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Why Do Men Love War So Much? (Feminazi MEGA-BARF Alert!)
San Francisco Examiner ^ | 1/9/03 | Lani Silver

Posted on 01/10/2003 11:21:38 AM PST by MikalM

Publication date: 01/09/2003

Why do men like war so much?

BY LANI SILVER
Special to The Examiner

    MEN SEEM TO BE out of control. They like war way too much.

    They are way too aggressive. My proof: 200 million people were murdered in the 20th century because of war and genocide. Since most decision-makers are men, and most soldiers are men, we need to reflect a little on this problem.

    I know, you want to yell out Indira Gandhi! Margaret Thatcher! Golda Meir! (Everyone gets so excited that they can name three women who fall into this war-mongering category. Can anyone name a fourth woman who belongs here?)

    If there is a global skirmish, men should learn to say "Let's talk," or "We're sorry," but no one ever says those things. They could also try saying "Let's compromise," but that doesn't happen, either.

    I feel bad for most men. Their communications skills are so low, they cannot seem to handle discussing things.

    Our system teaches males to be competitive and aggressive. Boys who don't like football are called sissies. Hierarchical qualities are instilled in all of us, but in men in particular. These feelings serve to keep us separate, rather than interconnected. Separateness fosters violence and brutality.

    Men in war report a kind of homo-erotic experience, a time men can bond with other men without looking like sissies. Some report that they get erections when killing. There seems to be a strong link between aggressiveness and sexuality that I don't pretend to understand. Perhaps war is exciting and dynamic.

    War is a global experience, an easy way to travel. It's exciting. And even if you lose and die, you are guaranteed an honorable death. There will be flags and medals for you.

    All of that pomp and circumstance is a way of feeling. It's just like football. It's something big and it's outside your family and, for many, the feeling for the unit is even more intense than for the family.

    I wish we could figure out how to stop men and countries and their aggressive tendencies.

    What can we do to help men? What can men do to help themselves? Men need to bring out their nurturing and compassionate sides, rather than their frightened side.

    After all, the purpose of life is to understand life and learn its glorious lessons. All life is precious. All opinions and ideas, precious. We need to understand our divine nature.

    We need to practice being less greedy. Americans have a demanding sense of consumerism; we're taught to step on, and now kill, the "little people."

    We've become masters at race wars; we're imbued with a fervor to kill people if they get in our way. Women give and give and give, and it's never enough. And men take and take and take, and it's never enough.

    We all need to help men move along. We need to create awareness, understanding and outlets for men. They need to develop more feelings for humanity. Men need to see themselves as humans.

    And women need to speak up. We need to stop propping up our men. Instead of saying "it's my turn to control the remote control," we put dinner on the table faster and try to explain away our husband's temper to our shaken children.

    If you have a penis, perhaps you should be required to take a course in aggression and compassion. And perhaps women need to take courses on co-dependence.

    We can bear our sadness by educating our public about hate and prejudice and we definitely should be analyzing the ways that we can help the world instead of destroying it.

    I am personally in a state of despair. I've been a political activist for 34 years, and it all seems to mean nothing these days. We have these nitwits in charge of our country and we are going off (again) to kill more people. We haven't learned anything.

    Comment: letters@examiner.com

    Lani Silver is a women's studies teacher and an oral historian.

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To: hellinahandcart
If the name of the game is to take it away from me eventually anyway, can I at least avoid the classes by pre-emptively sending in my "package"?

Feminist re-education classes, or castration - I'm really going to have to think for a while on this one...

181 posted on 01/11/2003 8:26:43 AM PST by general_re (The wheel is turning but the hamster is dead.)
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To: Enterprise
"If you have a penis, perhaps you should be required to take a course in aggression and compassion."

Me thinks if she had a penis (once in a while) she wouldn't be so b!tchy....

182 posted on 01/11/2003 8:28:33 AM PST by NeoCaveman (Sarcasm, it's not just for breakfast any more.....)
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To: SandRat
7) Cleopatra
8) Nefertieti (forgive the spelling)
9) Queen Elizibeth I
10) Queen Victoria

11) Queen Isabella of Spain
12)Queen "Bloody" Mary.....

183 posted on 01/11/2003 8:31:24 AM PST by NeoCaveman (Sarcasm, it's not just for breakfast any more.....)
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To: MikalM
Why do men like war so much?

It gets rid of the riff-raff.

184 posted on 01/11/2003 8:35:18 AM PST by AndrewC (MS aims to learn a lot)
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To: martin_fierro

Leni Riefenstahl.... close.

185 posted on 01/11/2003 8:39:57 AM PST by AndrewC (MS aims to learn a lot)
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To: hellinahandcart
Sex = "compassionate aggression"

Well, good sex, anyway.

186 posted on 01/11/2003 9:24:02 AM PST by Stultis
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To: hellinahandcart
And come to think of it, "aggresive compassion" often equals bad sex (if there is such a thing).
187 posted on 01/11/2003 9:26:39 AM PST by Stultis
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To: Redcloak
We're just funny that way. It may have something to do with a backward desire to protect home and hearth, keep the little woman from being raped by foreign oppressors, or some other Neanderthal impulse.

Good answer.

188 posted on 01/11/2003 9:30:21 AM PST by Texas Mom
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To: MikalM
Wow. This feminazi could put a drug company out of business.


189 posted on 01/11/2003 9:31:25 AM PST by Skooz
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To: dubyaismypresident
"Me thinks if she had a penis (once in a while) she wouldn't be so b!tchy...."

I'm just curious if she has ever even SEEN one, I mean a REAL one, you know, up close and personal like.

190 posted on 01/11/2003 12:18:16 PM PST by Enterprise
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To: Stultis; general_re
Yes, I pondered "aggressive compassion" for a few seconds and all I got were visual images of the Green Party platform and its unwashed adherents. Like Lani Silver.

I'm telling you, it's a real turn-off.

191 posted on 01/11/2003 12:45:21 PM PST by hellinahandcart
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To: driftless
You have the best answer so far.

Thanks! Reading her rantings makes me want to perform a home trepanning operation with some rusty equipment.

192 posted on 01/11/2003 5:14:34 PM PST by RogueIsland
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To: MikalM
I actually got a response back for my letter. The editors at the examiner say they want to publish it.
193 posted on 01/13/2003 6:09:55 AM PST by jjm2111 (Feminists just don't get it.)
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To: AntiGuv
Can anyone name a fourth woman who belongs here?

7. Elizabeth I of England

8. Boadicea

9. Grace O'Malley, Irish pirate

10. Mary Read, English ditto

11. Anne Bonney, ditto

. . . also just off the top of my head

194 posted on 01/13/2003 6:34:26 AM PST by AnAmericanMother (. . . Queen Bess was Harry's daughter! . . .)
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