Posted on 08/20/2007 7:17:43 AM PDT by scripter
NEW YORK (AP) - So you're between the ages of 13 and 24. What makes you happy? A worried, weary parent might imagine the answer to sound something like this: Sex, drugs, a little rock 'n' roll. Maybe some cash, or at least the car keys. Turns out the real answer is quite different. Spending time with family was the top answer to that open-ended question, according to an extensive survey—more than 100 questions asked of 1,280 people ages 13-24—conducted by The Associated Press and MTV on the nature of happiness among America's young people.
Next was spending time with friends, followed by time with a significant other. And even better for parents: Nearly three-quarters of young people say their relationship with their parents makes them happy.
"They're my foundation," says Kristiana St. John, 17, a high-school student from Queens in New York. "My mom tells me that even if I do something stupid, she's still going to love me no matter what. Just knowing that makes me feel very happy and blessed."
Other results are more disconcerting. While most young people are happy overall with the way their lives are going, there are racial differences: the poll shows whites to be happier, across economic categories, than blacks and Hispanics. A lot of young people feel stress, particularly those from the middle class, and females more than males.
You might think money would be clearly tied to a general sense of happiness. But almost no one said "money" when asked what makes them happy, though people with the highest family incomes are generally happier with life. However, having highly educated parents is a stronger predictor of happiness than income.
And sex? Yes, we were getting to that. Being sexually active actually leads to less happiness among 13-17 year olds, according to the survey. If you're 18 to 24, sex might lead to more happiness in the moment, but not in general.
From the body to the soul: Close to half say religion and spirituality are very important. And more than half say they believe there is a higher power that has an influence over things that make them happy. Beyond religion, simply belonging to an organized religious group makes people happier.
And parents, here's some more for you: Most young people in school say it makes them happy. Overwhelmingly, young people think marriage would make them happy and want to be married some day. Most also want to have kids.
Finally, when asked to name their heroes, nearly half of respondents mentioned one or both of their parents. The winner, by a nose: Mom.
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Wow. The AP is just now discovering this? And they expect us to depend on them to deliver the news? Astounding!
Years ago before “daycare” this would have been
COMMON SENSE.
Now, as $$$$ as our god, many are raising their children to be the same way $$$ = love.
“...Close to half say religion and spirituality are very important...”
Not a very good stat...apparently most say that all that God stuff is not very important.
So, prayer in school and abstinence only sex ed will gain momemtum from this, right? Hello? Anybody care?
And if they have an unhappy home life, they’ll probably go through life never really finding happiness.
I'm so hurt. ;-)
I’d definitely like to see the stats higher. I heard a report on the radio this morning that children need to see their parents praying together and they also need to see their parents living what they say they believe. That’s good advice if parents want their children stating religion and spirituality are very important in their lives.
This poll may provide sobering results to many parents across the nation.
Indeed, Democrats should take note and abandon their attacks against real family ties.
They DON’T care about children - they care about destroying traditional American society and culture.
Daycare and forcing moms into the workforce (through taxation on families) are part of that agenda.
“This poll may provide sobering results to many parents across the nation.”
They’ll tune it out.
They WANT to believe that love = stuff.
They prefer to chase the $$$$.
Years ago this was COMMON SENSE !
Gee, I guess it DOESN’T take a village to raise a child.
I like your point. Perhaps somebody can use this in the next Presidential election.
Oh please...get over yourself.
Gee, do you think there is a correlation between the lack of happiness and the near complete breakdown of the nuclear family in the Black and Hispanic social communities?
No doubt. It’s perfectly possibe to be poor and happy. With a loving family around you and a belief in yourself, who cares? Especially as a kid. Go out and play in a pond or in the creek.
But with the disintegration of the family, well...
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