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Free Sex Costs Everything: How the Sexual Revolution Broke Marriage, Men, and Women
PJMEDIA ^ | 11-14-2025 | Jamie K. Wilson

Posted on 11/15/2025 7:25:53 AM PST by Taxman

A woman in her late thirties posts a simple complaint online: “Men can have kids into their seventies. I’ve only got a few years left. That’s so unfair.”

Within hours, her mentions are a war zone. Some men sneer about “geriatric eggs.” Others write manifestos about feminism and hypergamy. A few women defend her, but the thread collapses into the same argument we’ve been having for decades.

In Britain, a thirty-four-year-old woman recently sued her ex-boyfriend, claiming he had “stolen her childbearing years.” After ten years together, he ended the relationship without fulfilling his promises of marriage and children. Now, she’s demanding enough compensation to pay for in vitro fertilization, arguing that at her age, the damage is irreversible. The story, which may or may not be apocryphal, made international headlines (New York Post, Nov. 9, 2025).

None of this is about fairness. It’s about biology.

Both scenes expose the same raw truth: the difference between men and women starts in the body. Women face a narrow reproductive window and carry the heavier cost of sex and childbearing. Men can father children for decades and are built to compete for access. That single asymmetry — who can bear life, and when — shapes everything that follows.

Feminism can deny it, but it can’t erase it. The entire struggle between men and women — resentment, rivalry, dependency, love — traces back to unyielding biological facts.

Biology and the Social Machinery

Men and women were never designed for identical roles. Men are stronger and more expendable. Women are fertile for a brief span and pay a higher price for reproduction. Left unmanaged, that imbalance leads to chaos: predation, jealousy, neglect. Civilizations that survived learned to harness male aggression into protection and tie sexual access to responsibility.

That is where social machinery began.

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TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Education; History; Society
KEYWORDS: fragilesnowflakemen; installments; marriage; marriagetruth; men; nofreelunch; paymentplan; sex; women; youwillpay
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Methinks the author's profound truths expose the LIES of LIEberal Theology re: men and women precisely and very succinctly!

A thoughtful and enlightened comment about the state of male/female relations in the 21st Century, and how we got here.

I look forward to my FReeper FRiends reactions and comments.

PS Read the entire article before you comment.

1 posted on 11/15/2025 7:25:53 AM PST by Taxman
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To: Taxman

True the covenant is broken but she speaks of it as a social covenant only. The truth is its a spiritual God covenant we’ve broken, in which chaos only follows. Returning to God’s plan is the only way out of this mess.


2 posted on 11/15/2025 7:31:50 AM PST by ViLaLuz (2 Chronicles 7:14)
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To: Taxman

Actually with men, don’t the chances for having a child with Down’s Syndrome go up after age 40?


3 posted on 11/15/2025 7:33:04 AM PST by MarlonRando
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To: Taxman

We are headed for an AI / Fiancial services managed dystopia where the lifecycle is managed from in vitro fertilization to disposal as soylent green, and you will own nothing and be happy.


4 posted on 11/15/2025 7:33:38 AM PST by AndyJackson
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To: ViLaLuz

That’s the truth.


5 posted on 11/15/2025 7:34:18 AM PST by No name given ( Anonymous is who you’ll know me as )
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To: AndyJackson

er... to disposal as soylent green when your social credits run out.


6 posted on 11/15/2025 7:34:26 AM PST by AndyJackson
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To: Taxman

Dating apps, increase mobility, lead to “Lots of Fish In the Sea” syndrome. The feeling that if your partner isn’t perfect, it’s easy to move onto the next one.

In our grandparents’ world, you basically had until you finished High School to find a mate, or the pickings would get real thin.


7 posted on 11/15/2025 7:34:51 AM PST by dfwgator ("I am Charlie Kirk!")
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To: MarlonRando

I believe that higher risk hits even earlier at 35.


8 posted on 11/15/2025 7:36:56 AM PST by HombreSecreto (The life of a repo man is always intense)
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To: Taxman

The ENTIRE article!?!
.
How UnFReeper !


