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Who’s to Blame When a Black Man Rapes a Woman?
Pajamas Media ^ | Apr 29 2010 | Melissa Clouthier

Posted on 04/30/2010 5:34:12 AM PDT by walford

...A criminal wouldn’t be a criminal if he were loved more and society supported him, therefore it’s society’s fault that he is committing the fill-in-the-blank crime.

So who is to blame, then, when a black man rapes a woman? Would it be the rapist? No.

What follows is the harrowing and cognitively dissonant account of a woman’s rape at the hands of a black man she considered a friend. Her name is Amanda Kijera and here is her story:

Two weeks ago, on a Monday morning, I started to write what I thought was a very clever editorial about violence against women in Haiti. The case, I believed, was being overstated by women’s organizations in need of additional resources. Ever committed to preserving the dignity of black men in a world which constantly stereotypes them as violent savages, I viewed this writing as yet one more opportunity to fight “the man” on behalf of my brothers. That night, before I could finish the piece, I was held on a rooftop in Haiti and raped repeatedly by one of the very men who I had spent the bulk of my life advocating for.

It hurt. The experience was almost more than I could bear. I begged him to stop. Afraid he would kill me, I pleaded with him to honor my commitment to Haiti, to him as a brother in the mutual struggle for an end to our common oppression, but to no avail. He didn’t care that I was a Malcolm X scholar. He told me to shut up, and then slapped me in the face. Overpowered, I gave up fighting halfway through the night.

She continues:

Truly, I have witnessed as a journalist and human rights advocate the many injustices inflicted upon black men in this world. The pain, trauma and rage born of exploitation are terrors that I have grappled with every day of my life. They make one want to strike back, to fight rabidly for what is left of their personal dignity in the wake of such things. Black men have every right to the anger they feel in response to their position in the global hierarchy, but their anger is misdirected.

Women are not the source of their oppression; oppressive policies and the as-yet unaddressed white patriarchy which still dominates the global stage are. Because women — and particularly women of color — are forced to bear the brunt of the black male response to the black male plight, the international community and those nations who have benefited from the oppression of colonized peoples have a responsibility to provide women with the protection that they need.



TOPICS: Crime/Corruption; Culture/Society; Editorial
KEYWORDS: blametheman; collectivism; dementalillness; guilt; liberalism; mentaldisorder; prorape; psychobabble; racism; rape; stockholmsyndrome; whiteguilt
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To: walford

Hopefully she has not and will not reproduce. There are just some things that should come to an end.


41 posted on 04/30/2010 6:25:00 AM PDT by 17th Miss Regt
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To: walford

it’s Bush’s fault..


42 posted on 04/30/2010 6:25:31 AM PDT by Cacique (quos Deus vult perdere, prius dementat ( Islamia Delenda Est ))
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To: Citizen Tom Paine

I was going to privately reply to yours,
but I think this discussion is relevant to this thread,
and your private reply conveyed a sense of genuine civil
discourse on the topic.

You asked for the basis of my assertion, so here goes:

My assertion is based on Biblical truth backed up by historical observation and years of worldview studies, including many secular resources (Sowell’s works for example).

True, people were created good, in God’s image, but the Fall caused this nature to become inherently corrupt.

Any group of people who are not constrained by Judeo-Christian ethics or some authoritarian system will degenerate to their _base nature_ which is a propensity for evil.

Lord of the Flies is an instruction manual on base human nature. This is what an unconstrained group of humans will degenerate to if left to their base nature.

There is another novel whose name escapes me, but it had the opposite hypothesis. A group of young men were shipwrecked and formed a representative government on the island and had a prosperous, successful society...

Now, which, by historical observation, is more likely to occur? The base nature of man is readily apparent.

From my worldview studies, all of the “conclusions” of a leftist’s ideology are based on the assumption of human goodness, whilst the ideology of the conservative is based on the assumption of human nature’s defects. (Sowell - A Conflict of Visions; Focus on the Family - Truth Project)

The assumption of the inherent goodness of the human condition is why the left attempts to create (force) utopian societies here on this earth, through the superior vision of those (basically good people) who have self-actualized to the point where they can build such a society.

The assumption of human defectiveness leads one to see the inherent tradeoffs necessary in any society, and the acceptance of humans acting based on incentives instead of a basically good nature.

I can’t condense 5 years of study into one post, so I hope that’s a sufficient summary.


43 posted on 04/30/2010 6:32:37 AM PDT by MrB (The difference between a (de)humanist and a Satanist is that the latter knows who he's working for.)
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To: agere_contra
<burning sarc>

Yeah, that's right -- blame the poor flaming squirrels, you white dominator, you! Scum!!

</burning>

44 posted on 04/30/2010 6:34:44 AM PDT by lentulusgracchus
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To: walford

The only fact she got right that she was being raped by a black man. After that she still had to blame someone other than the perpetrator for her terrible plight, thus being victimized twice, once by the rapist, and second by the relentless dark psychosis of political correctness.


