Posted on 11/16/2017 10:39:28 AM PST by marktwain
Heroes need prayers, too.
Stephen Willeford the Texan who confronted and shot the gunman who killed 26 people at a rural Baptist church Sunday could use a bunch of prayers, his close friend John Wood says.
To many, Willefords actions outside the First Baptist Church of Sutherland Springs made him a hero.
But the hero, who is described as a faithful Christian, was distraught when he called Wood at his Ohio home right after confirming gunman Devin Patrick Kelleys death.
I talked to him immediately after it happened, basically before any of the law enforcement arrived, Wood a retired Church of Christ minister and Air Force chaplain told The Christian Chronicle. He called me and said, I just killed a man.
Texas Department of Public Safety Cmdr. Freeman Martin told reporters that an armed citizen, identified as Willeford, shot Kelley in the leg and torso. However, an autopsy indicated that a third shot a self-inflicted wound to the head likely killed Kelley. Wood had just gotten home from worship at the Xenia Church of Christ in the Buckeye State when his phone rang.
The longtime preacher said he relied on his training in counseling as he comforted Willeford, who has long ties to Churches of Christ.
You do a lot of listening. You do a lot of encouragement, said Wood, who conducted the marriage ceremony for one of Willefords daughters and has been asked to officiate the other daughters wedding next spring. He doesnt want to be thought of as a hero but just kind of like the Good Samaritan, somebody who was willing to step up when it had to be done.
Willeford was at home Sunday morning sleeping after working late the night before as an on call emergency plumbing maintenance man for a San Antonio hospital, Wood said. Sutherland Springs is about 35 miles east of San Antonio.
In an exclusive interview with an Arkansas television station, Willeford described hearing the shots at the nearby Baptist church and rushing into action. KHBS/KHOG-TV anchor Joshua Cole, who conducted the interview, is a graduate of Church of Christ-associated Harding University in Searcy, Ark.
I didnt have any time because I kept hearing the shots one after another very rapid shots, just pop, pop, pop. And I knew every one of those shots represented someone, that it was aimed at someone, that they werent just random shots, Willeford told Cole.
I grabbed a handful of ammunition and started loading my magazine, Willeford added. Im trying to survey the situation, not knowing whats going on, and then I saw a man in a black tactical helmet (and) a bulletproof vest. And he had a pistol in his hand, and we exchanged gunfire.
Willeford said he stood behind a pickup for cover as he exchanged gunfire with Kelley. Another man, Johnnie Langendorff, was driving his truck near the Baptist church on Sunday morning when he happened upon the confrontation, the Corpus Christi Caller-Times reported.
He just shot up the church, Willeford told Langendroff. Weve got to get him.
The two chased Kelley at a high speed until the gunman lost control of his vehicle, crashed and apparently shot himself in the head.
But Willeford insisted in the TV interview that hes no hero.
I was scared for me, and I was scared for every one of them, he said of the people at the church. And I was scared for my own family that lived less than a block away. Im no hero. I am not. I think my God, my Lord, protected me and gave me the skills to do what needed to be done. And I just wish I could have gotten there faster.
You are a true hero, Cole told Willeford. The anchor grew up attending the Oak Hills Church formerly known as the Oak Hills Church of Christ and said he has known the heros family for a very long time.
In addition to those killed, about 20 people were wounded in Sundays mass shooting.
Those who know Willeford say they arent surprised that he risked his own life to save others.
Hes the kind of guy who would do that, for sure, said Chuck Morris, administration and pastoral minister for the NorthWest Church of Christ in San Antonio.
When Willefords children were younger, he and his wife, Pam, along with their three children attended the NorthWest church, driving an hour each way. Pam Willeford, a Harding graduate, was active in helping lead the youth group. The couple also was involved with Members of Churches of Christ for Scouting.
I called Steve the day after this (the shooting) happened and had a long conversation with him, Morris said. I was one of his ministers for a lot of years, and I was just concerned.
Wood said he first became close with the Willeford family when he was an Air Force chaplain in San Antonio in the late 1980s. He attended the Oak Hills congregation with them. Wood adopted Stephen Willeford after Willefords parents died in a motorcycle crash with a drunk driver in 1993. Wood had sold the motorcycle to Willefords parents.
As Wood decribes it, Stephen and Pam Willeford were heroes long before Sunday: They worked with teenagers and youth with the church there in San Antonio for years. A lot of kids look up to them. Were proud of them.
He has the character of a man, Wood added, referring to Stephen Willeford. In everything he does, God is glorified.
