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We Need to Have Empathy for Tea Partiers
http://www.psychologytoday.com ^ | by Michael Bader, D.M.H.

Posted on 03/05/2010 12:05:55 PM PST by Maelstorm

Edited on 03/05/2010 12:08:24 PM PST by Admin Moderator. [history]

These tea-party folks seem to most liberals-well, to most of us who live in the "reality community," or, as I like to call it, "reality"-like crazy [expletive deleted by Mod].

As a recent NY Times article reports, this hodgepodge of people and groups spout frankly paranoid beliefs as received wisdom, e.g. the Federal Reserve is our enemy and should be abolished, citizens should stock up on ammo, gold, and survival food in anticipation of an impending Civil War, states should "nullify" federal laws and even secede, medical records are being shipped to federal bureaucrats, the Army is seeking "Internment/Resettlement" specialists, Obama is trying to create crises in order to destroy the economy, convert Interpol into his personal police force, and create a New World Order. Conspiracy theories involving shadowy elites like the Trilateral Commission and the Council on Foreign Relations have resurfaced. Self-defense and armed resistance are frequently called for. Racist stereotypes, innuendo, and hostility run rampant. The Constitution is its sacred text and Glenn Beck its most beloved prophet. They don't usually wear aluminum hats but perhaps they should.

I hate these folks but I also understand them. And, well, uh, I also empathize with them. They share the same psychology as the paranoid patients I treat every day. The only difference is that the paranoid beliefs of the tea-party movement are political while those in my consulting room are of a more personal nature.

The causes and dynamics, however, are the same. And so just as I have empathy for my patients, I have come to have empathy for the tea-party'ers, even as I despise their influence and work hard to defeat their ideology. It's crucial that progressives do likewise because if we don't understand the ways that decent, god-fearing, and victimized people can come to espouse such a dangerous ideology, we won't be able to fight them effectively.

I treat people who are paranoid all the time. Sometimes they're only mildly paranoid. For example, someone I treat can't tolerate blame of any kind, can't take any responsibility for failures, and can't really be optimistic about the potential goodness in others. It's always someone else's fault. Other times, they're more severely paranoid. A patient I saw spun tale after tale of slights, interpreted innocuous events as malignant, saw conspiracies everywhere, and always imputed malevolence to others' motives. The most extreme cases can be found in the delusions of schizophrenics.

There isn't one cause of paranoia. Tomes have been written about it. Individual variations and exceptions abound. A few generalizations, however, can be made. Paranoid people are trying their best to make sense of and mitigate feelings of helplessness and worthlessness. Their beliefs are attempts to solve a profound problem, albeit in ways that distort reality.

People can't tolerate feeling helpless and self-hating for very long. It's too painful. It's too demoralizing, too frightening. They have to find an antidote. They have to make sense of it all in a way that restores their sense of meaning, their feeling of agency, their self-esteem, and their belief in the possibility of redemption. They have to. They have no choice. That's just the way the mind works.

The paranoid strategy is to generate a narrative that finally "explains it all." A narrative-a set of beliefs about the way the world is and is supposed to be--helps make sense of chaos. It reduces guilt and self-blame by projecting it onto someone else. And it restores a sense of agency by offering up an enemy to fight. Finally, it offers hope that if "they"-the enemy, the conspirators--can be avoided or destroyed, the paranoid person's core feelings of helplessness and devaluation will go away.

Take an extreme case. Someone I saw years ago had a paranoid delusion that orbiting satellites were trying to control his mind. He went to great lengths to insulate his apartment so as to repel these psychic assaults. When I got to know him better, I discovered that he developed this delusion as a way to make sense of an on-going but terrifying experience--the genesis of which lay in his childhood--that he wasn't a separate person and didn't have the right to his own thoughts. This terrifying feeling of helpless vulnerability was rendered comprehensible to him by his delusion about orbiting satellites. In a paradoxical way, his delusion reduced his terror even as it generated its own fears and dangers.

