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Dr. Laura Schlessinger: 'The Proper Care And Feeding Of Husbands'
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| Tuesday, January 6, 2004
| Dr. Laura Schlessinger
Posted on 01/06/2004 12:06:06 AM PST by JohnHuang2
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To: Lazamataz
Well said.
601
posted on
01/07/2004 9:15:41 PM PST
by
Quix
(Particularly quite true conspiracies are rarely proven until it's too late to do anything about them)
To: Lazamataz
Sounds like you are right on that score, too.
602
posted on
01/07/2004 9:17:05 PM PST
by
Quix
(Particularly quite true conspiracies are rarely proven until it's too late to do anything about them)
To: Quix
Thanks.
603
posted on
01/07/2004 9:22:26 PM PST
by
Lazamataz
(I stole this tagline from Conspiracy Guy. I beat him up and took it. That's because I can.)
To: Lazamataz
Thank you for the compliment, but remember that wisdom only comes from experience. Most of us learn these things by accident and reflection. (what went wrong?) You'll do much better the second time around if you choose a woman who isn't too green. It took me a painful 5 years to get this stuff straight and it took my husband that long to stop using work as an excuse not to be a husband. I think I did my best growing up when I was in my mid-20's.
Pleeeese don't go for a woman who wants children, but talks more about her future plans for her job! It take sacrifice to have a loving marriage and most women aren't up to the challenge now-a-days.
604
posted on
01/07/2004 9:22:31 PM PST
by
Marie
(I smell... COFFEE! coffeecoffeecoffeecoffee! COFFEE!!)
To: chris1
Run.
605
posted on
01/07/2004 9:39:17 PM PST
by
Marie
(I smell... COFFEE! coffeecoffeecoffeecoffee! COFFEE!!)
To: Marie
b g lsyrt
606
posted on
01/07/2004 9:44:23 PM PST
by
kmiller1k
(remain calm)
To: riri
If he brought her a cup of coffee she'd be embarassed that it wasn't from the french bakery down the road. I know and have known a gazillion women (and lately more and more men) like this. It's all about the status. You are so right. I have a friend who just opened up a furniture store. She's selling a beautiufl, hand carved bedroom set for half the price it's found anywhere else. Two women walked in and the first was thrilled to find her dream set for a discount. The second woman sniffed and said, "If it's that cheap, there's something wrong with it." My friend is trying to give her customers the best deal and win some loyality, but with attitudes like that, she's wondering why she bothers.
607
posted on
01/07/2004 9:47:37 PM PST
by
Marie
(I smell... COFFEE! coffeecoffeecoffeecoffee! COFFEE!!)
To: Quix
If my memory serves me right, for hormonal reasons, many (most?) women prefer sex at night and men in the morning. You're right about the time of day thing, but I think it's different for everybody. I'm a noon girl and my hubby is an evening kinda guy. When he's in the mood, my moment has passed hours before and when I'm in the mood, he's at work. (I never let this become an issue, though.)
608
posted on
01/07/2004 9:54:58 PM PST
by
Marie
(I smell... COFFEE! coffeecoffeecoffeecoffee! COFFEE!!)
To: SauronOfMordor
With most women, a thorough looking over by a pot-bellied plumber will NOT trigger the same emotional response as the exact same looking over by Brad Pitt. Women want to be looked at ONLY by guys that THEY find interesting.Actually, it depends on if she's in love with the plumber or not. I don't get flattered by the attention of pretty boys.
OK. Now that I think about it, you're right. We get flattered by the attention we get from guys we find attractive and repulsed by the attention of guys we don't. I don't like pretty boys, therefore I don't like their attention. I DO like lumber jack, gasoline-smelling, pipe-smoking, flannel-wearing, gravely-voiced, pot-bellied, no-neck, red necks, thus I find their attention appealing.
That's a first. I've never before managed to find my error of thought before I pressed "Post"! ;-)
609
posted on
01/07/2004 10:01:07 PM PST
by
Marie
(I smell... COFFEE! coffeecoffeecoffeecoffee! COFFEE!!)
To: dc27
Is she on the pill, hormone therapy or the Depo shot? How old is she? (You don't have to be specific.)
610
posted on
01/07/2004 10:03:39 PM PST
by
Marie
(I smell... COFFEE! coffeecoffeecoffeecoffee! COFFEE!!)
