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What Makes a Lady With Cats a "Cat Lady"?
Psychology Today ^ | 3/6/25 | Kaytee Gillis, LCSW

Posted on 11/08/2025 10:48:57 AM PST by DallasBiff

"You must be a cat lady, Ms. Kaytee," the student said to me through laughter. I was working in a school, and had popped into one of the classrooms to assist with a project. This student who had just met me seconds ago assumed that I "must be" a cat lady.

At the time I laughed: I had one cat, yes, but would hardly call myself a "cat lady." I also had a guinea pig, after all. Maybe this was some new Gen-Z slang that I didn't understand? Maybe "cat lady" means "an adult who is super cool"? (One can only hope.)

Fast forward 5 years, and we just adopted a third cat over the weekend. As I sat on my couch with not just one, but three fur babies, I said to myself, "Kaytee. You're a cat lady."

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TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Pets/Animals
KEYWORDS: cats; dogs
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To: DallasBiff

Demonic Amy of Amy’s Baking Company: “I speak feline”
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vwhVFKzA72Q
Lefty cat ladies are witches, and their “fur babies” are their familiars.


21 posted on 11/08/2025 11:26:39 AM PST by tumblindice (America's founding fathers: all armed conservatives)
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To: sauropod

No one understands cats.
My cat bites me. That’s a sign of love.
I love her, got her two weeks after my last cat died. Cats are really easy, no leashes and walks in the rain, etc etc, and she sleeps with me when it’s cold out.


22 posted on 11/08/2025 11:29:43 AM PST by Veto! (Trump is Superman)
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To: mewzilla

Toxoplasmosis!

Latest research says it causes women to be more neurotic.


23 posted on 11/08/2025 11:31:55 AM PST by MMusson ( )
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To: x

Muslims vastly prefer cats over dogs. I don’t know what Mayor Madmani owns.


24 posted on 11/08/2025 11:32:20 AM PST by rfp1234 (E Porcibus Unum)
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To: rfp1234

They say in Istanbul there are more cats than people.


25 posted on 11/08/2025 11:33:11 AM PST by dfwgator ("I am Charlie Kirk!")
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To: sauropod

Two more good ones, these from across the pond...

https://youtu.be/IdA_fLC7WIQ?si=8CeNwfdhXkqBab_A

https://youtu.be/Bwfbkq6FOGQ?si=mMEsEVXeO3CAlDna

I, for one, welcome our feline overlords!


26 posted on 11/08/2025 11:34:10 AM PST by mewzilla (Swing away, Mr. President, swing away! 🇺🇸 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 )
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To: MMusson

How do we know that’s not leftism? 🤔


27 posted on 11/08/2025 11:35:10 AM PST by mewzilla (Swing away, Mr. President, swing away! 🇺🇸 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 )
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To: DallasBiff

If you refer to your pets as “fur babies” you have gone over the hill.


28 posted on 11/08/2025 11:40:38 AM PST by pfflier
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To: sauropod

Cats, no matter the size, are apex preds. I find them amazing. I have ‘spent time’ with their much larger cousins while hunting.


29 posted on 11/08/2025 11:43:07 AM PST by waterhill (Nobody cares, work harder!)
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To: sauropod

We have cats and dogs. Makes for some entertainment. They like each other and they goof around.


30 posted on 11/08/2025 11:52:32 AM PST by waterhill (Nobody cares, work harder!)
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To: MMusson

Our cats have their own door; the dogs’.

Dogs don’t crap in the house nor do the cats.


31 posted on 11/08/2025 11:56:51 AM PST by waterhill (Nobody cares, work harder!)
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To: DallasBiff

The end product of feminism.


32 posted on 11/08/2025 12:06:06 PM PST by aquila48 (Do not let them make you "care" ! Guilting you is how they. control you. )
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To: mewzilla

We resemble that, after adopting five feral kittens.
And feeding two as outside cats.


33 posted on 11/08/2025 12:09:19 PM PST by doorgunner69
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To: DallasBiff

If they end up like this shouldn’t some nice man be kind and ask them out to dinner?

https://www.google.com/search?q=images+catwoman+in+movies&sca_esv=cbe354fe43a72020&udm=2&biw=1198&bih=608&ei=36MPadifDbTdwN4Pisnq-QY&ved=0ahUKEwiYi_OxruOQAxW0LtAFHYqkOm8Q4dUDCBI&oq=images+catwoman+in+movies&gs_lp=Egtnd3Mtd2l6LWltZyIZaW1hZ2VzIGNhdHdvbWFuIGluIG1vdmllc0gAUABYAHAAeACQAQCYAQCgAQCqAQC4AQzIAQCYAgCgAgCYAwCSBwCgBwCyBwC4BwDCBwDIBwA&sclient=gws-wiz-img


34 posted on 11/08/2025 12:13:41 PM PST by frank ballenger (There's a battle outside and it's raging. It'll soon shake your windows and rattle your walls. )
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To: DallasBiff

How many empty Chardonnay boxes are in the trash?


35 posted on 11/08/2025 12:23:51 PM PST by Disambiguator
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To: DallasBiff
Cat-Lady
36 posted on 11/08/2025 12:40:00 PM PST by SkyDancer ( ~ Am Yisrael Chai ~)
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To: DallasBiff

A person who calls his or her pets “fur babies” or refers to himself or herself as the pet’s father or mother loses respect from me.


37 posted on 11/08/2025 12:43:47 PM PST by Bigg Red ( Lord, make me an instrument of your peace.)
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To: DallasBiff

I go by the single lady two cat rule. There is no need or reason for a single lady (or man) to have more than 2 cats. Once she hits that 3rd cat level, we are into neuroses territory. If she spends most of her daily communication allotment talking to her cats rather than humans, she is more “cat lady” than human lady. If she breaks a hip, you transport her to the ASPCA facility rather than a hospital


38 posted on 11/08/2025 12:52:42 PM PST by chuckee
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To: DallasBiff

Cats.
I admire them from afar. Not home enough to keep one, and anyway there are associate cats all over the neighborhood, don’t know if they “belong” to someone or not, or if they care. If they needed my help they’d ask and I’d let them in as far as the enclosed porch.
The chipmunks might not appreciate that, and they were here first...
But for contact there are cats at the homes of various friends, that’s enough cat love for me.


39 posted on 11/08/2025 12:53:38 PM PST by Buttons12 ( )
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To: DallasBiff

Don’t forget the wine box in the fridge.


40 posted on 11/08/2025 12:54:54 PM PST by alternatives?
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