45 posted on 04/30/2010 6:36:37 AM PDT by Titus-Maximus (Light from Light)
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To: agere_contra
<voice> SEE? You're still doing it!!

</voice>

bwaaahahahahaaa!

46 posted on 04/30/2010 6:39:06 AM PDT by lentulusgracchus
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To: walford

Under the law as t is written, the fault would be the black man’s. But of course, liberals only believe in following the law when it fits their twisted world view.


47 posted on 04/30/2010 6:40:54 AM PDT by MEGoody (Ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free.)
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To: walford

I think the Vikings are to blame here.


48 posted on 04/30/2010 6:44:02 AM PDT by GrannyAnn
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To: Junior_G
I shudder to think of the violence toward others she would consider justified in the name of “social justice”.

We have a standing offer from Bill Ayers of 25,000,000 American lives.

49 posted on 04/30/2010 6:45:28 AM PDT by lentulusgracchus
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To: 17th Miss Regt
Hopefully she has not and will not reproduce.

Hey, she may have a beautiful little bouncing baby boy on the way as we write. Even better, he'll be biracial, like our President.

</irony>

50 posted on 04/30/2010 6:48:30 AM PDT by lentulusgracchus
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To: 1rudeboy

Garde la Foi, mes amis! Nous nous sommes les sauveurs de la République! Maintenant et Toujours!
(Keep the Faith, my friends! We are the saviors of the Republic! Now and Forever!)

LonePalm, le Républicain du verre cassé (The Broken Glass Republican)

51 posted on 04/30/2010 6:49:31 AM PDT by LonePalm (Commander and Chef)
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To: walford

Cracker ass Honkies, who else?


52 posted on 04/30/2010 7:05:03 AM PDT by HenpeckedCon (What pi$$es me off the most is that POS commie will get a State Funeral!)
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To: mbynack
I feel sorry for that poor black man.

He paid a heavy price to meet his needs. Imagine what horrors could compel a man to have to say something like this???

"He told me to shut up..."

Her whole story seems implausible.

53 posted on 04/30/2010 7:13:16 AM PDT by Theophilus ('a dog is smarter than its tail', but if the tail were smarter, then the tail would 'wag the dog'.)
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To: walford

It is not clear, but it appears that she is a self-hating white.


54 posted on 04/30/2010 7:18:52 AM PDT by JimRed (To water the Tree of Liberty is to excise a cancer before it kills us. TERM LIMITS, NOW AND FOREVER!)
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To: walford
Liberalism in a mental illness. Liberalism is a drug.

Liberals would rather be raped again than give up their drug.

55 posted on 04/30/2010 8:15:19 AM PDT by Cheburashka (Stephen Decatur: you want barrels of gunpowder as tribute, you must expect cannonballs with it.)
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To: Soothesayer

From her article:

“Not once did I envision myself becoming a receptacle for a Black man’s rage at the white world, but that is what I became. While I take issue with my brother’s behavior, I’m grateful for the experience.”

BTW - her article has over 130 responses. The first?

“I can’t help but laugh at the author’s self-righteous ignorance. She foolishly chose to ignore the crime statistics and the myriad news reports depicting the astonishing level of rape and violence in Haiti because they conflicted with her political beliefs.”

http://blogs.alternet.org/speakeasy/2010/04/23/we-are-not-your-weapons-we-are-women/


56 posted on 04/30/2010 8:26:21 AM PDT by Mr Rogers
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To: JimRed

Another comment on her story:

“Look at what weve done to Mother Earth.

Notice that 3 out of 4 people on Earth have dark hair and eyes, and wonder what kind of Corruption happened to us.

Notice also that African people contain the entire human genome, while we have about 1/3-1/4 of it.

Natural science > social science. Im sorry, but scientific fact trumps politics.

And youre right, i feel a ton of guilt over what white man and “civilization” has done to the planet. And rightfully so. Should i “seek help” to feel COMFORTABLE with being a member of those who raped the world? I mean, should i feel comfy with that???”

There are some really weird people out there...


57 posted on 04/30/2010 8:28:33 AM PDT by Mr Rogers
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To: walford

Obama’s mother’s side.


58 posted on 04/30/2010 8:30:34 AM PDT by ConservativeStatement (Obama "acted stupidly.")
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To: Mr Rogers
Another comment:

"Since Dyncorp abuses women and US military men prey on US mil women on way to bathroom and shower, then kill whistleblowers, we can be thus informed and suspect Canadian Garda World security firm in Haiti. Only the above Democratically Accountable Indigenous security is going to work for women, not foreign unaccountable billion dollar security con men Bertie_Wooster is advertising by his Lord of the Flies pro-pagan-da of savage little children on the island in need of hired-archicalist hater big people to come and point guns at them!"


59 posted on 04/30/2010 8:31:59 AM PDT by Mr Rogers
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To: walford

Bush’s fault


60 posted on 04/30/2010 8:32:17 AM PDT by a fool in paradise (The hysteria of Matthewsism and Andersonism has led to a Tea Party Scare that is unAmerican.)
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