Posted on 03/17/2013 8:53:28 PM PDT by doug from upland
Moms and dads, watch your girls and warn them about getting so drunk that they don't know what is happening to them. What happened to her went viral on the internet. At least three teenagers whose lives will never be the same.
I don’t understand how any father could resist the urge to torch those boys with a flamethrower, had it been their daughter.
I wonder if his cellmate will say the same thing about him.
2 obsessions would be good to get rid of which are now rampant in this country: alcohol and sex. People need to stop seeing drinking as the end-all be-all of “fun”, and sex as something they just have to have. It’s all ruining everything. In short, morality is needed.
That is what some guys think. Parents have to warn their daughters about how dangerous it can be for them whether it is booze or drugs. Nothing good will happen for a girl who passes out.
Agreed. Yesterday, someone around here said something like “We’ve all been that drunk.” Well, *I* have never even approached being drunk. I don’t like the feeling I get after a single wine cooler. I like being in control of myself.
Back in college a younger sister of a gal came to a party. She got way too drunk and was coming onto all the older guys (including me). She was a real cutie too. She ended up passing out, and we locked her in a bedroom with her older sister to take care of her and me and a buddy guarded the door as the other guys were trying to get to her.
Yeah - we were stupid college kids. But luckily not as stupid as some/most.
This is what gentlemen do: protect women.
Please warn your daughters NOT to leave their beverages unattended. Wherever she goes, her drink (even nonalcoholic ones) should go with her or she should pitch it and get a different one when she comes back. She should avoid drinking from anyone else's cup and she should never try an unknown beverage on a dare. It's very easy to slip drugs into the drink to zonk her out. And also please warn her that she should have a buddy at the party with her at all times. She should never stay by herself with her new "friends" if her buddy wants to leave the party. And always always make sure she knows how to arrange safe transportation home if she and her buddy are both intoxicated.
One more thing. Men can be assaulted anally just as this unfortunate girl allegedly was. You don't hear about it as often when the victim is male, but male sexual assault victims are out there. Please talk to your sons too :)
When I was 15 I was so horny I would have raped a snake if someone held its head. Drunk, large males in the proximity of attractive young females in a drunken stupor is simply a recipe for disaster. The difference between the Victorians and modern Americans is that the Victorians had a far better understanding of human nature.
I am not excusing anyone here, the perpetrators, their parents, their friends, the girl, her parents, whatever nitwit supplied the alcohol. It’s murder on the Orient Express, they all did it.
At least this douche bag is on a video that will hopefully follow him for his short, miserable life.
She wasn’t in a drunken stupor, she was drugged. According to the story on another thread, she was the ex girlfriend of one of the guys involved and he set this up to get revenge on her for the break up.
And what do ladies do?
The poor, innocent, virginal, pure girl in this case just has such bad luck doesn’t she?!
She’s a female and by definition not able to be accountable for her actions. Is that how it is? It’s a question that occurs to me as I have followed this case.
The girl is a disgrace to her family and her community. Tell me how she isn’t.
The poor, innocent, virginal, pure girl in this case just has such bad luck doesn’t she?!
She’s a female and by definition not able to be accountable for her actions. Is that how it is? It’s a question that occurs to me as I have followed this case.
The girl is a disgrace to her family and her community. Tell me how she isn’t.
I don’t disagree with you at all about her accountability. Truly this woman had no lick of common sense to get herself into this predicament. To call her a “lady” would be a stretch. The men who took advantage of her were no gentlemen, neither were the ones who stood by and did nothing to help.
A lady would know that alcohol plus strange men don’t mix. She would avoid underage drinking and limit her alcohol consumption to moderate amounts only in the company of trusted family and friends — not strangers.
Also, I don’t think having a chaperone around at these parties is such a bad idea.
The GIRL didn’t rape or hurt anyone.
They weren’t “strangers”. She thought they were her friends.
I have heard an endless stream of news on this matter and obviously ALL the teenagers involved were and still are pigs. Not one person has asked about how this took place at these homes without any parents being there. Where and the hell were these kids moms and dads at when these acts took place? When will the parents be brought in for questioning about what took place in their homes? I think the parents should be held accountable to some degree since it was their little animals that took part in these acts. Who owned these houses where the molestations took place and where the hell were they at when they happened?
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