Your argument is with God. Not me
All I can do is point you back to Scripture.
Esp Romans 8:28-Romans 9 and Ephesians 1.
And Scripture says, “Many are called, but few are chosen.”
There goes the “elect” system. I am going by what Scripture says.
I just thought of something else.
Does “elect” mean that you are called to heaven?
What if one refuses the call and becomes addicted to pornography, gambling, over=spending, drugs, you name it?