Another patient I saw had a daughter who was mentally retarded. When the daughter's disability was discovered, he felt so helpless and guilty (normal feelings that were exaggerated by experiences from his own childhood) that he slowly developed the belief that the daughter had been the unwitting victim of sexual abuse by relatives, that this abuse had led to various cognitive arrests, and that treatment for the abuse could and would restore her to normalcy. In this way, he negated his guilt, and momentarily overcame his helplessness through a heroic search for a therapeutic "cure."

While extreme cases, these vignettes illustrate the core truth about paranoia, namely, that it is an attempt to lessen unbearable feelings of self-blame and powerlessness. In this special sense, psychotherapists understand paranoid beliefs as attempts at adaptation and self-healing, even as these beliefs compromise the ability to test reality and invariably create suffering of their own.

Paranoid beliefs about Obama and the government promulgated by the ultra-right have a similar genesis and meaning. In the Times story about the tea-party movement, the writer describes how most tea-party activists are not loyal Republicans. "They are frequently political neophytes," he writes, "who prize independence and tell strikingly similar stories of having been awakened by the recession. Their families upended by lost jobs, foreclosed homes and depleted retirement funds, they said they wanted to know why it happened and whom to blame."

They began listening to Beck, reading the Federalist Papers, books by Ayn Rand and George Orwell, and started visiting radical right wing websites. The Times writer then makes a crucial observation: "Many describe emerging from their research as if reborn to a new reality." In other words, like my patients, the tea party folks find in their paranoid views about politics a narrative that "explains it all," that reduces their sense of helpless confusion, and that channels their feelings of victimization into ones of self-righteous militancy. They go from passive victim to active agent, from guilty to innocent, but all at the price of distorting reality into one full of malevolent conspiracies.

The payoff is that they are no longer confused. They are reborn and now, thankfully, have the "answer." And that answer is that big forces are hurting and enslaving them.

And while these forces include the banks and large corporations, the main culprit is, of course, the government. People don't have a direct and immediate experience of Goldman Sachs. The do, however, experience government every day, not only on television news shows, but via laws, taxes, public services (or the lack thereof), law enforcement, etc.

Lots of people feel guilty and helpless, of course, and most don't become paranoid. Some become simply depressed or resigned, others turn to strategies of distraction or addictive self-medication. Others might face their feelings more directly, tolerate them, and find alternative solutions, e.g. turn to friends, therapists, or various communities of support. Still others may find relief for painful feelings by projecting all meaning and agency onto God. And some simply fight back against "reality," despite long odds. The psychological reasons that one person turns to paranoia and another seeks a healthier solution are not generally known.

It is also obvious that left wing conspiracy theorists share much of the same pathology as those on the right wing of the spectrum.

For new tea-party members, however, the drift toward paranoia is facilitated by the right-wing media machine that offers several ready-made narratives perfectly designed to help its consumers clear up their confusion, understand their helplessness, absolve them of any blame, and offer a way out. The conspiratorial alliance of business and government, a growing tyranny intended to disenfranchise, disarm, and exploit ordinary citizens, secret pacts to overthrow the constitution, etc. all currently led by an un-American, godless, colored, elitist, contemptuous, foreigner--Barack Hussein Obama. A grim and frightening picture of the world to be sure.

Psychologically speaking, however, it offers relief from helplessness and a sense that things are falling apart. It offers a sense of cohesion and identity based on certainty, a commonality of interests, innocence, and even martyrdom. While the world of the tea-party'ers is filled with danger, it is a danger mitigated by moral certainty, clarity of purpose, and a definable external enemy.

The "problem," then, is not the paranoid story line but the anxiety, helplessness, and pain that generate it. And that pain is not irrational or crazy. It's real. We all feel it. Most of us do feel helpless in relation to the most important aspects of our lives, from the nature of our work to its security, from our politicians who are on the corporate dole to those perpetuating gridlock through their narrow ideology, from the quality of our health care to its availability, and from the isolation and loneliness of everyday social life.

