Posted on 05/02/2017 8:58:20 AM PDT by jerod
'Stealthing' could be considered assault say experts about secret removal of condom during sex.
Paper in Columbia Journal of Gender and Law examines little-known practice some say is 'rape-adjacent'
Haley says she knows the trauma of sexual assault. The 20-year-old Edmonton woman says she has experienced multiple forms of it.
But when she discloses the details of the latest instance, she says some people shrug it off.
That's because Haley is referring to "stealthing," the secretive and non-consensual removal of a condom during otherwise consensual intercourse. (CBC has agreed to not publish Haley's full name as well as those of the other women who spoke about the practice.)
Not everyone considers stealthing akin to rape, she says.
Haley said she had consented to protected sex with a man she knew and trusted. But after a few minutes, she noticed something amiss.
"I looked down at one point, and [the condom] just wasn't there," she said. "It was really scary."
If you're stupid enough to have sex with somebody who says they'll wear a condom and they don't, it's not rape. It's called try finding yourself sex partners who you can trust, rather than picking up a drunks at the bar.... Doh!
Busy girl.
“The 20-year-old Edmonton woman says she has experienced multiple forms of it.”
How stupid do you have to be to get tricked multiple times????
And her hobby is random hookups with strange men? Looks to me she’s taking her chances with her behavior.
What if the condom breaks? Is that rape?
Geesus, what next? You can’t make this krap up ...
Females should use thumb tacks to insure the rubber stays on. Four at the base and one at the end should do.
She looked down and it wasn’t there and it was really scary.
What was so scary???
Did he you know what without the barrier?
Is she worried about infections or other illnesses being transmitted???
It all comes back to being careful and knowing him, preferably being married to him. She trusted him. How trustworthy is he that he slipped off the protection while she was distracted???
Don’t have sex with a guy with a tiny penis either
If the stupid thing falls off you need to try an industrial finger-cot
Is it also "rape" if a woman lies and says she is on the pill or some other form of birth control? I just say its more like take responsibility for your own actions.
And they fail to mention, if she looked and noticed the condom missing at some point, did she stop the act?
Promiscuity, lack of better judgement, and a questionable set of morals is our problem because?
How about this young lady (using the term loosely) keeps her pants on, and excercises some common sense and self control.
I’m glad the truth is finally being uncovered in regards to this despicable practice. The scoundrels are now exposed...the length of this atrocity revealed. Really...when it comes to sex, just cover your head and duck.
I see a number of replies here that place all the blame on the women. Seems to me this article is about the men removing condoms which exposes the women to the risk of impregnation.
This article addresses situations where the men and woman have agreed he would use a condom, and he is violating the agreement, by removing it mid-act.
The men are the villains here.
We need to make ‘slut shaming’ great again.
Can't take the pill....all kinds of other contraceptive available.
But if you want to make sure you're not going to get raped and/or pregnant, don't climb in bed with the dude.
if she looked and noticed
trying to visualize the position during which that occured, some superior one I guess.
The thing that galls me about this stuff is what the hell kind of generation are we raising here.
That’s what Julian Assange is officially on the run for. The two girls wanted sex with him, he did it without a condom, they called it rape.
This is an invented complaint.
FAKE NEWS!
Hey Guys!
Any of you out there with sordid pasts believe this idea would ever occur to you?
Once its on and you are “under way”, is there some reason you’d stop for this?
NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!
What is she doing during to not notice what he’s doing....
How about have sex with someone you think so much of... you’d be OK with making another human being just like them.
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