9 posted on 11/15/2025 7:38:34 AM PST by Big Red Badger (ALL Things Will be Revealed !)
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To: MarlonRando

A question, is it due to their older partners or them? You would have to look at rates per female partner as well. I don’t know if that has been done.


10 posted on 11/15/2025 7:44:58 AM PST by alternatives?
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To: Taxman

My daughter in law lived thru the train wreck of her single mother’s home and decided she wanted no part of it. She and Jeff jr have been together 8 years, married for 5 and have 2 beautiful children


11 posted on 11/15/2025 7:50:02 AM PST by Jeff Vader
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To: MarlonRando

I read where the risk for autism increases significantly for men 45 and over.


12 posted on 11/15/2025 7:52:23 AM PST by MachIV
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To: HombreSecreto; MarlonRando
MarlonRando: Actually with men, don’t the chances for having a child with Down’s Syndrome go up after age 40?

HombreSecreto: I believe that higher risk hits even earlier at 35.

The correlation between increasing paternal age and the likelihood of having a child with Down syndrome (trisomy 21) appears to be real - but modest. Maternal age remains the dominant driver of risk. When analyses adjust for maternal age, paternal age generally shows a smaller, independent effect. Some studies even suggest a U‑shaped pattern, with slightly higher risk in very young fathers and in fathers over 40, compared to fathers in their 20s–30s.

Empirical data indicates that around 90–95% of Down syndrome cases originate from maternal nondisjunction, while only 5–10% are paternal in origin. This imbalance suggests that defective sperm rarely succeed in fertilization compared to defective eggs.

In short, the human ovum is a stationary target - if it is defective, it's still a possible target.

The human spermatozoa are the "arrows" flying towards that target - and the MULTIPLE barriers present in the female reproductive tract act as a "Great Barrier" to defective spermatozoa.

Regards,

13 posted on 11/15/2025 7:52:35 AM PST by alexander_busek (Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.)
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To: MarlonRando

No it is the Women.


14 posted on 11/15/2025 7:52:45 AM PST by Chickensoup
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To: Taxman
At first, men saw this as a good deal. They were freed from the expectation of lifelong responsibility and enjoyed unprecedented access to sex. The idea of intimacy after a few dates became standard. Women, unchaperoned and unprotected, found themselves pressured to do what their grandmothers never had to justify. There had always been premarital sex, but now it was assumed rather than transgressive.

Finally, an article that acknowledges how much the male sex drive has steered these developments, and doesn't just blame it all on "feminism."

15 posted on 11/15/2025 7:55:40 AM PST by A_perfect_lady (The greatest wealth is to live content with little. -Plato)
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To: Jeff Vader

Congratulations!


16 posted on 11/15/2025 7:55:52 AM PST by Taxman (We will never be a truly free people so long as we have the income tax and the IRS. )
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To: alternatives?
See my post #13.

Statistical tools allow us to "correct for" the phenomenon that older fathers generally tend to have fathered children with older mothers. But this effect can be "filtered out."

It then becomes clear that increasing maternal age is 90-95% responsible for children suffering from Down Syndrome. My post #13 sketches the reasons why older mothers are more at fault than older fathers.

Regards,

17 posted on 11/15/2025 7:55:58 AM PST by alexander_busek (Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence.)
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To: Big Red Badger

Yes, I know!

Trying to start a new FReeper trend — First, read the ENTIRE article; THEN comment!

Less fun, but more educational!


18 posted on 11/15/2025 7:57:57 AM PST by Taxman (We will never be a truly free people so long as we have the income tax and the IRS. )
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To: ViLaLuz
Your point is well-taken.

Returning to God’s plan is the only way out of this mess.

19 posted on 11/15/2025 8:02:51 AM PST by Taxman (We will never be a truly free people so long as we have the income tax and the IRS. )
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To: MarlonRando

No

This is a fembot canard

Men’s sperm deterioration is statistically insignificant

It exists but it is tiny

https://youtu.be/rkJ5vYdpNqk?si=pWwLEQH5iEigmcKO


20 posted on 11/15/2025 8:03:53 AM PST by wardaddy (If u hate Trump you’re oh eff offstupid or clueless what’s going on)
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