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Parents miss Mass, kids get ax
NY Daily News ^ | 06.27.05 | NANCY DILLON

Posted on 06/27/2005 1:42:52 PM PDT by Coleus

Parents miss Mass, kids get ax

The pastor of a Staten Island Catholic church is playing holy hardball - kicking hundreds of kids out of religious ed classes because their families aren't showing up at Mass.

The Rev. Michael Cichon, pastor of St. Joseph/St. Thomas in Pleasant Plains, used each family's bar-coded donation envelope to track attendance.

He's tossed about 300 kids from classes and told them not to reapply until next April.

Without the classes, children cannot receive the sacraments, meaning some youngsters who thought they'd be making their First Communion next year will have to wait.

The suspensions, legal under church doctrine, were a shock to many parents with kids enrolled in the 1,400-child program, which caters to kids who don't attend Catholic schools.

"It's hurtful," said Joseph LoPizzo, 38, whose 6-year-old son was booted. "I've been a parishioner at that church for 23 years - longer than he's been the reverend."

LoPizzo said he paid the $150 for his son's Thursday afternoon classes last year, but his father-in-law's illness hampered the family's church attendance.

"I've just never heard of a church kicking you out," complained Lisa Nicol, 36, who got a letter saying her 7-year-old twin daughters had been barred from classes. "They should be more welcoming and sensitive."

The pastor said he suspended kids from the 2005-2006 after-school program because Mass is an "essential" component of the Catholic faith.

The affected families were attending church less than once a month, he said.

Cichon insisted that the move has nothing to do with the lack of a donation.

"There are many families who put absolutely nothing inside the envelopes they submit," he said.

Originally published on June 27, 2005



TOPICS: Culture/Society; Miscellaneous; US: New York
KEYWORDS: canonlaw; catholiclist; ccd; children; church; churchattendance; lapsed; mass; nyc; parents; statenisland; whiners
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To: wideawake

Actually, I have read the Gospels more than once!


541 posted on 06/28/2005 10:33:08 AM PDT by Zavien Doombringer (Have you gotten your Viking Kittie Patch today? http://www.visualops.com/patch.html)
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To: Zavien Doombringer
In order to believe in the immaculate conception you have to believe in the perpetual virginity.

No you don't. They are two separate doctrines. You have no idea what you are talking about.

542 posted on 06/28/2005 10:34:09 AM PDT by wideawake (God bless our brave troops and their Commander-in-Chief)
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To: Zavien Doombringer

Then answer the question: was Christ's sacrifice on the Cross a human sacrifice or wasn't it?


543 posted on 06/28/2005 10:34:52 AM PDT by wideawake (God bless our brave troops and their Commander-in-Chief)
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To: Zavien Doombringer; Hermann the Cherusker
From: Catholc.com

Q: Can you provide a New Testament example which parallels how Matthew uses the word "until" with respect to Mary in Matthew 1:25? I’ve had Fundamentalists tell me the word translated "until" in most modern versions, is different in the New Testament than in the Old Testament and that Catholic arguments in support of Mary’s perpetual virginity based on Old Testament examples of how "until" is used won’t work.

A: Such examples do work because, while two different words are used (one Greek, the other Hebrew), they mean the same thing ("until") and don’t mean that something which didn’t happen up to a certain time, necessarily happened afterward. Those who say "until" in Matthew 1:25 proves Mary had marital relations after the birth of Jesus, then, are wrong.

Although Old Testament examples commonly cited by Catholics paralleling the use of "until" in Matthew 1:25 are perfectly valid, a New Testament example you can cite is Luke 1:80 which says, "And the child grew and became strong in spirit; and he lived in the desert until he appeared publicly to Israel."

The Greek word translated "until" in this passage is heos, the same word used in Matthew 1:25. The child spoken of is John the Baptist who, after as well as before he appeared in public, resided in the desert (Matt. 3:1, Mark 1:3,4; Luke 3:2).

544 posted on 06/28/2005 10:36:36 AM PDT by FourtySeven (47)
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To: Zavien Doombringer
No, it is infact quite literal... I gave three versions including the Catholic version.

Duh. I'm not questioning that the word is there, I am questioning how you interpret it. To read it your way, they had sex immediately after the birth.

In order to believe in the immaculate conception you have to believe in the perpetual virginity.

Uh, no. I'm not aware of any logical linking between the two. This is assuming that you know what "Immaculate Conception" means, and it has been put forth that you do not.

Scripture also states that Jesus has brothers and sisters. Jude being one of the half brothers.

Jesus had kin, yes. Possibly even step-siblings. But none other is identified as a child of Mary.

However, Mary was just like any other young Jewish girl, not of supernatural origins,

Who said Mary was of "supernatural origins"? You have an odd idea of what Catholicism teaches.

Until does mean up to a point when a change occurs, or Until wouldn't be there

Psalm 110:1The LORD said unto my Lord, Sit thou at my right hand, until I make thine enemies thy footstool.

So, after the enemies are made into a footstool, He no longer sits at the right hand? It says "until," right?

SD

545 posted on 06/28/2005 10:36:53 AM PDT by SoothingDave
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To: old and tired

"Philadelphia AREA" - mom didn't tell me exactly where the school is located. It could be in Jersey.


546 posted on 06/28/2005 10:38:04 AM PDT by Tax-chick (Benedicere cor tuo! Quomodo cogis comas tuas sic videri?)
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To: SoothingDave

"Michal the daughter of Saul had no child until the day of her death."


