to activities in his nonreligious clothes, at least five people asked:

So, what do you do for a living?

Allen smiles graciously, sometimes bringing his hand to his chest in a humble gesture, one that coincidentally shows his wedding band.

“This might begin a long conversation,” the James Island father says.

“I’m a Catholic priest.”

When his daughter, Lucy, goes to Charleston Catholic School next year, she will be the only student whose father comes not only for parent conferences and class parties, but also to celebrate Mass.

Ordained a Catholic priest July 7, Allen joins a small but growing group of former Episcopalians embarking on a new journey, one they hope marks a critical step down the long path to Christian unity.

They have embraced a new option in Catholicism that allows Anglicans to become fully Roman Catholic yet retain elements of their liturgical and theological traditions.

Allen is the second Episcopal priest in South Carolina to join the Personal Ordinariate of the Chair of St. Peter, often dubbed the “Anglican ordinariate.”

Pope Benedict XVI created the ordinariate, a non-geographic diocese within the Catholic Church, for groups of American Anglicans who wanted to enter full communion with the Vatican.

The result: Two weeks ago, Allen lay prostrate before the Most Rev. Robert Guglielmone, bishop of Charleston.

Those on hand for his ordination included his closest Anglican mentor and friend, the priest who heads the ordinariate and the once-Episcopalian families joining him to create a new Catholic community.

None asked, What do you do?

Circular paths
What he does today, fresh into his Catholic ministry, completes a circular life’s path.

Allen was raised Catholic in a Florida parish until he was 11. Then, his parents began attending an evangelical Presbyterian church.

Ever fascinated by history, he went to college unsure but with an eye toward teaching history.

He attended a Presbyterian seminary college working on his master’s in divinity, though not seriously considering the ministry, much less the Anglican priesthood. Meanwhile, a friend in Charleston invited him to work at Camp St. Christopher.

Allen served as head counselor and then assistant director of the summer camp for nine years, time that proved pivotal to virtually every front of his life.

He confirmed his desire to teach and mentor.

He fell in love with a young woman named Ashley Duckett, who also worked on the camp’s summer staff.

And he met future mentors such as the Rev. M. Dow Sanderson, a deeply intellectual priest who adhered to an Anglo-Catholic tradition that appealed to Allen.

Allen also discovered the Book of Common Prayer.

“I fell in love with it,” he recalls.

He felt drawn to the sacramental nature of Anglicanism and studied people including John Henry Newman, Anglican priest-turned-Catholic cardinal. Newman famously once said, “To be deep in history is to cease to be Protestant.”

Allen also met the Very Rev. Craige Borrett, rector of Christ St. Paul’s on Yonge’s Island who encouraged the young man to consider becoming an ordained priest in the Episcopal Church, the Anglican Communion’s American province.

“I had successfully avoided the idea up to that point,” Allen says with a grin.

The weight of it
At the University of the South (Sewanee) in Tennessee, Allen was immersed in Anglican studies. He hung a picture of Pope John Paul II on his wall.

Looking back, it seems a prophetic choice.

While delivering the benediction at his ordination in 2001, Allen looked out over the masses kneeling before him.

“The weight of it came to me,” he recalls.

A naturally introverted man, Allen put his studies into action.

“Nothing prepares you for getting involved in people’s lives in such very personal and important ways,” he recalls.

Then-Bishop Edward Salmon assigned him to a tiny parish in Calhoun County.

It was the ultimate gift, Allen later realized.

He was near the parish Sanderson led at the time. While some other Episcopal churches were booming with contemporary services, Sanderson adhered to high Anglicanism.

Meanwhile, Duckett, the young woman he’d been dating, went to medical school at MUSC.

They married in 2003. She did her residency at Vanderbilt University. He moved to a parish nearby.

In time, they returned to her hometown Charleston where she joined MUSC’s faculty.

And Sanderson, then rector of Church of the Holy Communion in downtown Charleston, made a place for Allen.

“Holy Communion has a very unique role in the diocese here,” Allen says.

The parish adheres to the tradition of the Oxford Movement, which asserts Anglicanism’s Catholic continuity with the earlier, pre-Reformation church.

