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Pregnant graduate defies ban on ceremony participation
KWQC-TV Quad Cities ^ | May 18, 2005 | AP

Posted on 05/18/2005 1:41:11 PM PDT by billorites

MONTGOMERY, Ala. Alysha Cosby was told she couldn't take part in her graduation at St. Jude Educational Institute in Montgomery, Alabama, because she was pregnant.

But after the last student on the program received a diplomas, Cosby announced her own name and walked across the stage anyway -- to the cheers of many of her classmates at the Roman Catholic high school.

Still -- according to a newspaper (the Montgomery Advertiser) -- some at last night's ceremony considered her move in poor taste.

The school had delivered her diploma to her house earlier in the day, but she still wanted to take part in the ceremony.

Her mother was unapologetic, saying: "She deserved to walk, and she did."

The father of the girl's child -- also a senior at the school -- was allowed to participate in the graduation.


TOPICS: Culture/Society; News/Current Events
KEYWORDS: cary; graduation; patriarchal; slut; teenpregnancy
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1 posted on 05/18/2005 1:41:11 PM PDT by billorites
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To: billorites

It was okay for the father, but not the mother. Patriachal to a fault.


2 posted on 05/18/2005 1:43:29 PM PDT by gcruse (http://gcruse.typepad.com/)
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To: billorites
Hey I love this story. I hate favoritism toward men and boys.

Even many parents and moms favor the boys over the girls. Makes me sick.

Is it any wonder that men become so macho.

Boys are stupid. : D

3 posted on 05/18/2005 1:45:38 PM PDT by Idisarthur
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To: billorites
hmm...At least she didn't abort it. Then again it's a private school and you have to play by their rules.
4 posted on 05/18/2005 1:46:15 PM PDT by tfecw (Vote Democrat, It's easier than working)
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To: billorites

I applaud her for going through with the pregnancy...while I understand the pressure the school was probably under to keep a pregant, unwed teen out of sight on graduation day, I think that if we really want to show that we respect life we need to repect even unwed mothers...she may have made a mistake but her courage is admirable IMHO...shame/ shunning is not very Christian.


5 posted on 05/18/2005 1:47:42 PM PDT by foreshadowed at waco
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To: billorites
Earlier thread
6 posted on 05/18/2005 1:48:19 PM PDT by Phantom Lord (Advantages are taken, not handed out)
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To: gcruse

If the father had been identified to the school, then I agree that he should not have participated either.


7 posted on 05/18/2005 1:48:27 PM PDT by Tanniker Smith (I didn't know she was a liberal when I married her.)
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To: Idisarthur
Even many parents and moms favor the boys over the girls

There is a reason for that, and the reason is sound.

Face it, we are superior!

Settle down Beavis. Relax

8 posted on 05/18/2005 1:49:04 PM PDT by Phantom Lord (Advantages are taken, not handed out)
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To: gcruse
It was okay for the father, but not the mother. Patriachal to a fault.

And your point.

9 posted on 05/18/2005 1:49:16 PM PDT by cowboyway (My heroes have always been cowboys.)
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To: tfecw
Then again it's a private school and you have to play by their rules.

Unless of course your the guy who got her pregnant. Then they don't apply.

10 posted on 05/18/2005 1:49:38 PM PDT by Phantom Lord (Advantages are taken, not handed out)
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To: billorites
Her mother was unapologetic, saying: "She deserved to walk, and she did."

Once again the "I deserve it" takes precendent over rules. Kids today are taught by lesson and example if you think you deserve something it doesn't matter whether there is a law or rule against it, go get it.

11 posted on 05/18/2005 1:50:40 PM PDT by taxesareforever
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To: Idisarthur
Boys are stupid. : D

They’re smart enough not to get pregnant.

12 posted on 05/18/2005 1:50:42 PM PDT by Who dat?
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To: gcruse

Evidentally the gown wasn't big enough. Men don't show when they are pregnant.


13 posted on 05/18/2005 1:52:05 PM PDT by RobbyS
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To: billorites

My education is the most important thing to me. The way I receive my education shouldn't change just because I am pregnant," said Cosby, "I've been on the honor roll pretty much through high school, and I have worked really hard to get to this point, I just don't want to be denied the chance to walk with my class because I am pregnant."

I heard a statistic quoted once by Dr. Laura (I think), that if a girl does three things, she has a 90% chance of not living in poverty, they are:

1. Graduate from high school
2. Don't get pregnant, until you graduate.
3. Marry the father of your child.

14 posted on 05/18/2005 1:54:05 PM PDT by Michael.SF. (If you think teachers are tough, wait till you get a boss.)
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To: Idisarthur

As much as I'd like to say the school is wrong for not letting her walk, it is a private school and they get to make the rules. People favor the son at times because girls are psycho when they are teenagers.

God made men and women different. Thankfully.


15 posted on 05/18/2005 1:54:36 PM PDT by TheErnFormerlyKnownAsBig (You can turn your head away from the Berg video and still hear Al Queda's calls to prayer.)
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To: gcruse

They could have just put a Scarlett "P" on her gown and let her walk./sarcasm


16 posted on 05/18/2005 1:54:39 PM PDT by Recall
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To: everyone

Inability to honor rules and consider other people's points of view is a sure sign of a trashy person.

We can admire the woman's spunk, but there is more than enough of that in America today. What we need is more respect for authority. You can't just make up your own rules. That means chaos.


17 posted on 05/18/2005 1:55:04 PM PDT by California Patriot
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To: Tanniker Smith
If the father had been identified to the school, then I agree that he should not have participated either.

What was wrong with either one of them participating?

18 posted on 05/18/2005 1:56:04 PM PDT by Bluegrass Conservative
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To: billorites
some at last night's ceremony considered her move in poor taste

We'll see how far she gets through life making her own rules as she goes along.
19 posted on 05/18/2005 1:57:00 PM PDT by andyk (Go Matt Kenseth!)
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To: foreshadowed at waco

They have maternity prom dresses now. It's expect at least some of the girls will be pregnant. Wouldn't want to disappoint.


20 posted on 05/18/2005 1:57:02 PM PDT by mlc9852
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