The pain of self-blaming is also ubiquitous in the cultural assumption that our lot in life is determined primarily by individual ability, not by getting help from others. Confusion, anxiety, disconnectedness, and a sense that "things are falling apart" are not crazy feelings. They are accurate and valid responses to a highly alienated and often abusive social world.

The "problem" is that tea-party activists move from legitimate feelings and normal longings to paranoid political positions that are dangerous and cruel. But because these positions serve an important psychological function, because they resolve an emotional dilemma, they can't be changed by rational argument. I have never been able to help a paranoid patient even a little bit by arguing with his or her view of reality. Not one bit. The only way I have been able to make any headway is use our relationship to provide real experiences that have a shot at providing an alternative and more satisfying "solution" to their underlying fears. Only then can I begin to offer a counter-narrative, one that acknowledges their pain and innocence, but enables them to more accurately identify its sources and, therefore, its antidote.

Perhaps the progressive movement shouldn't waste its time dealing with the tea-party movement except as a spur to get our own house-and movement-in order. A legitimate argument can be made that these people are, simply, the enemy and that our challenge is to build progressive majorities immune to their sabotage and interference. But I would argue that to the extent we want to reach people who are drawn to tea-party, patriot, libertarian, and other right wing movements but are not yet hard-line ideologues, or prevent others from becoming so, we have to begin with empathy. We have to get inside their heads, figure out how their choices are reasonable from their point of view.

It would help if we found ways to get into relationship with them, to demonstrate a genuine curiosity not about their paranoid theories but about the underlying pain and fear that is the source of them. In this way, perhaps we can figure out how to speak to that pain and fear in ways that are both authentic and comforting. Perhaps we can figure out what experiences they might need to have in order to feel safe enough to at least listen to another narrative-ours.


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To: Maelstorm
citizens should stock up on ammo, gold, and survival food in anticipation of an impending Civil War...

That's just crazy!

I'm stocking up for when welfare payments either stop or are paid in worthless dollars.

It'll really be more of a massacre rather than a Civil war (Democrats killing Democrats), and I prefer not to be in the middle of it.

81 posted on 03/05/2010 1:32:17 PM PST by The Duke
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To: Maelstorm

And they call us nuts!


82 posted on 03/05/2010 1:35:44 PM PST by Randy Larsen ( BTW, If I offend you! Please let me know, I may want to offend you again!(FR #1690))
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To: Maelstorm
...the Federal Reserve is our enemy and should be abolished, citizens should stock up on ammo, gold, and survival food in anticipation of an impending Civil War, states should "nullify" federal laws and even secede, medical records are being shipped to federal bureaucrats, the Army is seeking "Internment/Resettlement" specialists, Obama is trying to create crises in order to destroy the economy, convert Interpol into his personal police force, and create a New World Order.

Yes. But get to the part of their beliefs that are crazy.

83 posted on 03/05/2010 1:36:01 PM PST by Arthur McGowan (In Edward Kennedy's America, federal funding of brothels is a right, not a privilege.)
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To: kcvl

That shirt is guilty of unmitigated faggotry...


84 posted on 03/05/2010 1:39:15 PM PST by ExpatGator (I hate Illinois Nazis!)
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To: Maelstorm

By Michael Bader

The Psychology of the Right-Wing’s Anti-Government ‘Death-Panel’ Delusions

Calling people brainwashed, racist or stupid feels good but doesn’t really explain the heart of their irrational fear and hatred of government.

September 5, 2009
A lot of heavyweight thinkers have offered explanations of the irrationality of modern political behavior — you know, behavior like Medicare recipients at town halls screaming about the evils of government-run health care, or otherwise-reasonable people likening President Barack Obama’s plan to Nazi eugenics.

http://www.alternet.org/story/142439/the_psychology_of_the_right-wing%27s_anti-government_%22death-panel%22_delusions

It simply means that when people routinely act against their own best interest, it’s worth understanding all levels of their motivation.