It was, in some ways, an oasis in the storm, a like-minded sanctuary to contemplate and teach even as the Episcopal Church faced growing divisions.

New paths
Cracks of schism were widening nationwide over the Episcopal Church’s ordination of an openly gay bishop and other theological issues. Local Bishop Mark Lawrence and many clergy in town supported a more traditional reading of Scripture.

Ultimately, even Holy Communion could not avoid the question.

When Lawrence and most local parishes disassociated from the Episcopal Church last fall, each parish’s leaders had to decide whether to stay with the national church or go with Lawrence’s group.

Yet, for Allen and many at Holy Communion, the choice was a uniquely different one.

Remain Episcopalian, or pursue a larger reunion of Anglicans and Catholics? Pope Benedict XVI had just created the new ordinariate.

“I already knew I would wind up in the Catholic Church,” says Allen, who by then had two young children.

He had settled into a realization that the Catholic Church was what it claimed to be: the church founded by Christ.

At first, he hoped the entire parish would convert.

“But leaving the church they grew up in was not a possibility” for many, he recalls.

Holy Communion remained with the Episcopal Church.

About two dozen members decided on their own to convert to Catholicism. So did Allen.

In a letter to his parish, he wrote: “Mine is a move forward to the Catholic Church, and I am nothing but grateful for my years in the Episcopal Church and the Diocese of South Carolina.”

Still, it concerns him that the timing could be suspect.

“I didn’t want the fact or appearance of dividing the church and leading people out of there,” Allen says. “Instead, it was a fulfillment of the faith we held.”

At the end of last year, he relinquished his Episcopalian orders and no longer went by “father,” not in the religious sense anyway.

God’s design
Six months later, at his Catholic diaconate ordination, Allen lay prostrate before Bishop Guglielmone. Allen’s 2-year-old son, Henry, ran up to lie down beside his dad.

Someone snapped a photo of the moment.

The picture is, in some ways, a reflection of Allen’s life now. Catholic priest. Father of two. Husband.

“It has worked out the way God designed,” Allen says.

He describes both his former bishop Lawrence and current bishop Guglielmone as gracious and supportive of his move.

He, along with his wife and 19 former Holy Communion members he calls “pilgrims,” were confirmed together last month. They have formed the Corpus Christi Catholic Community, which meets in St. Mary of the Annunciation in downtown Charleston.

When Allen was ordained to the priesthood, Monsignor Jeffrey N. Steenson, head of the American ordinariate, was on hand.

Sanderson and his wife were, too.

“We were so very proud of him as he began this new chapter in his call to serve God,” Sanderson says. “He and I share the same theological core values, and we will always remain close friends.”

Today, Allen is learning the finer points of celebrating Mass and assisting Monsignor Steven Brovey, rector of the Cathedral of St. John the Baptist. He’s also building Corpus Christi from scratch using a fully Catholic Mass with elements recognizable to any Anglican.

“All things that are good and pure and true in the Anglican church have a home in the Catholic Church,” Allen says.

Pope Benedict compared the ordinariate to building a house and including a room for cherished items from one’s former home.

There’s also a missionary aspect to building Corpus Christi that appeals to Allen.

“It is a seed,” he says. “And my somewhat unique status brings on those questions.”

So, what do you do for a living?


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KEYWORDS: anglican; convert; episcopal; priest; schism
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To: Catsrus
The prostration in an ordination is not homage or obeisance to the ordaining bishop. It's a gesture of humility before God as the whole congregation prays for the ordinand. You're reading something into it that is not in fact there.

Although I don't know where you get the odd idea that it's wrong to kneel before a superior. That's an egalitarian Enlightenment idea, not a biblical one.

41 posted on 07/20/2013 7:29:28 PM PDT by Campion ("Social justice" begins in the womb)
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To: huckfillary
There is a priest shortage

There's also a shortage of Priests in all 21 Churches in the Eastern Rites which already ordain as a norm, married men. Marriage isn't the panacea many think it would be. Strike one.

there are too many gay (pedophilic or not) priests.

Better check out the behavior of all these protestants for starters and see that perverts masquerading as clerics aren't unique to Catholicism or the discipline of celibacy. Strike two.

I don't really know how the whole celibacy thing got started.