To: Quix
I think women REALLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLLY UNDERESTIMATE THE DEPTH of such feelings and the negativity that goes with such feelings on the part of some pretty brave, strong, assertive--even normally aggressive men.You are SOOOOO right. It took me forever to understand that my husband feels at LEAST as deeply as I do. But he CANNOT express it. Women have a full rainbow of emotion and a thousand words and ways of expressing it. Men have 4 modes. Happy, neutral, angry or confused. The 4th one usually turns to anger.
I once read that a female has more connections between the left and right hemispheres, thus she can go back and forth between logic and emotion in microseconds. She can (and does) analyze her feelings very easily. But a man has to be settled on one side or the other. Thus men would be 90% in logic mode or running on pure emotion with most rational thought blocked out.
Believe it or not, I changed my behavior with my husband and it WORKS. When he's cool, I can talk to him. When he's upset, I don't try to rationalize with him or get him to see my point. I give him meat. Yes, I really said that. I wave a hunk of lunch meat in his face and tell him to go sit down. He take it and retreats. After he's REALLY calmed down (no less than 30 min), we talk. In the past, when I would push an argument things just went from bad to worse. Now I know that I have to let him let go of the emotion before we can talk. That means I have to let go, too.
611
posted on
01/07/2004 10:15:39 PM PST
by
Marie
(I smell... COFFEE! coffeecoffeecoffeecoffee! COFFEE!!)
To: freedox
The gifts that our mates give us can indeed be construed as outward symbols of our value and worth........and the more insecure one is about one's own worth, the more important those outward symbols become.Wow, that's smart. Dead on.
612
posted on
01/07/2004 10:17:45 PM PST
by
Marie
(I smell... COFFEE! coffeecoffeecoffeecoffee! COFFEE!!)
To: kmiller1k
b g lsyrt Huh?
I'm sorry. I'm not that hip. ~ :-\
613
posted on
01/07/2004 10:21:14 PM PST
by
Marie
(I smell... COFFEE! coffeecoffeecoffeecoffee! COFFEE!!)
To: Marie
"We get flattered by the attention we get from guys we find attractive and repulsed by the attention of guys we don't."Would you concede that "repulsed" might be too strong a word? I learned from my father (BLESS HIM!) that as long as a man's approach is genuine and gentlemanly, open scorn is never an appropriate response. Regardless of whether I find the man attractive or not, I am generally open to an appropriate compliment or an appreciative smile. I am only repulsed by behavior that crosses the line and becomes crass or presumptive.
614
posted on
01/07/2004 10:33:05 PM PST
by
freedox
To: Marie
"When he's upset, I don't try to rationalize with him or get him to see my point. I give him meat. Yes, I really said that. I wave a hunk of lunch meat in his face and tell him to go sit down. He take it and retreats."ROFLOL!!! I have this great visual of a sulking hulk of a man slouched in his recliner, gnawing on a chunk of meat while he cools off. I think I'm gonna try this one.......
615
posted on
01/07/2004 10:40:26 PM PST
by
freedox
To: Marie
GREAT PRACTICAL WISDOM IN YOUR WONDERFUL POST.
Orange juice and gram crackers can get the electrolites back up, too.
My wife and I finally noticed we were gritchy at each other most when we were hungry.
616
posted on
01/07/2004 10:41:15 PM PST
by
Quix
(Particularly quite true conspiracies are rarely proven until it's too late to do anything about them)
To: Marie
You sound like a very wise and caring spouse.
617
posted on
01/07/2004 10:42:19 PM PST
by
Quix
(Particularly quite true conspiracies are rarely proven until it's too late to do anything about them)
To: Marie
AM CURIOUS . . . for my own feedback . . .
were the long excerpts from the ATTACHMENTS book worth your bothering to read, or not?
618
posted on
01/07/2004 10:43:06 PM PST
by
Quix
(Particularly quite true conspiracies are rarely proven until it's too late to do anything about them)
To: freedox
Would you concede that "repulsed" might be too strong a word? Not really. If I am standing in a room with a man who I do not find attractive and he is behaving pleasantly or ignoring me completely, there is no issue. Behaving in a kind or friendly manner is welcome. If he makes advances, I feel like backing away. I don't think that's a rare instinct.
619
posted on
01/07/2004 10:45:16 PM PST
by
Marie
(I smell... COFFEE! coffeecoffeecoffeecoffee! COFFEE!!)
To: freedox
For my hubby, beer also works. Sweets and chocolate do NOT get the required response. Remember, meat and beer... meat and beer. ;-)
620
posted on
01/07/2004 10:52:24 PM PST
by
Marie
(I smell... COFFEE! coffeecoffeecoffeecoffee! COFFEE!!)
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