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Conservative women are changing promiscuous culture
Tallahassee Democrat ^ | Jan. 15, 2005 | Janice Shaw Crouse

Posted on 01/16/2005 12:35:11 AM PST by Lorianne

Kim Gandy, president of the National Organization for Women, has said that the next four years under a Bush administration are going to be "tough" for the feminists and that they are just going to have to be "tougher."

Well, conservative women, who have been marginalized, stereotyped, put down and humiliated at every turn over the past couple of decades, have gone through tough and tougher and, now that our time is here, we're the toughest gals around.

Being called "anti-woman" because we didn't embrace abortion-on-demand and alternative lifestyles has produced a hardy bunch while the feminists became fat cats dining on preferences and gorging on government and corporate subsidies for their women's studies programs and other enterprises that promote their "politically correct" agenda.

Conservative women came out of their enclaves determined to battle for their daughters' futures. Women like Beverly LaHaye and Phyllis Schlafly worked tirelessly to break the force of years of liberal momentum when it looked as if there was no end in sight. Women like Kathleen Sullivan and Leslee Unruh launched an abstinence movement to combat the notion that adolescents would inevitably become sexually active.

Trends today are proof positive that moral boundaries can be rebuilt and we can reclaim the nation's traditional Judeo-Christian heritage. Today's teens are leading the way by responding to the challenge to choose virtue over the fast crowd's acceptance and approval, to value their innocence and purity; these are the messages that conservative women are working hard to spread.

After peaking in 1994, unwed teen births are down 24 percent. Teens are the reason that the overall out-of-wedlock birthrate has improved; there is no change in the 20-24 age bracket.

It would appear that we are making headway in teaching abstinence at the high school level, but sadly we are losing our young people at the universities where the moral relativism of the secular humanists and radical women's studies programs are still having a devastating impact.

Clearly, current trends are passing the feminists by and they are out of step with the concerns and issues that are important to women. Mothers don't want federally funded day care; they want the opportunity to nurture their own children without government interference. Women don't want abortion-on-demand; they want a husband who will cherish them and be committed to wife and children for a lifetime.

Girls don't want a one-night stand; they want a great guy to take them out for a nice dinner, pleasing conversation or good entertainment and not have to worry about fighting off a jerk who treats them like a sex object and won't be calling the next day.

Parents also want to be informed and involved in their children's lives - even during late adolescence when decisions are made that have lifelong impact. When parents have to sign for their child to take an aspirin, go on a field trip or have ears pierced, it doesn't make sense that the same child could have an abortion without the parent's knowledge.

The reality is that millions of young women have been deeply wounded by promiscuous sex and cohabitation. Over the past 10 years, college counselors have seen their caseloads expand dramatically depression cases have doubled, suicide attempts have tripled and sexual assaults have quadrupled.

In becoming a one-issue organization, the National Organization for Women has made itself irrelevant and unattractive to the next generation.

Today's young women have seen friends' ambitions short-circuited by the "sex is no big deal" culture, and they are turning away from the destructive lifestyles. Abortion rates among young women are declining because many of them are realizing that instead of solving problems, abortion can make them worse, like a lifetime of regret or infertility.

Young women are growing increasingly knowledgeable about the realities of the sexual revolution's disastrous consequences for their mothers and grandmothers; they are a lot wiser and much more conservative.

Having grown up while liberalism reigned, this generation possesses more tough young ladies. I've enjoyed mentoring a number of them and it's going to be fun to see them come of age


TOPICS: Culture/Society; Government; Politics/Elections
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1 posted on 01/16/2005 12:35:12 AM PST by Lorianne
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To: Lorianne

And I haven't met a damn one of them. :( ;)


2 posted on 01/16/2005 12:37:56 AM PST by Optimus Prime (Do liberals even qualify as sentient beings?)
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To: Optimus Prime

Yeah I am sorry to say this, but wonder if it is not mostly wishful thinking. I don't see that much change, but there is some.


3 posted on 01/16/2005 12:40:17 AM PST by southernred
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To: Lorianne
Well, conservative women, who have been marginalized, stereotyped, put down and humiliated at every turn over the past couple of decades, have gone through tough and tougher and, now that our time is here, we're the toughest gals around.

And God bless 'em all for their dedication in the face of adversity. They're one of the great pillars that's kept this nation from disintegrating under the strain of vice that assaults our culture constantly.

4 posted on 01/16/2005 12:42:45 AM PST by Prime Choice (I only appear to be resting. On a molecular level, I'm busy as hell.)
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To: Lorianne
"Kim Gandy, president of the National Organization for Women, has said that the next four years under a Bush administration are going to be "tough" for the feminists..."