Read the following for starters:

Then take a long look at Matthew 19:11-12, 27-30; Luke 18:28-30 and 1 Corinthians 7:32-35.

there is no evidence that that(sic) Apostles were

Except that Scripture makes no mention of any of the 12 being married except Peter, at one time. His wife is not mentioned in Scripture. Strike three.

I believe the Church at one time allowed priests to be married.

As mentioned earlier the Church still allows married men to be ordained as a norm in the Eastern Rites. While ordaining married men was once allowed in the Latin Rite, the couple had to agree, prior to ordination, to adopt the discipline of lex continentiae; total continence, after ordination. No agreement, no ordination. The Church has never allowed priests to lawfully contract marriage after ordination.

the Church should admit that there is little or no theological or moral justification for not allowing priests to be married and drop the whole thing.

You possess a very poor grasp of Scripture and the Priesthood.

I think it would, in the short and long runs, revitalize the Church and attract many, many highly qualified and inspired married men into the priesthood.

Contradicted by the current shortage of Priests in the Eastern Rites. How many married men; particularly with children, do you know that are willing to embrace a lifelong vocation that pays about $1000/month?

It would also attract thousands of single men who would like to become priests but who now cannot because they also someday want to be married with children.

A specious at best argument which again is indicative of you lack of knowledge about the Priesthood.

Is that so wrong?

Quite.

42 posted on 07/20/2013 7:58:30 PM PDT by A.A. Cunningham (Electorate data confirms Resolute Conservative voted for Soetoro)
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To: huckfillary; Tax-chick; pbear8; St_Thomas_Aquinas; Mrs. Don-o
I still don’t understand why a priest cannot be a priest and afterward get married.

In short, because his first vow is to the church whereas a married man's first vow is to his wife. In the Eastern churches, there have always been some restrictions on marriage and ordination. Although married men may become priests, unmarried priests may not marry, and married priests, if widowed, may not remarry. Moreover, there is an ancient Eastern discipline of choosing bishops from the ranks of the celibate monks, so their bishops are all unmarried.

In 2005, speaking to the 11th General Synod Fathers, gathered for their eighth meeting at the Vatican, Cardinal Nasrallah Pierre Sfeir, former Patriarch of Antioch of the Maronites in Lebanon--a Catholic rite which allows for married priests--addressed the issue, which has been brought up by many, particularly in light of the U.S. sex abuse scandal, of commonly permitting married priests in the Roman rite. The Cardinal defended the practice of the celibate priesthood and discussed the beauty of the tradition, calling it the "most precious jewel in the treasury of the Catholic Church."

While pointing out that "the Maronite Church admits married priests" and that "half of our diocesan priests (in Lebanon) are married", the Cardinal Patriarch said that "it must be recognized that if admitting married men resolves one problem, it creates others just as serious."

"A married priest", he said, "has the duty to look after his wife and family, ensuring his children receive a good education and overseeing their entry into society. ... Another difficulty facing a married priest arises if he does not enjoy a good relationship with his parishioners; his bishop cannot transfer him because of the difficulty of transferring his whole family.

He noted that "married priests have perpetuated the faith among people whose difficult lives they shared, and without them this faith would no longer exist."

"On the other hand," he said, "celibacy is the most precious jewel in the treasury of the Catholic Church,"

The tradition in the Western or Latin-Rite Church has been for priests as well as bishops to take vows of celibacy, a rule that has been firmly in place since the early Middle Ages. Even today, though, exceptions are made. For example, there are married Latin-Rite priests who are converts from Lutheranism and Episcopalianism.

I am a Roman Catholic practicing my faith in a Maronite Catholic Church in NY. Our pastor comes from the Maronite Lebanese Missionaries. He is an ordained monk and missionary. And, he is celibate. He is also tri-ritual and has faculties to celebrate the Maronite Divine Liturgy, the Melkite Divine Liturgy and also the Roman Catholic Novus Ordo liturgy. In addition to the responsibility of running our parish, he also assists the local RC bishop by saying mass at a local hospital and also celebrating mass in various diocesan parishes during the week, in order to consecrate a sufficient number of hosts for their weekend priestless services.

