Posted on 01/16/2005 12:35:11 AM PST by Lorianne
Kim Gandy, president of the National Organization for Women, has said that the next four years under a Bush administration are going to be "tough" for the feminists and that they are just going to have to be "tougher."
Well, conservative women, who have been marginalized, stereotyped, put down and humiliated at every turn over the past couple of decades, have gone through tough and tougher and, now that our time is here, we're the toughest gals around.
Being called "anti-woman" because we didn't embrace abortion-on-demand and alternative lifestyles has produced a hardy bunch while the feminists became fat cats dining on preferences and gorging on government and corporate subsidies for their women's studies programs and other enterprises that promote their "politically correct" agenda.
Conservative women came out of their enclaves determined to battle for their daughters' futures. Women like Beverly LaHaye and Phyllis Schlafly worked tirelessly to break the force of years of liberal momentum when it looked as if there was no end in sight. Women like Kathleen Sullivan and Leslee Unruh launched an abstinence movement to combat the notion that adolescents would inevitably become sexually active.
Trends today are proof positive that moral boundaries can be rebuilt and we can reclaim the nation's traditional Judeo-Christian heritage. Today's teens are leading the way by responding to the challenge to choose virtue over the fast crowd's acceptance and approval, to value their innocence and purity; these are the messages that conservative women are working hard to spread.
After peaking in 1994, unwed teen births are down 24 percent. Teens are the reason that the overall out-of-wedlock birthrate has improved; there is no change in the 20-24 age bracket.
It would appear that we are making headway in teaching abstinence at the high school level, but sadly we are losing our young people at the universities where the moral relativism of the secular humanists and radical women's studies programs are still having a devastating impact.
Clearly, current trends are passing the feminists by and they are out of step with the concerns and issues that are important to women. Mothers don't want federally funded day care; they want the opportunity to nurture their own children without government interference. Women don't want abortion-on-demand; they want a husband who will cherish them and be committed to wife and children for a lifetime.
Girls don't want a one-night stand; they want a great guy to take them out for a nice dinner, pleasing conversation or good entertainment and not have to worry about fighting off a jerk who treats them like a sex object and won't be calling the next day.
Parents also want to be informed and involved in their children's lives - even during late adolescence when decisions are made that have lifelong impact. When parents have to sign for their child to take an aspirin, go on a field trip or have ears pierced, it doesn't make sense that the same child could have an abortion without the parent's knowledge.
The reality is that millions of young women have been deeply wounded by promiscuous sex and cohabitation. Over the past 10 years, college counselors have seen their caseloads expand dramatically depression cases have doubled, suicide attempts have tripled and sexual assaults have quadrupled.
In becoming a one-issue organization, the National Organization for Women has made itself irrelevant and unattractive to the next generation.
Today's young women have seen friends' ambitions short-circuited by the "sex is no big deal" culture, and they are turning away from the destructive lifestyles. Abortion rates among young women are declining because many of them are realizing that instead of solving problems, abortion can make them worse, like a lifetime of regret or infertility.
Young women are growing increasingly knowledgeable about the realities of the sexual revolution's disastrous consequences for their mothers and grandmothers; they are a lot wiser and much more conservative.
Having grown up while liberalism reigned, this generation possesses more tough young ladies. I've enjoyed mentoring a number of them and it's going to be fun to see them come of age
Free Republic conservative dating service ping ;-)
You are correct, it is wishful thinking.
The trick is to find a woman and MAKE her into a good conservative lady.
Worked for me. It also drives the liberal in-laws nuts, though; an added bonus.
It's a shame and an indictment of manhood that so often, women must be the ones to say "No" out of wedlock. God made men to be the protector, not the rapist. When a man puts the question of fornication or adultery on the woman, he puts her under pressure she was never meant to have to bear--and puts himself under her headship, which was likewise never meant to happen.
I have a hunch that the reason so many fathers permit their daughters to get knocked up and don't have a shotgun wedding--is that they feel guilt and hypocrisy from their own wrongful past. There are indeed 'soul ties' that are formed with sexual knowledge of one another. These can be broken only by the Name and Blood of Christ. That said, an imperfect man can still help his young daughter set boundaries, himself the wiser for his youthful sins.
In fact there are some men (like myself) who believe that intimacy and fidelity are important.
I wish my ex had the same beliefs.
Sorry you had to go through that. I am still waiting for my special One and Only....
But at least my son is with me.
Dr. Crouse nails it. I am thankful for the ugliness and stupidity of the N.O.W. - it has gone a long way to repel many.
Perhaps men are not as simple as they are made out to be. However strong the sex drive is, there is even deeper somewhere down in the limbic system the concern that the children they are supporting are in fact their own. So no matter how much a man might enjoy a nice roll in the hay, no man wants to marry a slut. The woman who will go to bed on the first date has done it fifty times before, and will do it fifty times again. Thanks for the nice night, but she's off the list. |
Bump.
Interesting. The fory year olds get angry at my advice to save sex for marriage.
The teens and early twenties thank me.
I like it!
:)
-good times, G.J.P.(Jr.)
Amen, brother! Been there myself.
Young women suddenly began to realize that the side that purported to support them so much was really a sleazy gang of exploiters.
President Bush cut funding. He cut funding for "abortions" in UN activities, for example. He's a good man. :) But! Without grants and funding, feminists have little to nothing to go on.
Thanks for the ping! I wonder whether she's correct in observing the aggregate trend ... I don't spend much time with girls in the 16-20 age group.
However, my observation from a distance is that, although they may be nice young ladies, not sleeping around, they need to Put Some Clothes On!
No kidding. Raping campaign workers, using state troopers to coordinate sexual trysts, treating virtually all women - except his wife - as sexual objects, using his position to obtain sexual favors from interns...
Hmmm, I'm thinking Ms. Gandy is confusing her administrations.
I am praying that this is true and if not now it will become true soon.
I hate to say this but Tom Lykis is right about 90% of the women out there (or at least the one's I meet). A bunch of suckubusses who expect you to be their b-tch and then take half your money.
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