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War-weary wives call for US troops to come home
The Telegraph (U.K.) ^ | 07/18/03 | Oliver Poole

Posted on 07/17/2003 4:54:48 PM PDT by Pokey78

Yellow ribbons hang outside almost every house in Hinesville, the military town next to the 3rd Infantry Division's base of Fort Stewart in Georgia.

They were nailed up in January, an expression of the desire for the swift return of husbands and sons sent to war in Iraq. Seven months later, and 100 days after Baghdad fell to US forces, most are now faded almost to white.

The soldiers they remember remain on active duty in the Middle East and their families still wait to hear when their supposed six-month tour of duty will finally be over.

For the army wives, normally the most loyal military supporters, frustration at the enforced absence of their husbands is starting to turn to fury. They were told that the men would return in late May and then early July. Last week it was September and this week they learnt that some would remain "indefinitely".

"Don't do that to us," pleaded Julie Galloway, whose husband, Sgt Michael Galloway, was one of the first to be deployed. "Don't pull on our heart strings that way. Don't make us believe they are coming home when they are not."

Tasha Moore, whose husband, Captain Daniel Moore, is stationed near Baghdad, said: "Every time a soldier is shot and killed, it comes to mind 'Is that my husband?' I don't think the government understands what a husband or a wife or children are going through."

Hinesville exists to service the base on its doorstep. Barely more than a hamlet before the military established a training camp at the site in the Second World War, its population now numbers 25,000.

The Stars and Stripes flies from every lamp post along Main Street. Outside businesses, billboards proclaim their owner's belief in American ideals and support for the troops on active duty.

But last month a colonel sent to ease the concerns of 800 of the wives had to be escorted from the meeting amid abuse and jeers from the women after the military admitted it had no clear timetable for their husbands' return.

At nearby Fort Benning, the 3rd Infantry Division's other base in Georgia, there have been demonstrations by wives waving placards proclaiming: "I love the United States but I love my husband too." Military chaplains report an increase in divorces as couples buckle under the pressure of living apart.

The division was the first of the conventional forces to reach Baghdad and has assumed a major role in trying to impose stability in post-war Iraq. In recent weeks, a trickle of its troops had begun to fly home, raising hopes of a full redeployment.

But Maj Gen Buford Blount, the division's commander, told soldiers' wives by email that guerrilla attacks meant 9,000 of the 15,000 3rd Infantry soldiers in Iraq would stay "indefinitely".

He wrote: "I wish I could tell you how long but everything I have told you before has changed."

The few who have returned tell of the effect of delays on the morale of those remaining. "Before the war, we were told we would all be out 40 days after it finished," said Sgt First Class Trey Black, 30, who arrived back in Georgia last weekend. "They have not kept their side of the bargain and that pisses people off.

"The soldiers need to recover from what they have been through. Many are having nightmares as a result of the fighting they have experienced. It is time for everybody to come home."


TOPICS: Foreign Affairs; News/Current Events; US: Georgia
KEYWORDS: militaryfamilies; rebuildingiraq; yellowribbons
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1 posted on 07/17/2003 4:54:48 PM PDT by Pokey78
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To: Pokey78
"Seven months later..."

Are there any Korean Conflict or Vietnam vets out there that would like to express your feelings about these poor, whiney-assed wives complaining about their hubbies doing what they signed-up to do?

Personally, I did one tour of 13 months (to the day), and then I did another 10 months (sent me back for my discharge) in Vietnam. And you know what - I only had 13 months back in the states between the two tours.

2 posted on 07/17/2003 5:38:17 PM PDT by harpu
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3 posted on 07/17/2003 5:38:22 PM PDT by Support Free Republic (Your support keeps Free Republic going strong!)
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To: Pokey78
I do realize that most of these reports are part of the plot of sedition by the leftist media; but I do have a question to those with ears in the military.

Where is the 4th Infantry? They didn't even get to remove the stretch-wrap from their equipment when the CIC called a halt to the shooting. Where are they now?
4 posted on 07/17/2003 5:44:44 PM PDT by frossca
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To: Pokey78
Did that gay Peter Jennings Canadian mini-me report this, too?
5 posted on 07/17/2003 5:45:47 PM PDT by MonroeDNA (Be a monthly doner!!! Just 3 bucks a month will make us proud!!!)
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To: Pokey78
If these soldiers and their wives don't think this country is worth protecting from terrorists, I suggest they find another country.

All these years they have been in the reserves, collecting pay, and hoping they never had to live up to their obligation. For shame!

6 posted on 07/17/2003 5:59:37 PM PDT by OldFriend ((Warpaint at the Ready!))
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To: harpu
You nailed it. I spent 10 months on a WESTPAC curise off the coast of I Corps and then 12 months in-country in Danang with only three months between tours. WWII guys like my father and uncles spent years away from their families including such campaigns as Tarawa (Marines), Salerno and Anzio (Army). Makes you wonder about the professionalism of today's military and why they serve.
7 posted on 07/17/2003 6:00:25 PM PDT by kabar
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To: kabar
Or maybe today's women think differently.
8 posted on 07/17/2003 6:04:29 PM PDT by A CA Guy (God Bless America, God bless and keep safe our fighting men and women.)
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To: Pokey78
As I said many times before the war, the neo-cons are writing a check that the American people will refuse to cash. They are in the midst of trying to construct an empire that will make America the "benevolent world hegemon". This will take perpetual wars as well as the degeneration of our freedoms here on the home front.

