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Ready, set, party for the Gay Games
Chicago Tribune ^ | 7/13/2006 | Monica Eng

Posted on 07/13/2006 7:06:53 AM PDT by Mike Bates

With more than a dozen parties competing for your attention during the Gay Games, which run Saturday through July 22 throughout the Chicago area, just keeping up with the festivities could be a medal sport--with extra points for knowing exactly what to wear and how to prepare for each event.

Some, such as the lavish "circuit parties" that are part of the gay scene in major cities, will keep you out dancing until breakfast time. Others are great for an early-evening transition into party mode.

Debra Minghi is a self-described international circuit party veteran. She's also marketing program manager for the Gay Games. Minghi helped us develop this pre-game strategy for going to some of the biggest Gay Games galas--and figuring out which parties are best for your nights on the town.

PARTY SURVIVAL PLAN

Be early: If you want to meet new people, arrive at the parties about 15 minutes before they begin. This way you can mix and chat before the music gets too loud.

All are welcome: Even if parties are labeled "women's" or "men's" events, everyone is welcome because "the games are all participation, inclusion and personal best," Minghi says.

SNIP

Have flair: Although sporty outfits are likely to prevail, Minghi says, "you'll also see a lot of sequins and feathers. We encourage people to show their creativity."

When in ... : Just like when you were in high school, a good rule of thumb is "to call your friends to see what they are going to wear. Some people like to come theme-dressed with their groups of friends like `Boy Scouts gone crazy' or something," Minghi says.

(Excerpt) Read more at chicagotribune.com ...


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To: Mike Bates

Gay-Pride Parade Sets Mainstream Acceptance Of Gays Back 50 Years

April 25, 2001 | Issue 37•15

WEST HOLLYWOOD, CA–The mainstream acceptance of gays and lesbians, a hard-won civil-rights victory gained through decades of struggle against prejudice and discrimination, was set back at least 50 years Saturday in the wake of the annual Los Angeles Gay Pride Parade.

Gay-Pride Parade

Participants in Saturday's Los Angeles Gay Pride Parade, which helped change straight people's tolerant attitudes toward gays.

"I'd always thought gays were regular people, just like you and me, and that the stereotype of homosexuals as hedonistic, sex-crazed deviants was just a destructive myth," said mother of four Hannah Jarrett, 41, mortified at the sight of 17 tanned and oiled boys cavorting in jock straps to a throbbing techno beat on a float shaped like an enormous phallus. "Boy, oh, boy, was I wrong."

The parade, organized by the Los Angeles Gay And Lesbian And Bisexual And Transvestite And Transgender Alliance (LAGALABATATA), was intended to "promote acceptance, tolerance, and equality for the city's gay community." Just the opposite, however, was accomplished, as the event confirmed the worst fears of thousands of non-gay spectators, cementing in their minds a debauched and distorted image of gay life straight out of the most virulent right-wing hate literature.

Among the parade sights and sounds that did inestimable harm to the gay-rights cause: a group of obese women in leather biker outfits passing out clitoris-shaped lollipops to horrified onlookers; a man in military uniform leading a submissive masochist, clad in diapers and a baby bonnet, around on a dog leash; several Hispanic dancers in rainbow wigs and miniskirts performing "humping" motions on a mannequin dressed as the Pope; and a dozen gyrating drag queens in see-through dresses holding penis-shaped beer bottles that appeared to spurt ejaculation-like foam when shaken and poured onto passersby.

Timothy Orosco, 51, a local Walgreens manager whose store is on the parade route, changed his attitude toward gays as a result of the event.

"They kept chanting things like, 'We're here, we're queer, get used to it!' and 'Hey, hey, we're gay, we're not going to go away!'" Orosco said. "All I can say is, I was used to it, but now, although I'd never felt this way before, I wish they would go away."

Gay-Pride Parade_jump

Members of the Laguna Beach Leatherdaddy Association make their final pre-march preparations.

Allison Weber, 43, an El Segundo marketing consultant, also had her perceptions and assumptions about gays challenged by the parade.

"My understanding was that gay people are just like everybody else–decent, hard-working people who care about their communities and have loving, committed relationships," Weber said. "But, after this terrifying spectacle, I don't want them teaching my kids or living in my neighborhood."

The parade's influence extended beyond L.A.'s borders, altering the attitudes of straight people across America. Footage of the event was featured on telecasts of The 700 Club as "proof of the sin-steeped world of homosexuality." A photo spread in Monday's USA Today chronicled many of the event's vulgar displays–understood by gays to be tongue-in-cheek "high camp"–which horrified previously tolerant people from coast to coast.

Dr. Henry Thorne, a New York University history professor who has written several books about the gay-rights movement, explained the misunderstanding.

"After centuries of oppression as an 'invisible' segment of society, gays, emboldened by the 1969 Stonewall uprising, took to the streets in the early '70s with an 'in-your-face' attitude. Confronting the worst prejudices of a world that didn't accept them, they fought back against these prejudices with exaggeration and parody, reclaiming their enemies' worst stereotypes about them and turning them into symbols of gay pride," Thorne said. "Thirty years later, gays have won far greater acceptance in the world at large, but they keep doing this stuff anyway."

"Mostly, I think, because it's really fun," Thorne added.

The Los Angeles Gay Pride Parade, Thorne noted, is part of a decades-old gay-rights tradition. But, for mainstream heterosexuals unfamiliar with irony and the reclamation of stereotypes for the purpose of exploding them, the parade resembled an invasion of grotesque outer-space mutants, bent on the destruction of the human race.

