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THE NEW OLD AGE Who Will Care for ‘Kinless’ Seniors?
NY Times ^ | 3 Dec 2022 | Paula Span

Posted on 12/05/2022 3:26:57 PM PST by Rummyfan

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To: Rummyfan

I had an internship at legal assistance for the elderly when I was in law school. After learning about the problems of being old, I came to the conclusion that, in old age, one should never be broke and friendless. If you have to choose between the two, don’t be friendless.


21 posted on 12/05/2022 3:49:01 PM PST by married21 (As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.)
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To: BipolarBob

Eddie got the Full time allotted.
His favorite color was Orange 🍊 .
He went Home.


22 posted on 12/05/2022 3:49:10 PM PST by Big Red Badger (We Are JONAH)
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To: Captain Peter Blood

God will take care of you. That kind of kindness will see it’s reward.

Bless you for watching over her.


23 posted on 12/05/2022 3:49:57 PM PST by McGavin999 (A sense of humor is a sign of intelligence, leftists have no sense of humor, therefore………)
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To: Captain Peter Blood

God Bless you.


24 posted on 12/05/2022 3:52:00 PM PST by Tijeras_Slim ( )
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To: married21

Good advice.


25 posted on 12/05/2022 3:57:29 PM PST by Rummyfan (In any war between the civilized man and the savage, support the civilized man. )
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To: Maudeen

It’s the only hope I have


26 posted on 12/05/2022 3:59:34 PM PST by SaveFerris (Luke 17:28 ... as it was in the days of Lot; they did eat, they drank, they bought, they sold ......)
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To: humblegunner
Wow, that's a lot. Probably needed a BIG hole to bury 'em all. Where was that hole dug exactly? Or were you too busy with P.E. class to notice?

Drunk again, HG? Most sober people would understand that he/she is talking about aborted babies who would be around to care for their aged parent(s) had they not been aborted.

27 posted on 12/05/2022 3:59:47 PM PST by KevinB (Word for the day: "kakistocracy" - a society governed by its least suitable or competent citizens)
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To: Jonty30

Same here and you learn just how much people don’t care


28 posted on 12/05/2022 4:00:50 PM PST by SaveFerris (Luke 17:28 ... as it was in the days of Lot; they did eat, they drank, they bought, they sold ......)
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To: I-ambush

“Coming soon: The government will be there in her final days as well, to ease her from her suffering with assisted suicide.”

The Canadian way.


29 posted on 12/05/2022 4:01:12 PM PST by Luke21
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To: Captain Peter Blood
God bless you for doing that for her.


30 posted on 12/05/2022 4:01:23 PM PST by Cinnamontea
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To: Rummyfan

“my social life consists of doctors and store clerks “

My kids live on the left coast, a lot of my friends retired and moved since Covid and I’m currently unemployed.

I go to the grocery store and I’m now always starting up conversations with fellow costumers!

Luckily, I’m active in my county’s Republican Womens Club!


31 posted on 12/05/2022 4:01:56 PM PST by lizma2
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To: Captain Peter Blood

(She had no family really left and no one to help her)

I’m in the same boat...


32 posted on 12/05/2022 4:02:17 PM PST by SaveFerris (Luke 17:28 ... as it was in the days of Lot; they did eat, they drank, they bought, they sold ......)
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To: All

Okay heads up.

The number of single elderly is growing, and it has nothing particularly to do with angry white females. It is an apolitical thing across races. The “family” has faded as a focus of lives. If you are not among them, fine, but that doesn’t affect the numbers.

There are senior centers in pretty much all communities. It can become a social focus for this category. Have a look around, even if you don’t want one. They do exist.

As for the horrors of a nursing home, these places are regulated thoroughly to insist on staff/resident ratios and staff credentials. They are expensive as hell, and that would not be so if they were hiring uncredentialed people.

Average stay at a nursing home is only 14 months, and at the end of that time people do not go home. They die. But note that is an average. There is a large standard deviation. Many are there recovering from injury so they do go home after a few months. And many are there for many years.

Private apartment, meals included, nursing daily that ensures meds taken, usually various social activities. Memory care (aka Alzheimers happens too). These things are expensive. They can be well over $100K/yr, and usually net worth is wiped out and Medicaid takes over.

Research your area. The places are not horrible. They compete. If they were horrible people would go elsewhere.


33 posted on 12/05/2022 4:03:25 PM PST by Owen (ALL)
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To: Shady

18 And he said, This will I do: I will pull down my barns, and build greater; and there will I bestow all my fruits and my goods. 19 And I will say to my soul, Soul, thou hast much goods laid up for many years; take thine ease, eat, drink, and be merry. 20 But God said unto him, Thou fool, this night thy soul shall be required of thee

Luke 12:18-20


34 posted on 12/05/2022 4:06:51 PM PST by InkStone (ONLY returning to Faith in God, thru Jesus Yeshua, will save America)
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To: Owen

Good post, thank you.

Have you any opinions to share on whether long term care insurance plans are useful?


35 posted on 12/05/2022 4:08:37 PM PST by Izzatso
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To: McGavin999

“God will take care of you. That kind of kindness will see it’s reward.”
,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,
Just curious: do YOU think this will bring you to heaven? I’m asking just HOW MUCH is your charity worth, in God’s eyes?

Let’s boil it down : Do Good Works save?


36 posted on 12/05/2022 4:11:01 PM PST by InkStone (ONLY returning to Faith in God, thru Jesus Yeshua, will save America)
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To: Izzatso

>>Have you any opinions to share on whether long term care insurance plans are useful?
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You have to decide if you are more likely than the average person to need LT care, because that’s the only way you can beat the premium pricing.

Also, most of those products are not adjusted for inflation. Assisted living and Memory Care have big inflation on them and whatever you buy for LT Insurance will be certain to fall behind.


37 posted on 12/05/2022 4:17:22 PM PST by Owen (ALL)
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To: Rummyfan

I remember that ad and it was nauseating. Did anyone ever notice the lefties used the name “Julia’’? Winston Smith’s lover in ‘’1984’’.

Coincidence?

I don’t think so.


38 posted on 12/05/2022 4:18:13 PM PST by jmacusa (Liberals. Too stupid to be idiots. )
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To: Captain Peter Blood

God bless you for your kindness to your friend.


39 posted on 12/05/2022 4:19:32 PM PST by jmacusa (Liberals. Too stupid to be idiots. )
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To: InkStone
Do Good Works save?

No, they don't. But they do tend to show that you did accept Christ and obey Him, living in Love and Thankfulness.

40 posted on 12/05/2022 4:20:02 PM PST by GingisK
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