Fact is, the American people are not the Romans or the Brits. We still, by and large, believe that we should not "go abroad in search of monsters to destroy".

The neo-cons manipulated our anger and channeled it into wars that had ulterior motives. Now the truth is bubbling through and the American people are getting angry.

9 posted on 07/17/2003 6:06:16 PM PDT by quebecois
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To: frossca
Where is the 4th Infantry?

They're over there too, in Tikrit among other places. If you're getting the impression it's just the 3rd and nobody else, you're very mistaken. Somebody keeps posting a list of all the units there, here it goes off the top of my head:

1st Armored Div.

3rd Inf. Div.

4th Inf. Div.

1st Marine Div.

101st Airborne Div.

one brigade from 1st Inf. Div.

2nd Armored Cav Regiment

3rd Armored Cav Regiment

There's more, but you get the general idea. Among Army units, 3rd has been there the longest, but I'm not sure they've been there significantly longer than 1 MD.

10 posted on 07/17/2003 6:10:44 PM PDT by squidly
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To: kabar
Makes you wonder about the professionalism of today's military and why they serve.

I don't think the crew who made it onto Good Morning America are a representative sample. Same with the wives. More to the point, some of them (some, I said) aren't the sharpest knives in the drawer... this is, after all, the infantry.

Guys griped in other wars too. I don't think the military has changed as much as the media has.

11 posted on 07/17/2003 6:13:43 PM PDT by squidly
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To: harpu
These women were more than ready to accept the "king's shilling" in the form of the extra income reserve duty provided. They should be ashamed.
12 posted on 07/17/2003 6:20:01 PM PDT by Let's Roll (And those that cried Appease! Appease! are hanged by those they tried to please!")
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To: harpu
Are there any Korean Conflict or Vietnam vets out there that would like to express your feelings about these poor, whiney-assed wives complaining about their hubbies doing what they signed-up to do?

How about the WWII guys who were away for four years or more? And there were millions of them. I did mine in Korea. A combat tour was nine months. A non-combat tour was 18 months.

13 posted on 07/17/2003 6:22:11 PM PDT by jackbill
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To: Pokey78
Of course, if the military hadn't been pared back 35% during the Clinton administration, we might be rotating some of these warriors home for a while.
14 posted on 07/17/2003 6:24:42 PM PDT by gitmo (Some days you're the dog; some days you're the hydrant.)
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To: squidly
IMHO it is the local commanders fault for low moral.He should have never mentioned redeployment early on.My son is in 3 ID,I wait for his return,his wife is a little more upset than I am,I understand.When I hear on the radio of another soldier ambushed,I cringe,it is only human nature.We need to route out and kill the bastards that are still loyal to SH.Untill his head is on a spike this will continue.Please,everyone, if you pray,pray for all of our troops safe and timely return.
15 posted on 07/17/2003 6:29:26 PM PDT by eastforker (Money is the key to justice,just ask any lawyer.)
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To: Pokey78
While I can understand how difficult this must be for the wives and families of the troops, I have to say they knew this ahead of time. When you sign up for military service you take the good and the bad. They are the property of Uncle Sam during their enlistment, and they and their families know that. Sorry, but it is the truth!
16 posted on 07/17/2003 6:30:05 PM PDT by ladyinred (The left have blood on their hands.)
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To: Pokey78
I won't criticize the Army wives. I betcha the press is doing this the same way they manipulate "man in the street" interviews - looking over the thousands of wives to find the handfull who'll publicly complain.
17 posted on 07/17/2003 6:34:32 PM PDT by colorado tanker
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To: quebecois
Sadly, though, the conservative movement as a whole will pay the price, quite possibly beginning the Presidential and Congressional Elections of 2004. I suspect Hillary is reconsidering her decision not to run. If she does, and if she wins, the neo-cons deserve the lion's share of the responsibility. Rather than accept it, they will probably turn on a dime and support Hillary, just as several supported her husband in 1992.
18 posted on 07/17/2003 7:42:21 PM PDT by Captain Kennit
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To: Pokey78
You know, someone needs to give these women some perspective. Their husbands may have been gone for almost a year, but weren't there men in WWII who were gone for FOUR years? I know these women are disappointed, but it doesn't help their husbands' morales when they call home and all they get is the big WHINE!
19 posted on 07/17/2003 7:46:03 PM PDT by SuziQ
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To: Pokey78
"War-weary wives call for US troops to come home"

More like War-weary wusses. Since women can serve in the military why don't they go and let their husbands come home? Or, better yet, why don't they move to France?

20 posted on 07/17/2003 9:17:53 PM PDT by Rudder
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