He visits the sick, the homebound and those in assisted living facilities. He devotes his life to Christ and we are so very blessed to have him as our pastor.

43 posted on 07/20/2013 7:58:35 PM PDT by NYer ( "Run from places of sin as from the plague."--St John Climacus)
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To: Burkean; huckfillary
I haven’t read anything in the Bible indicating that Jesus or the apostles were celibate or not.

In 1 Corinthians 7, Paul actually endorses celibacy for those capable of it: "To the unmarried and the widows I say that it is well for them to remain single as I am. But if they cannot exercise self-control, they should marry. For it is better to marry than to be aflame with passion" (7:8-9).

It is only because of this "temptation to immorality" (7:2) that Paul gives the teaching about each man and woman having a spouse and giving each other their "conjugal rights" (7:3); he specifically clarifies, "I say this by way of concession, not of command. I wish that all were as I myself am. But each has his own special gift from God, one of one kind and one of another" (7:6-7, emphasis added).

Paul even goes on to make a case for preferring celibacy to marriage: "Are you free from a wife? Do not seek marriage. . . those who marry will have worldly troubles, and I would spare you that. . . . The unmarried man is anxious about the affairs of the Lord, how to please the Lord; but the married man is anxious about worldly affairs, how to please his wife, and his interests are divided. And the unmarried woman or girl is anxious about the affairs of the Lord, how to be holy in body and spirit; but the married woman is anxious about worldly affairs, how to please her husband" (7:27-34).

Paul’s conclusion: He who marries "does well; and he who refrains from marriage will do better" (7:38).

Paul was not the first apostle to conclude that celibacy is, in some sense, "better" than marriage. After Jesus’ teaching in Matthew 19 on divorce and remarriage, the disciples exclaimed, "If such is the case between a man and his wife, it is better not to marry" (Matt 19:10). This remark prompted Jesus’ teaching on the value of celibacy "for the sake of the kingdom":

"Not all can accept this word, but only those to whom it is granted. Some are incapable of marriage because they were born so; some, because they were made so by others; some, because they have renounced marriage for the sake of the kingdom of God. Whoever can accept this ought to accept it" (Matt. 19:11–12).

Notice that this sort of celibacy "for the sake of the kingdom" is a gift, a call that is not granted to all, or even most people, but is granted to some. Other people are called to marriage. It is true that too often individuals in both vocations fall short of the requirements of their state, but this does not diminish either vocation, nor does it mean that the individuals in question were "not really called" to that vocation. The sin of a priest doesn’t necessarily prove that he never should have taken a vow of celibacy, any more than the sin of a married man or woman proves that he or she never should have gotten married. It is possible for us to fall short of our own true calling.

45 posted on 07/20/2013 8:05:27 PM PDT by NYer ( "Run from places of sin as from the plague."--St John Climacus)
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To: Bulwyf
Peter was married too

At one time. Scripture makes no mention of his wife.

as were many of God’s apostles.

Scripture makes no mention of any of the other 11 Apostles being married. The disciples of Christ and the disciples of the Apostles and Paul are a different matter.

46 posted on 07/20/2013 8:08:06 PM PDT by A.A. Cunningham (Electorate data confirms Resolute Conservative voted for Soetoro)
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To: huckfillary
Any scandals would at least involve consensual adults rather than innocent children.

You have a poor grasp of the Sixth Commandment.

When, where and by whom were you catechized?

47 posted on 07/20/2013 8:11:08 PM PDT by A.A. Cunningham (Electorate data confirms Resolute Conservative voted for Soetoro)
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To: Iscool

“Any mention of Jesus in this guy’s testimony??? Nope...Any testimony of this fella trusting Jesus to become his Saviour??? Nope...”

Because you’re looking at a news article. Look here instead:

http://www.holycomm.org/2-12-homilies

Why are Protestant anti-Catholics always so dumb???