The Clintoon years destroyed the feminists credibility. What has Bush done to them that could be considered to be "tough"?
5 posted on 01/16/2005 12:44:57 AM PST by Bring Back Old Sparky
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To: Bring Back Old Sparky
What has Bush done to them that could be considered to be "tough"?

He chose one heck of a First Lady.

6 posted on 01/16/2005 12:47:11 AM PST by coconutt2000 (NO MORE PEACE FOR OIL!!! DOWN WITH TYRANTS, TERRORISTS, AND TIMIDCRATS!!!! (3-T's For World Peace))
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To: Lorianne
Here's the poop:

A women has to state (and to really feel) "Piss Off."

don't worry about what ther other girls say. Don't worry what the guys say.

Tell them piss off (if you've got the answer). Otherwise some dick will just try to use you to his benefit.

Girls are to be cherished.

YES, cherished.

NOthing more beautiful than a love of a daugher for her da. These are among the things that matter in this world.

7 posted on 01/16/2005 12:48:25 AM PST by Zuben Elgenubi
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To: Lorianne
Having grown up while liberalism reigned, this generation possesses more tough young ladies. I've enjoyed mentoring a number of them and it's going to be fun to see them come of age.

This is why I believe that Laura Ingraham's star will rise significantly over the next few years -- she's young, she's smart, she's attractive, she's physically fit, and she's single. But she doesn't talk about her "love life," or an endless search for Mr. Right -- she talks about her friends, her faith, and her dog. If THE man for her hasn't emerged from the crowd yet, I don't believe she will settle for less, and in the meantime, she seems tough enough to take on a full life alone.

8 posted on 01/16/2005 12:50:27 AM PST by L.N. Smithee (Hey, Senator Leahy -- Go BORK Yourself!)
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To: Optimus Prime

Maybe you need to go where Conservative young women are,is all. :-)


9 posted on 01/16/2005 12:54:35 AM PST by nopardons
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To: nopardons
Where, then, do I find young conservative women? :P

Eh, just sour grapes. I'm still kicking myself for not flirting with a really gorgeous girl that was at the Bush campaign hq that I worked at the saturday before the election. Yowza! O_O Unfortunately, though, I was a bit busy with making calls. Oh well.
10 posted on 01/16/2005 12:59:22 AM PST by Optimus Prime (Do liberals even qualify as sentient beings?)
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To: Lorianne; nopardons; Tax-chick; cyborg
Fascinating piece.
11 posted on 01/16/2005 1:05:14 AM PST by Do not dub me shapka broham (Pajama Patrol: Deputy.)
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To: Optimus Prime

That's exactly right...


12 posted on 01/16/2005 1:07:44 AM PST by ishabibble
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To: Optimus Prime

SEE? You know where to find them,you just didn't do anything to date one! :-)


13 posted on 01/16/2005 1:13:04 AM PST by nopardons
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To: Do not dub me shapka broham

Yes,it is! :-)


14 posted on 01/16/2005 1:13:27 AM PST by nopardons
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To: L.N. Smithee
This is why I believe that Laura Ingraham's star will rise significantly over the next few years -- she's young, she's smart, she's attractive, she's physically fit, and she's single.

And, secretly, she wants me...

15 posted on 01/16/2005 1:22:36 AM PST by SoDak
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To: L.N. Smithee

Well, I'd like to think that I was Laura's Mr. Right - a conservative Catholic who loves dogs.

Wait, what's that about opposites attracting? oh well.

But seriously, Laura is a great woman, the kind of woman-down-the-street I'd like my kids to have dinner with a couple of times a year just to knock some good sense into them.


16 posted on 01/16/2005 1:22:40 AM PST by MIT-Elephant ("Armed with what? Spitballs?")
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To: nopardons

Where the &^%$ is that?


17 posted on 01/16/2005 1:23:11 AM PST by SoDak
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To: Bring Back Old Sparky
"What has Bush done to them that could be considered to be "tough"?"

I'll have to put one in the "Bush did the right thing" column. He ignored them and their irrelevance grew.

18 posted on 01/16/2005 1:30:53 AM PST by Badray (Stay well - Stay safe - Stay armed - Yorktown. RIP harpseal.)
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To: nopardons

Wonderful. So I'm guaranteed meeting another one in, oh, four years? :P


19 posted on 01/16/2005 1:32:58 AM PST by Optimus Prime (Do liberals even qualify as sentient beings?)
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To: SoDak
Lots of different places. :-)

Conservative girls aren't really as rare as you might think.

20 posted on 01/16/2005 1:33:29 AM PST by nopardons
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