"I have a cousin who's a gay, and he seemed like a decent enough guy to me," said Iowa City, IA, resident Russ Linder, in Los Angeles for a weekend sales seminar. "Now, thanks to this parade, I realize what a freak he's been all along. Gays are all sick, immoral perverts."

Parade organizers vowed to make changes in the wake of the negative reaction among heterosexuals.

"I knew it. I said we needed 100 dancers on the 'Show Us Your Ass' float, but everybody insisted that 50 would be enough," said Lady Labia, spokesperson for LAGALABATATA. "Next year, we're really going to give those breeders something to look at."

© Copyright 2006, Onion, Inc. All rights reserved.
The Onion is not intended for readers under 18 years of age.


21 posted on 07/13/2006 7:16:31 AM PDT by tellw
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To: Mike Bates
Lamar in action:
Lamar's Javelin Wonderment
22 posted on 07/13/2006 7:17:09 AM PDT by SoFloFreeper
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To: FearlessFreep
Oh.

My.

Head.

I didn't know the male camel toe was possible. I didn't want to know. But now I do.

23 posted on 07/13/2006 7:18:09 AM PDT by Hemingway's Ghost (Spirit of '75)
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To: Ronaldus Magnus Reagan
Gays sure do love to put their bedroom out on their front porch, don't they?

That about sums up my problem with 'em. Whenever I hear of someone chest-bumping the world with the verbal sledge hammer, "I'm gay!", I feel that they are demanding that we all contemplate their sexual activities. Personally, I don't want to be forced to contemplate the sexual activities of anyone.

To me, this is a childish demand for attention and acceptance. You might be able to force my attention; but you can't force my acceptance.

24 posted on 07/13/2006 7:18:20 AM PDT by bannie (The government which robs Peter to pay Paul can always depend upon the support of Paul.)
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To: Mike Bates

Guessing that there will be a meat-and-greet on the first day....


25 posted on 07/13/2006 7:19:24 AM PDT by NRA1995 (Zarqawi died, liberals cried....)
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To: COEXERJ145

I think there will be some fudging on the scores.


26 posted on 07/13/2006 7:20:55 AM PDT by DungeonMaster (More and more churches are nada scriptura.)
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To: tellw
oiled boys cavorting in jock straps to a throbbing techno beat

Some things just kind of write themselves, don't they?

27 posted on 07/13/2006 7:21:46 AM PDT by NRA1995 (Zarqawi died, liberals cried....)
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To: Mike Bates
Mayor Daley said the other day that Chicago is proud of it's "gay" community. He said they are a great asset.

He is a pig, not to mention the dumbest elected official in the country.

Not to mention he is a criminal.

28 posted on 07/13/2006 7:22:42 AM PDT by Protagoras (("Minimum-wage laws are one of the most powerful tools in the arsenal of racists." - Walter Williams)
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To: Hemingway's Ghost; Admin Moderator

Guess I pushed it too far.
I apologize.


29 posted on 07/13/2006 7:22:53 AM PDT by FearlessFreep (Excuse me. But are those your legs or are you riding a chicken?)
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To: tellw
I know it's satire, but I think it's dead-on accurate. Society would not accept similar public displays from heterosexuals. Why must we accept such public lewdness from homosexuals?
30 posted on 07/13/2006 7:25:14 AM PDT by Hemingway's Ghost (Spirit of '75)
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To: Ronaldus Magnus Reagan

Hey, some people put their sofas, refrigerators, and washers out there, too. Not usually the same people, but you never know.


31 posted on 07/13/2006 7:25:41 AM PDT by linda_22003
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To: FearlessFreep

For the record, I thought it was pretty funny. Gross, but funny.


32 posted on 07/13/2006 7:26:38 AM PDT by Hemingway's Ghost (Spirit of '75)
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To: Hemingway's Ghost

Me too. lol


33 posted on 07/13/2006 7:28:24 AM PDT by FearlessFreep (Excuse me. But are those your legs or are you riding a chicken?)
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To: Protagoras
According to the Sun-Times:

Daley, an outspoken proponent of gay marriage, was asked whether Chicago's decision to host the Gay Games would enhance his administration's reputation as "pro-gay."

"I hope so. Yes. Definitely," he said, to a round of applause from event organizers.

"It's very simple. First of all, they are great residents of Chicago. They're our doctors, our teachers, our lawyers. . . . They're involved in child care. They're parents. They're raising families. Definitely. They're great citizens of Chicago."

Involved in child care? Wonder how that flew into his pretty little head?

34 posted on 07/13/2006 7:28:43 AM PDT by Mike Bates (Irish Alzheimer's victim: I only remember the grudges.)
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To: Mike Bates

Q: Why do the running events take forever at the gay games?

A: Because everyone is trying to come in the rear.


35 posted on 07/13/2006 7:32:10 AM PDT by Our man in washington
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To: SoFloFreeper

Man, he sure knows how to chuck that spe...ah...javelin.


36 posted on 07/13/2006 7:32:24 AM PDT by Mashood
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To: Ronaldus Magnus Reagan

What people do in the privacy of their own porch is nobodies business.


37 posted on 07/13/2006 7:33:11 AM PDT by aligncare (Watergate killed journalism)
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To: Mike Bates

BTTT


38 posted on 07/13/2006 7:35:21 AM PDT by Inspectorette
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To: FearlessFreep

I don't get that gerbil thing.


39 posted on 07/13/2006 7:38:41 AM PDT by oyez (The way to punish a providence is to allow it to be governed by philosophers. --Frederick the Great)
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To: oyez

http://urbanlegends.about.com/od/celebrities/a/richard_gere.htm


40 posted on 07/13/2006 7:41:52 AM PDT by FearlessFreep (Excuse me. But are those your legs or are you riding a chicken?)
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