48 posted on 07/20/2013 8:12:26 PM PDT by vladimir998
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To: Catsrus
Since the Catholics believe that Peter was the first pope - scriptures teach us that Peter WAS married. His mother-in-law is referenced in Matthew 8:14, 15:

Scripture teaches us that Peter was married at one time. Scripture makes no mention of his wife. If you think you've got a smoking gun there, which you don't, ponder the following exchange between Peter and Christ:

"Then Peter answering, said to Him: Behold we have left all things, and have followed Thee: what therefore shall we have? And Jesus said to them: Amen, I say to you, that you, who have followed Me, in the regeneration, when the Son of man shall sit on the seat of His majesty, you also shall sit on twelve seats judging the twelve tribes of Israel. And every one that hath left house, or brethren, or sisters, or father, or mother, or wife, or children, or lands for My name's sake, shall receive an hundredfold, and shall possess life everlasting. And many that are first, shall be last: and the last shall be first." Matthew 19:27-30

"Then Peter said: Behold, we have left all things, and have followed Thee. Who said to them: Amen, I say to you, there is no man that hath left house, or parents, or brethren, or wife, or children, for the kingdom of God's sake, Who shall not receive much more in this present time, and in the world to come life everlasting." Luke 18:28-30

49 posted on 07/20/2013 8:19:49 PM PDT by A.A. Cunningham (Electorate data confirms Resolute Conservative voted for Soetoro)
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To: Burkean
I haven’t read anything in the Bible indicating that Jesus or the apostles were celibate or not.

You skipped Matthew 19 and Luke 18?

50 posted on 07/20/2013 8:21:29 PM PDT by A.A. Cunningham (Electorate data confirms Resolute Conservative voted for Soetoro)
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To: Mrs. Don-o
they receive Holy Orders just as priests doe.)

Ordination to the diaconate is quite different from ordination to the Priesthood not to mention the vast differences in formation. Thus, the Orders are indeed different.

51 posted on 07/20/2013 8:26:05 PM PDT by A.A. Cunningham (Electorate data confirms Resolute Conservative voted for Soetoro)
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To: Campion

Yes, it is a Biblical one. The apostles never allowed people to kneel before them. And, who ordains someone to be superior over another? In Christ we are all equal, and each has his/her own calling. I don’t blindly follow someone just because they claim to be superior over me. The name Adolph Hitler comes to mind.


53 posted on 07/20/2013 8:33:05 PM PDT by Catsrus (`)
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To: Catsrus

Read Paul. He ordained Timothy and Titus among others.


54 posted on 07/20/2013 8:36:33 PM PDT by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: A.A. Cunningham

It is you who is missing the truth of the Scriptures. Peter, was in fact married and the Bible doesn’t give us much more than what I referenced. Jesus didn’t commend Peter for leaving his wife - he was merely saying that we should put Him first.

And, you are wrong - the Scripture DOES teach us that Peter WAS married. I gave you the book and verses. Maybe the Catholic Bible took this out, but it certainly is in there. Matthew 8:14&15 clearly tells us that Peter’s mother-in-law was sick. One can’t have a mother-in-law unless one is married. Smoking gun? Not really - all non Catholics are aware of this. Perhaps you should read the Bible for yourself and not be spoon fed by anyone.


55 posted on 07/20/2013 8:38:29 PM PDT by Catsrus (`)
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To: Mrs. Don-o

The three steps of Holy Orders for those who do not realize it.

Diaconate — deacon

Priest — often presbyter in the Bible

Bishop — an example would be Christ establishing the Apostles as the first Bishops. Or St. Paul ordaining Timothy and Titus, among others.


56 posted on 07/20/2013 8:39:34 PM PDT by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: Salvation

Yes, he ordained them by the laying on of hands.


57 posted on 07/20/2013 8:40:33 PM PDT by Catsrus (`)
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To: Catsrus

**The apostles never allowed people to kneel before them**

According to whom? Source please. Or is this just your personal opinion?


58 posted on 07/20/2013 8:42:50 PM PDT by Salvation ("With God all things are possible." Matthew 19:26)
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To: Catsrus

Just because Peter had a mother in law does not mean his wife was still living.


59 posted on 07/20/2013 8:43:35 PM PDT by nanetteclaret (Unreconstructed Catholic Texan)
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To: Catsrus
The apostles never allowed people to kneel before them.

You got it. Didn't I see you there at the time by any chance?

60 posted on 07/20/2013 8:44:35 PM PDT by Revolting cat! (Bad things are wrong! Ice cream is delicious!)
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