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We fooled everyone (Lesbian couple pretends to be heterosexual to get married)
The Sun (U.K.) ^ | October 7, 2004 | JOHN COLES

Posted on 10/07/2004 7:53:00 AM PDT by Stoat

 
EXCLUSIVE
We fooled everyone
Charade ... Lucy and Susan, with moustache, wearing lads jeans
Charade ... Lucy and Susan, with moustache, wearing lad's jeans
 
 
 
By JOHN COLES

 

TWO lesbians lived as a married couple for 13 years — by convincing the world one of them was a MAN.

Lucy Kong and Susan Abberstein fooled everyone by acting as husband and wife after Susan transformed herself into a “fella”.

She wore men’s clothes, took male hormones that boosted her muscles, grew a moustache and changed her name by deed poll to Samuel.

No one noticed anything odd as the pair “married” in an official register office ceremony with proper papers.

And they even had a test-tube child to complete the fake picture of a normal happy family.

The boy, now 12, only learned the stark truth about his “dad” in recent months.

Pretty Lucy, 37, finally blew the lid off the incredible sham yesterday.

Her decision to talk follows a bitter split from her 47-year-old “husband,” who she accused of becoming a domineering bully.

Lucy said: “To the outside world we were man and wife, a normal heterosexual couple.

“We went everywhere together as an ordinary Mr and Mrs.


 

The wife ... Lucy has lifted the lid on her marriage
The 'wife' ... Lucy has lifted the lid on her marriage
 

“We had a joint bank account as Mr and Mrs Abberstein, and a joint mortgage as a couple like anyone else.

‘I couldn’t deal with lads — it was easier with her’

“But in reality, all the time we were two women living together and far from being normal.”

The bizarre relationship began when Lucy fell in love with Susan at the age of 16. Lucy said:

I’d had one serious boyfriend when I was 15. But it was a stormy relationship and after a year we broke up.

I moved into my own flat and soon got to know Sue, who was living opposite.

At the time she was experimenting with becoming a lesbian. She’d already had two long-term relationships with girlfriends.


 

Hug from dad ... Susan with test-tube child Ben
Hug from 'dad' ... Susan with test-tube child Ben
 

I was attracted to her because she seemed very self-confident and she showed a lot of interest in me.

I knew I was quite pretty as I’d had lots of attention from blokes. But I wasn’t able to deal with it. It just seemed easier to be with her.

Within two years the pair decided they wanted to marry. And they would carry off the charade by turning Susan, who always said she wanted to be a man, into Samuel.

She cut her hair short and began wearing shirts and trousers.

She took male hormones, which gave her a moustache. And soon, as her voice got deeper, she had to start shaving.

In 1985, Lucy and “Samuel” were the first pair to get a home through the Hull Housing Association on Humberside.

And the happy couple posed for a picture with the city’s mayor.


 

Dapper ... Susan in dinner jacket with Lucy at do
Dapper ... Susan in dinner jacket with Lucy at do
 

They “married” the following year. Susan, the daughter of an RAF bomber crewman, easily passed as a man.

And she did not have to produce her birth certificate at the ceremony.

Lucy, whose dad was half Chinese, half Japanese, said: “We decided to get married because we loved each other and it seemed the right thing to do.

We wanted to live together and get a house together and it just seemed natural. I had doubts about the marriage but I felt it was too late so I went ahead with it.

“I do remember thinking, ‘Why am I doing this?’

“But it never occurred to me that the marriage wasn’t actually legally binding.”

She added: “Sue was so convincing as a man that everyone was fooled.”


 

Mothers boy ... Sam with his mum Shirley
Mother's 'boy' ... Sam with his mum Shirley
 

Soon afterwards, the pair decided to cement their bond with a child.

Their only option was IVF treatment with donor sperm, costing £2,500.

Lucy conceived at the first attempt and son Ben was born in 1992.

Susan was determined to be a model “dad”.

Lucy said: “She was a very doting parent, very attentive, just like you’d want a father to be.

“She was present at the birth and was very caring and loving towards Ben.”

The name of Samuel was put on Ben’s birth certificate as the child’s father. Lucy said: “In the early days of the marriage I just completely blocked out the fact that we were living this lie.

“We were posing as a man and a woman and I had convinced myself we were husband and wife, and that to all intents and purposes it was a normal marriage.

“But every now and then something would come up to make me realise the person I was living with was actually Susan.

“It would be a shock, like a sudden cold shower.


 

Sham ... marriage certificate
Sham ... marriage certificate
 

“The rest of the time I would forget who she really was and think of her as Sam.”

The relationship began to unravel in the late 1990s.

‘She got much stronger than a normal woman’

Lucy began to feel trapped by their secret. And Susan started to demonstrate a darker, domineering side.

She took one male hormone pill a fortnight throughout the marriage.

And Lucy said: “They would cause really violent mood swings.

“She was physically violent towards me on occasions and got noticeably stronger than a normal woman.”

She told how the marriage became “like living in a plastic bubble” that she feared would pop at any moment.

Though the pair’s closest relatives knew they were both women, Lucy felt isolated and unable to talk to anyone.

She said: “Sue’s behaviour dictated that was the way it was, that we weren’t able to talk to anyone else.

