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West Sac mayor ends his silence - he's gay
Sacramento Bee ^
| 3/30/6
| Ed Fletcher
Posted on 03/30/2006 10:19:26 AM PST by SmithL
West Sacramento Mayor Christopher Cabaldon has anxiously kept his sexual orientation a secret his entire political career.
He broke his silence on the subject Wednesday night at the annual State of the City dinner at West Sacramento City Hall.
"The pressure and the stigma and sometimes the all too casual bigotry in this town made it painfully clear when I first ran for office that I could either serve this community or I could be a gay man. But I could not be both," Cabaldon said.
His disclosure - planned well in advance - concluded a speech focusing on levees, "walkable" communities and schools. After celebrating the accomplishments of the city and discussing the future, he disclosed that he was gay.
Cabaldon said he decided to disclose he's gay to make it easier for other gays and lesbians wrestling with making their sexual orientation public.
In an interview this week, Cabaldon said when he began his political career, he thought he couldn't disclose the matter. So rather than lead a double life or a secret life, Cabaldon said he decided he couldn't have a personal life.
"Nobody could really out me before because I wasn't dating," said Cabaldon. "I'm still not dating or anything like that."
His heartfelt address Wednesday night brought the crowd of 150 developers, business and political leaders to a standing ovation, some with tears in their eyes.
Developer Bryan Taylor said, "We couldn't be more proud of our mayor."
The 41-year-old mayor's unusual "coming out" will be carried in documentary form on an MTV Networks cable channel featuring gay-themed programming. A crew working for the Logo channel has been shadowing Cabaldon for the better part of a week. The program is expected to air in July.
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TOPICS: Culture/Society; Government; News/Current Events; Politics/Elections; US: California
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To: marine86297
Because Viacom wants a bigger slice of your basic cable bill for their coffers.
Some legislators have started to look at the ability to select only the channels you WANT to pay for in digital systems (no sense in subsidizing what you don't watch or support).
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posted on
03/30/2006 10:42:45 AM PST
by
weegee
("Republicans believe every day is the Fourth of July, but Democrats believe every day is April 15.")
To: SmithL
brought the crowd of 150...to a standing ovation, some with tears in their eyes.FAAABulous!!!
To: Calusa
"Nobody could really out me before because I wasn't dating," said Cabaldon. "I'm still not dating or anything like that." Dating implies committment. One night stands are not counted among "dates".
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posted on
03/30/2006 10:43:57 AM PST
by
weegee
("Republicans believe every day is the Fourth of July, but Democrats believe every day is April 15.")
To: SmithL
Tomorrow's headline news:
Famous Hollywood Actor Reveals He's Not Gay!
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posted on
03/30/2006 10:44:33 AM PST
by
Revolting cat!
("In the end, nothing explains anything.")
To: SmithL
Well... Isn't that sweet?
pun intended.
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posted on
03/30/2006 10:44:48 AM PST
by
TruthFactor
(The Death of Nations... pornography,homosexuality,abortion)
To: csvset
No one asked, this is a thinly veiled press release for Viacom-MTV-Logo's new gay themed reality show.
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posted on
03/30/2006 10:45:15 AM PST
by
weegee
("Republicans believe every day is the Fourth of July, but Democrats believe every day is April 15.")
To: Denver Ditdat
Powers of minute observation are inherently needed to ensure a fully functional gaydar unit..........Once that is achieved, you'll be astounded at the number of your detections.......
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posted on
03/30/2006 10:47:29 AM PST
by
Red Badger
(I must not fear.Fear is the mind-killer.Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.....)
To: Red Badger
To: Lowell
Now I can sleep at night knowing what another politician does with his penis. ....and others......
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posted on
03/30/2006 10:49:25 AM PST
by
Red Badger
(I must not fear.Fear is the mind-killer.Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration.....)
To: calljack
"West Sac mayor is proud of his West Sac." Shouldn't that be his left sac or his right sac or does he always orient himself to the same compass heading? And all of you are right about the pic. He could only look happier if something were parked in his rumble seat.
I am eternally thankful for that international "ONE WAY DO NOT ENTER" symbol tattooed on my butt cheek. Except for a few proctos, it has been 100% effective.
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posted on
03/30/2006 10:50:09 AM PST
by
davisfh
To: SmithL
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posted on
03/30/2006 10:53:02 AM PST
by
Recovering_Democrat
((I am SO glad to no longer be associated with the party of Dependence on Government!))
To: SmithL
Is he the boy or the girl?
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posted on
03/30/2006 10:53:14 AM PST
by
pop-gun
(A dumbed down population is more dangerous to our country than terrorism.)
To: SmithL
Isn't this cr@p a "Dog Bites Man" story yet?
So you graduated from "secret slammer" to "open ombuttsman". Big freakin' deal.
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posted on
03/30/2006 10:54:48 AM PST
by
Antoninus
(The only reason you're alive today is because your parents were pro-life.)
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Comment #55 Removed by Moderator
To: SmithL
West Sacramento Mayor Christopher Cabaldon has anxiously kept his sexual orientation a secret his entire political career....and straight people are SOOOOOOOOO likely to keep their orientation secret.
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posted on
03/30/2006 10:59:26 AM PST
by
Onelifetogive
(* Sarcasm tag ALWAYS required. For some FReepers, sarcasm can NEVER be obvious enough.)
To: Shredded Grace
Google glory hole. Warning...not for children.
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posted on
03/30/2006 11:01:43 AM PST
by
ncountylee
(Dead terrorists smell like victory)
To: SmithL
Mr. Cabaldon, who gives a flying f*** what you do in your bedroom?
Please keep it to yourself.
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posted on
03/30/2006 11:03:04 AM PST
by
2dogjoe
(Have a Blessed Day)
Comment #59 Removed by Moderator
To: SmithL
Surprise surprise...........NOT!
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posted on
03/30/2006 11:05:14 AM PST
by
SweetCaroline
( have ye asked nothing in my name: ask, and ye shall receive, that your joy may be full)
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