547 posted on 06/28/2005 10:40:45 AM PDT by Tax-chick (Benedicere cor tuo! Quomodo cogis comas tuas sic videri?)
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To: FourtySeven

of course, a catholic resource...


548 posted on 06/28/2005 10:40:58 AM PDT by Zavien Doombringer (Have you gotten your Viking Kittie Patch today? http://www.visualops.com/patch.html)
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To: Zavien Doombringer; SoothingDave
Until does mean up to a point when a change occurs

It can mean that, but it does not necessarily mean that.

When Paul says in Acts 23:1:

"Men and brethren, I have lived in all good conscience before God until this day."

Does Paul mean that after this day (i.e. the day after he was arrested for preaching Christ in Jerusalem) he will no longer live in good conscience with God?

Is he implying that because he has now appeared before Ananias he has changed and will no longer be in good conscience with God?

Clearly "until" does not have the restricted, exclusive meaning you place on it.

549 posted on 06/28/2005 10:42:57 AM PDT by wideawake (God bless our brave troops and their Commander-in-Chief)
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To: SoothingDave

How can THE Lord sit on HIS own right hand? He was talking to Whom, me' Lord? Yes, it is a reference to another sitting on the Lord's right hand until the enemies were beatten to submission...


550 posted on 06/28/2005 10:43:05 AM PDT by Zavien Doombringer (Have you gotten your Viking Kittie Patch today? http://www.visualops.com/patch.html)
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To: Zavien Doombringer

My resource in post 549 is the KJV Bible.


551 posted on 06/28/2005 10:43:46 AM PDT by wideawake (God bless our brave troops and their Commander-in-Chief)
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To: wideawake

It has the very meaning.... yes, there was a change when the word UNITL was used....what? you answer that


552 posted on 06/28/2005 10:44:46 AM PDT by Zavien Doombringer (Have you gotten your Viking Kittie Patch today? http://www.visualops.com/patch.html)
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To: Zavien Doombringer
Joshua 13:13 Nevertheless the children of Israel expelled not the Geshurites, nor the Maachathites: but the Geshurites and the Maachathites dwell among the Israelites until this day.

So, on the day this book was written, the Israelites expelled the Geshurites and the Maachathites?

SD

553 posted on 06/28/2005 10:45:22 AM PDT by SoothingDave
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To: wideawake

Was it a human sacrifice?


554 posted on 06/28/2005 10:46:52 AM PDT by Zavien Doombringer (Have you gotten your Viking Kittie Patch today? http://www.visualops.com/patch.html)
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To: Tax-chick
"Michal the daughter of Saul had no child until the day of her death."

Good one, thanks.

SD

555 posted on 06/28/2005 10:46:57 AM PDT by SoothingDave
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To: Rutles4Ever

Just divorced.


556 posted on 06/28/2005 10:47:24 AM PDT by Labyrinthos
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To: Rutles4Ever
Explain how it's not true. You're attacking the priest for calling the parents on their hypocrisy.

No I didn't. I criticized his method. I didn't attack him.

Next, you told me what I worry about. That is something you made up. You have no way of knowing. That's how it's not true. That is the insult, not your opinions about things you THINK I might not want to hear. Please withdraw it.

Next, neither you, nor the Pastor, knows if all these people are hypocrites, much less not attending Mass. His method of finding out was flawed and arrogant. His approach to fixing the problem was ill-thought out and addresses the wrong people.

If you saw the importance of living a Catholic life in essence and not just appearance, you would understand Jesus' blistering attacks on the Pharisees.

I understand plenty. And your example in not analogous. And your idea of living a "Catholic" life, is not one I necessarily share. Although I don't think it's harmful and probably beneficial to some. I prefer to focus on the Christian life.

Was Christ wrong for pointing out hypocrisy like the priest is wrong?

I never said the priest was wrong for pointing out hypocricy. You made that up.

Now tell me about how Jesus taught to turn the children away because of the parents' unfaithfulness.

He SPECIFICALLY told others to allow the children to come to him and not interfere. Pray about that.

And please stop making things up about me. You want to know something? Ask. It's simple,,,and Christian.

557 posted on 06/28/2005 10:47:50 AM PDT by Protagoras (Now that the frog is fully cooked, how would you like it served?)
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To: SoothingDave

:-).


558 posted on 06/28/2005 10:48:16 AM PDT by Tax-chick (Benedicere cor tuo! Quomodo cogis comas tuas sic videri?)
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To: SoothingDave

are you implying that the word until means never happened?

or are you trying to justify away a fact that the catholic church denys


559 posted on 06/28/2005 10:48:27 AM PDT by Zavien Doombringer (Have you gotten your Viking Kittie Patch today? http://www.visualops.com/patch.html)
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To: Hermann the Cherusker
My urban Philadelphia parish pays over $1 million annually towards the running of its 950 child school - that's 3/4 of the parish budget

Your parish gives 3/4 of its budget to the school? Unbelievable! I hope you're seeing some return on your money, if not vocations, at least in parish retention. Our parish gives less than a quarter of its budget to the school, and a lot of that is grey area - groundsmen, janitorial staff, etc.

Do you send your kids to the parish school? Did you know that there is a new private Catholic school in Wyndmoor (just outside Chestnut Hill) at the old Seven Dolors parish school that teaches the children of orthodox Catholics in the classical tradition? The kids start learning Latin in the primary grades. It's a little pricier and certainly not a great commute from the Northeast when you compare it to your parish school, but you might find the sacrifices worth it just to keep the "Brittany Spears" factor away from your kids.

560 posted on 06/28/2005 10:50:27 AM PDT by old and tired
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