“I knew I was living a lie and towards the end I didn’t like going out with her. I was in denial at the end.

“We had serious problems but I couldn’t discuss them with anyone.

“Sue would call me a slut and a whore if ever a man looked at me. She was totally jealous and just wanted me for herself.”

Lucy walked out in 1999, taking Ben with her, after telling Susan she was making her life hell.

She still acts as man and says she’s ‘inter-sexual’

She went to start a new life in Cornwall.

And she soon met a REAL man, with whom she had a daughter, Millie, now four.

Strangely, even though their marriage was never legal, Lucy and Susan went through formal divorce proceedings.

Their split was made official last week on the grounds they had lived apart for five years. They have not spoken in all that time.

Lucy’s relationship with Millie’s dad collapsed but she is now an item with 55-year-old writer Richard Hope-Hawkins.

He said: “I love Lucy very much and would love to be with her permanently.

“We have a very full and fulfilling sexual relationship.”

Susan still goes by the name of Samuel and acts like a man.

She lives with another woman called Rebecca in Yorkshire and is a care worker.

She said yesterday: “I am inter- sexual”. But she refused to discuss her “marriage” to Lucy.



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1 posted on 10/07/2004 7:53:00 AM PDT by Stoat
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To: Stoat

How clever, gag me.


2 posted on 10/07/2004 7:54:10 AM PDT by Mister Baredog ((Part of the Reagan legacy is to re-elect G.W. Bush))
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To: Stoat

Poor kid.


3 posted on 10/07/2004 7:56:34 AM PDT by Huck ("Winners don't need to hijack airplanes. Winners have an air force." --P.J. O'Rourke)
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Very weird. I feel sorry for Ben.


4 posted on 10/07/2004 7:56:40 AM PDT by lothor
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To: Mister Baredog

How clever, charge them.


5 posted on 10/07/2004 7:56:47 AM PDT by cripplecreek (The economy won't matter if you're dead.)
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To: Stoat

She's a man baby!


6 posted on 10/07/2004 7:56:49 AM PDT by Phantom Lord (Advantages are taken, not handed out)
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To: Stoat
"That's a MAN baby!"
7 posted on 10/07/2004 7:57:56 AM PDT by Bloody Sam Roberts (Which Star Trek Capt. would you want for President? Picard or Kirk? In wartime, the choice is easy.)
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To: Stoat

These people are insane.


8 posted on 10/07/2004 7:58:30 AM PDT by conservativecorner
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People are disgusting. What about the kid? This is one of the most selfish and heartless things I've ever heard.


9 posted on 10/07/2004 7:58:39 AM PDT by cwiz24
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To: Stoat

lesbians in real life , not as hot as in the movies


10 posted on 10/07/2004 7:58:58 AM PDT by escapefromboston
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To: Stoat

they are "fooling" no one but themselves...
God knows and He's all that matters...
let them "face the music" when the time comes...

I do feel sorry for the son Ben...
He'll probably be in therapy for the rest of his adult life...


11 posted on 10/07/2004 8:00:42 AM PDT by kellynla (U.S.M.C. 1/5 1st Mar Div. Nam 69&70 Semper Fi http://www.vietnamveteransagainstjohnkerry.com)
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To: Stoat

Isn't that special?


12 posted on 10/07/2004 8:01:32 AM PDT by Let's Roll (For a guy who shirks his own job, Kerry sure is eager to tell others what they should do ...)
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To: Stoat

There's a sitcom to be made here, and the only surprise is that it hasn't been made yet.


13 posted on 10/07/2004 8:01:44 AM PDT by RichInOC (...there is no place for that sort of ugliness.)
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To: Stoat

It's a eunuch!


14 posted on 10/07/2004 8:02:37 AM PDT by the_devils_advocate_666
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To: Stoat

typical of homosexuals, since they do have deviant behavior problems, they tend to break all laws of morality and common sense.

Homosexuals are NOT normal.


15 posted on 10/07/2004 8:05:29 AM PDT by steplock
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To: Stoat

Hmmm, a boy named Sue.


16 posted on 10/07/2004 8:05:46 AM PDT by IamHD
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To: Stoat
"Her decision to talk follows a bitter split from her 47-year-old “husband,” who she accused of becoming a domineering bully."

Now that's taking the male impersonation a bit too far.

17 posted on 10/07/2004 8:06:25 AM PDT by robertpaulsen
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To: Stoat

GAG! Prayers for the little boy.


18 posted on 10/07/2004 8:09:49 AM PDT by Polyxene (For where God built a church, there the Devil would also build a chapel - Martin Luther)
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To: RichInOC
The boy, now 12, only learned the stark truth about his “dad” in recent months.

I wonder if we'll ever hear how the boy is doing. How he is handling being lied to by his mother and the person she lived with. (I will not call Susan, Lucy's husband. Because she wasn't her husband.)
He must be devestated.

19 posted on 10/07/2004 8:11:11 AM PDT by It's me
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To: escapefromboston
lesbians in real life , not as hot as in the movies

But ya gotta admit, the ones in the movies are pretty hot.

20 posted on 10/07/2004 8:13:35 AM PDT by Maceman (Too nuanced for a bumper sticker)
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