85 posted on 03/05/2010 1:42:05 PM PST by kcvl
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To: Stillwaters

Oy. Dr. Baden wrote a whole article while looking at himself in a mirror and being unable to recognize his own image. Projection much?


86 posted on 03/05/2010 1:50:38 PM PST by lonevoice (If Fox News is the only outlet reporting it, did it really happen?)
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To: The KG9 Kid
Well, I think it's probably time to shut down Psych departments in universities then.

Psych departments have never been legitimate. You can go all the way back to Freud and psychology has always, and I do mean always, been a steaming pile of BS. Because of recent successes with neuroscience you now often see academic psychologists trying to latch on to the others' legitimacy, but at the end of the day neuroscientists conduct science, and psychologists invent meaningless stories without any true attempt at the scientific method. Their entire profession is utterly pointless.
87 posted on 03/05/2010 1:50:48 PM PST by newguy357
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To: FrankR
They're not infallable, i.e. the Ft. Hood terrorist was a shrink.

There has been more people killed by psychologists than by Tea Partiers.

88 posted on 03/05/2010 1:52:27 PM PST by highlander_UW (Obama has lost or not saved over 4 million jobs!)
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To: Maelstorm

The world has been warned of the coming age of the sycophantic classes of pill pushers since before this Michael Bader was born....

“I drink to the imminence of His Coming,” he repeated, ... with a sincere attempt to feel that the coming was imminent; but the eyebrow continued to haunt him, and the Coming, so far as he was concerned, was horribly remote. He drank and handed the cup to Clara Deterding. “It’ll be a failure again,” he said to himself. “I know it will.” But he went on doing his best to beam. (5.2.17)

“”Don’t you want to be free and men? Don’t you even understand what manhood and freedom are?” Rage was making him fluent; the words came easily, in a rush. “Don’t you?” he repeated, but got no answer to his question. “Very well then,” he went on grimly. “I’ll teach you; I’ll make you be free whether you want to or not.” And pushing open a window that looked on to the inner court of the Hospital, he began to throw the little pill-boxes of soma tablets in handfuls out into the area.”

For a moment the khaki mob was silent, petrified, at the spectacle of this wanton sacrilege, with amazement and horror.”

“Free, free!” the Savage shouted, and with one hand continued to throw the soma into the area while, with the other, he punched the indistinguishable faces of his assailants. “Free!” And suddenly there was Helmholtz at his side-”Good old Helmholtz!”-also punching-”Men at last!”-and in the interval also throwing the poison out by handfuls through the open window. “Yes, men! men!” and there was no more poison left. He picked up the cash-box and showed them its black emptiness. “You’re free!”

“Two minutes later the Voice and the soma vapour had produced their effect. In tears, the Deltas were kissing and hugging one another-half a dozen twins at a time in a comprehensive embrace. Even Helmholtz and the Savage were almost crying. A fresh supply of pill-boxes was brought in from the Bursary; a new distribution was hastily made and, to the sound of the Voice’s richly affectionate, baritone valedictions, the twins dispersed, blubbering as though their hearts would break. “Good-bye, my dearest, dearest friends, Ford keep you! Good-bye, my dearest, dearest friends, Ford keep you. Good-bye my dearest, dearest ...”


89 posted on 03/05/2010 2:09:01 PM PST by JerseyHighlander
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To: lonevoice
Oy. Dr. Baden wrote a whole article while looking at himself in a mirror and being unable to recognize his own image.

Probably because he produces no reflection in a mirror.

90 posted on 03/05/2010 2:21:40 PM PST by Erasmus ("Ah, sweet Albion. My perfidious, perfidious Albion!")
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To: ETL

It;s in his bio...I already posted the link...and here’s MORE...he’s a self avowed marxist:

http://michaelbader.com/articles_politics_and_me.html

Politics and Me

With two books about it under my belt (so to speak), I’ve written more words about sex than about politics. But politics and social change are closest to my heart at the moment, and I hope to redress the imbalance in my word count in the near future.

