Any divorce is bad. Any divorce involving children is very very bad.
“Any divorce is bad. “
My divorce was good. I traded for a wonderful lady.
First marriage was 18 years. 25 years and counting on my second.
some divorces that do not involve children are good
95% of divorce involving children are bad
Some subset of this number they are very or very very bad.
Separations that have children involved can have similar numbers to above
I would rather say that any divorce is unfortunate, difficult and can be damaging to the adults and children involved.
There are too many differences in divorces, reasons for them, and how they are carried out to call all of them ‘good’ or ‘bad’
some divorces that do not involve children are good
95% of divorce involving children are bad
Some subset of this 95% number are very or extremely bad.
Separations that have children involved can have similar numbers to above
What’s always fascinating - and, frankly, saddening - in these threads are the lengths to which ‘conservatives’ twist themselves like leftists to justify divorce.
In theory, conservatives are God-fearing people. Our Lord was clear about divorce. He didn’t pile on a ton of qualifiers. “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning. I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, and marries another woman commits adultery.”
And that’s a One-Way ticket to Hell. Do not pass Go.
Leftists similarly twist themselves into pretzels to justify all sorts of immorality. They get (rightly) bashed. But divorce? Well, Doodle….you don’t get it…it’s complicated….she’s was a beyoch/he’s a loser.
Actually…I DO get it. Your spouse is a handful. Or…maybe….YOU are a handful. Ok…work within the Law of God. Separate and stay chaste. Counseling. Fight for morality. Whatever…. Figure out the problems.
The solution to a boy who wants to be a girl isn’t reassignment surgery.
The solution to a terrible spouse isn’t divorce.
Or, be like a leftist, and make up whatever rule makes you feel good.