Now, Willeford must learn to live with the aftermath of Sundays tragedy.
That PTSD (post-traumatic stress disorder) is going to be something thats with him and the whole family for a while, Wood said. He is a blessing to many. They need lots of prayers and blessings to get through this situation themselves.
This man is the true definition of a hero. I hope he gets some therapy to deal with the trauma he went through. He knew so many who died in that church and he saved countless lives. God Bless this amazing brave man!
This preacher Wood ought to learn to keep things like that under his Stetson.
Rather than agonize over it, he should think about that fact that he was an instrument of God who compelled him to take action to prevent further loss of life.
I have never ended anyone’s life, for any reason.
There are times when this would be clearly justified, but to have ended someone’s life in such a direct and dramatic manner would bother me too for quite a while. He has much support around him, so this man, and the second citizen should both recover from the trauma over time. I don’t hear much from that second man to took the shooter down. Probably best to go private for a long while.
I hope Willeford understands that God put him in that exact place at that exact time to use in ending the murderous rampage. Just as he put a young David (before he was king) in the right spot to slay Goliath and save many lives that would have been lost if the Jews and Philistines had engaged in the battle that was brewing. Prayers out.
Commend him to the Lord with your prayers.
Then make him an Honorary Texas Ranger
I’ve often thought I could kill anyone threatening the life of my loved ones without a second thought, but braver men than me have been haunted by it so I doubt it’s as simple as that. Prayers for the solace and comfort of Stephen Willeford. Mr. Willeford, you did a brave and righteous thing, and saved far more lives than you took.
He did what was necessary. Hero or not, he is a good man.
God bless this fine man.
I was scared for me, and I was scared for every one of them, he said of the people at the church. And I was scared for my own family that lived less than a block away. Im no hero. I am not. I think my God, my Lord, protected me and gave me the skills to do what needed to be done. And I just wish I could have gotten there faster.
In other words, he was a hero.
See One people have said ,”Why didn’t God interevene?” Well, he did. This man was his instrument.
I understand why Willeford is feeling very out-of-sorts. Any reasonably moral man, upon inflicting an injury or death upon another, will ALWAYS question whether he did the right thing, whether he could have done something differently that would have prevented such harm. Such are the questions that moral people ask themselves, knowing that they aren’t perfect.
However, I believe that he should take GREAT comfort in the fact that as soon as he confronted that monster, the shooting of genuine innocents stopped. There were over 20 people who were wounded who, if Willeford had not shown up and started shooting, would have been executed at point-blank range, probably within the next 2-3 minutes after that. Who else might have been murdered, in the absence of Willeford, is unknown...but there was at least a real possibility that others would have died (if no one else, at least police officers would have likely been in a firefight with him at some later point).
I know that I’m speaking from the cheap seats here, but it seems pretty evident to me that Willeford was put in the place he was, at the time he was, with the training and weapon he had, for the purpose of saving those 20-odd people from certain death. The remainder of their lives, and the lives of any descendants of those people conceived after this incident will be credit to his actions on that day.
I hope and pray that G-d gives Mr. Willeford all of the comfort and peace of mind that he needs to deal with this incident. He deserves no less (and, probably, a great deal more).
He needs to be told, “You did not kill a ‘man’, you killed an animal.”.....................
Rather than agonize over it, he should think about that fact that he was an instrument of God who compelled him to take action to prevent further loss of life.
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I tend to agree, but for some people it is very hard to get over. For most people, in fact. I’ve been ready before, and had no anxiety or distress about it. Never had to carry through though, so I can’t say.
This nothing more than self-destruction. Folks do this.
1. Think about the lives saved...
2. Do not mourn saving them.
Is it some people's responsibility to kill for their country, their community, their families - and not others?
Does he regret stopping that maniac? Would he hesitate if he had that opportunity again?
I am very happy that he did what he did - but the handwringing is unseemly.
I have never lost a night's sleep over what I had to do.
I’m glad you acted as you did. We need that front line of defense.
If it was what I accepted as ‘my job’, I believe I too could have done so, perhaps not as efficiently as you did with all the training. We are all capable of killing if the stakes are high enough. The need for me to do so has not yet occurred.
There is a big difference between being trained to kill and trained to preach. I for one appreciate the training of both those in our armed forces and those who have chosen to spread the Gospel.
Its not that easy.
Even in combat against a sworn enemy its still hard, after all it is a human being.
Speaking as a 12 years veteran of the US Army with 3 combat deployments. Its not as easy as you may think. Even when the enemy is trying to kill you.
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