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My Heart Is Breaking
Focault's Pendulum

Posted on 09/10/2002 3:17:06 PM PDT by Focault's Pendulum

It has taken me a year to write this. We buried one of the last of the NYC Firefighters today. That's why I think this might be appropriate.

I was a volunteer firefighter for over ten years in a small nondescript town in Southern NJ. My Dad was a Captain in Jersey City and served for close to thirty years before retiring. He's been gone over twenty five years now....but I remember being proud of him...even tho he was a tough SOB and could sometimes be found taking out his frustations at the dinner table with 5 rowdy kids and a wife (Mom's still alive and kicking butt at 83) who had to sometimes wonder...."How did I get here?

As a kid I watched my Dad run into burning buildings, seemingly disregarding his own safety. He was a hands on kind of guy, who refused the top command, and continued to exercise his field command from within...not from without.

Shortly after Dad built a small summer home down in Dover Twp. NJH He decided to retire...and the entire family moved there.

I had not given any thought to follow in my father's footsteps until sitting in a bar at the ripe age of twenty....Jerry Bowen" the bartender said "stop on by the firehouse...you might enjoy the company. He was correct...I enjoyed the friendship offered, went through all the training....and it was extensive. I did it without thinking of my legacy, or my Dad. It was just somthing to do in an otherwise boring Shore Town.

A few years later....I have walked through burning buildings..scared out of my skin.....retrieved pets at the threat of my own safety....extricated a good friend from a single vehicle accident...and I did not recognize him at the time

This story is not about me....nor about my DadThis story is about those firefighters who went in.

They knew!!!They had a feeling some of them might not come back.....they went anyway.

Up to the 78th floor. And they still did it.The commanders knew some of them would die....and the troops did it!.

They walked to the face of death...I would have taken at least one of their places...should they live again.


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1 posted on 09/10/2002 3:17:06 PM PDT by Focault's Pendulum
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A bump for your dad and you.
2 posted on 09/10/2002 3:18:48 PM PDT by Howlin
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God Bless the Brave 343 and those who loved and depended on them. God Bless America one year later.
3 posted on 09/10/2002 3:21:54 PM PDT by San Jacinto
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Bump.
4 posted on 09/10/2002 3:22:49 PM PDT by First_Salute
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Bump.
5 posted on 09/10/2002 3:23:13 PM PDT by LisaAnne
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For the bump list
6 posted on 09/10/2002 3:23:46 PM PDT by Species8472
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BTTT
7 posted on 09/10/2002 3:23:47 PM PDT by wardaddy
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Sigh!.....what can anyone say....tomorrow is going to be a tough day for thousands of families.

btw.....I know your father is proud.

8 posted on 09/10/2002 3:24:41 PM PDT by mystery-ak
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Just bump it for the NYC Firefighters....I just wanted to convey the point...it's not being a hero...you just need to make sure people are safe
9 posted on 09/10/2002 3:25:29 PM PDT by Focault's Pendulum
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,,, good post.
10 posted on 09/10/2002 3:29:12 PM PDT by shaggy eel
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God Bless!
11 posted on 09/10/2002 3:29:16 PM PDT by Republic
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solemn BUMP
12 posted on 09/10/2002 3:31:54 PM PDT by ZinGirl
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BTT dear FRiend...for the NYFD!!
13 posted on 09/10/2002 3:32:19 PM PDT by Neets
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A bump for you and a balm for your heart, FP. Thanks for serving Toms River, and helping make it a great place to live.

And a bump to my friend, Richard Bruce Van Hine, Fireman, Truck 41, NYFD, for your bravery and sacrifice on Sept. 11, 2001. Our Lord's face shines brightly on yours now.
14 posted on 09/10/2002 3:38:33 PM PDT by exit82
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It was amazing that they had already reached the 78th floor, considering the weight they were lugging up those stairs. Of course you being a firefighter, you know exactly what was at their backs pushing them that fast. I say it was love, what say you?
15 posted on 09/10/2002 3:39:53 PM PDT by MissAmericanPie
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16 posted on 09/10/2002 3:42:56 PM PDT by swheats
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It's okay if no one else reads this....but I am a 47 year old man...who is now crying non stop...over my brothers. The feeling never stops.
17 posted on 09/10/2002 3:43:03 PM PDT by Focault's Pendulum
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One year on, a sad, respectful bump.
18 posted on 09/10/2002 3:43:35 PM PDT by IncPen
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Thank you for sharing your insight into what these brave men did for others.

"Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends." John 15:13

19 posted on 09/10/2002 4:00:26 PM PDT by DrewsDad
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,,, good post.

Thank you my friend from an entire world away.....I probably miswrote this to appear as a vanity...it was not...I did not personally know these firefighters....but I have had a year to think about what I would do.....I would have probably recocnized my mortality....then walked up the stairs.

20 posted on 09/10/2002 4:01:09 PM PDT by Focault's Pendulum
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