Truth.
Sometimes the truth is not pleasant for some people. Please see my prior post to melas defining shelf life a little better.
I tend to be a traditionalist. I am looking for a wife who will be my love, my partner in the home, the mother of my children. I am not looking for another wage earner (that's my job) or for someone whose 'career' comes before me and the kids. I intend to treat her like a queen (as I did my late wife) and expect her to treat me like a king.