[Sapirit]

Usually by the time a girl hits her 30's the career is not as cool as they thought it would be and most of the men are married.

And she's wasted the prime of her child bearing years chasing a 'career' that has no probable value to a man who wants to get married anyway. Women have a shelf life

If this is not women bashing, objectifying and hatred, then what is it?

[music is math]

If this is not women bashing, objectifying and hatred, then what is it?

It's.... pointing out the blindingly obvious. Women have a "shelf life", in that their marriageability declines sharply after ~35 or so - how many womens' first marriages occur when they're over the age of 35?

See my post #53 for further elaboration.

[Campion]

Perhaps it's pointing out the obvious truth that women are more physically attractive to men looking for wives when they're in 20's and early 30's then they are thereafter?

I guess if you want to castigate basic male biology as "women bashing" and "hatred," you can, but it's not going to accomplish much. Feminist rhetoric won't change male biology.

[John O]

If this is not women bashing, objectifying and hatred, then what is it?

Truth.

Sometimes the truth is not pleasant for some people. Please see my prior post to melas defining shelf life a little better.

I tend to be a traditionalist. I am looking for a wife who will be my love, my partner in the home, the mother of my children. I am not looking for another wage earner (that's my job) or for someone whose 'career' comes before me and the kids. I intend to treat her like a queen (as I did my late wife) and expect her to treat me like a king.

[SauronOfMordor]

If this is not women bashing, objectifying and hatred, then what is it?

It's an accurate depiction of real life

Men do not need to marry to get female companionship. Men marry when they've decided they're ready to become fathers. At which point, they marry women who will have some interest in being mothers, and are still in their best child-bearing years

[Ninian Dryhope]

"If this is not women bashing, objectifying and hatred, then what is it?"

Just the facts, Ma'am.

[gogeo]

If this is not women bashing, objectifying and hatred, then what is it?

Objectively, it's none of those.