I was always a lefty. My father was the only liberal in a family and community of racist republicans. My older brother went to U.C. Santa Barbara in 1967 and gave an adoring younger brother regular reports from “the front.’ And I went to Berkeley from 1970 to 1976. ‘Nuff said.

At first, politics for me was all about the New Left, Marxism, and political economy. I was “out-there,” active in various extremist groups, and fully engaged at the same time with the counter-culture. Eventually, with the decline of the New Left, I gave up being active in the public political world and chose a profession—psychology. I never gave up my sentiments or beliefs, but couldn’t figure out how to blend them with my work, since I don’t believe that good therapy should have a political agenda in any way.

But then I started writing for progressive magazines and started to feel less divided within myself. Michael Lerner published me in Tikkun. Don Hazen did the same in Alternet. And, about six years ago, I helped form something called the Institute for Change, sponsored by the Service Employees International Union. The Institute has an interdisciplinary faculty, from shrinks to corporate consultants, to community organizers, to union activists, and we’re all dedicated to the aim of helping unions become more radical, more effective, more politically savvy, and more engaged with their members in order to help spearhead a progressive movement for social change. It’s been a life-changing experience for me. I feel blessed to have been given the opportunity to meet and work with so many extraordinary union leaders and to finally find a setting in which I can express and bring together the clinical, personal, and political passions that have always been inside me. I hope to reflect these experiences in my writings on this website.


Stark raving moonbat!


91 posted on 03/05/2010 2:22:59 PM PST by Crim
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To: ExpatGator

Gaydar is pingin’....


92 posted on 03/05/2010 2:25:17 PM PST by Crim
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To: Maelstorm

Well, the author got the Ayn Rand thing right. Atlas Shrugged has been scientifically proven to destroy brain cells.

But Orwell? And guns? What the heck’s wrong with guns? And a few extra guns for good measure. And ammo. And some armor piercing rounds just in case. And a few more guns.

This was a poorly written hit-piece article.

parsy, who has a gun or two...


93 posted on 03/05/2010 2:31:12 PM PST by parsifal (Abatis: Rubbish in front of a fort, to prevent the rubbish outside from molesting the rubbish inside)
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To: Trailerpark Badass
I like to think the two events are unrelated.

But, if they weren't, just think of the service you have rendered to society!

94 posted on 03/05/2010 3:03:14 PM PST by Dr. Thorne (Buy Gold and Guns Now!)
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To: Crim

Great! Thanks. I didn’t catch the link earlier.


95 posted on 03/05/2010 3:06:58 PM PST by ETL (ALL (most?) of the Obama-commie connections at my FR Home page: http://www.freerepublic.com/~etl/)
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To: ETL

It was in his bio at the site that posted his pseudo-intellectual article.


96 posted on 03/05/2010 3:18:06 PM PST by spodefly (I have posted nothing but BTTT over 1000 times!!!)
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To: Maelstorm

Folks, your tax dollars are paying the incomes of most of the psychologists, feminists, all. But you continue to allow yourselves to be diverted to thoughts of Social Security, unemployment benefits, etc.

Wise up.


97 posted on 03/05/2010 4:02:46 PM PST by familyop (cbt. engr. (cbt), NG, '89-' 96, Duncan Hunter or no-vote.)
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To: familyop

We are fighting the fire but not the cause. We are funding the arsonists that are burning are country to the ground socially and fiscally.


98 posted on 03/05/2010 5:31:25 PM PST by Maelstorm (No one is entitled to what they do not earn.)
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To: Maelstorm

Exactly.


99 posted on 03/05/2010 5:33:50 PM PST by familyop (cbt. engr. (cbt), NG, '89-' 96, Duncan Hunter or no-vote.)
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To: Crim

So, he appears to have, among other issues, some things to work out between himself and his father and brother.


100 posted on 03/05/2010 7:25:34 PM PST by ronnyquest (That's what governments are for: to get in a man's way.)
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