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Am I Unkind to Refuse to Even Consider Marrying or Dating a Liberal Woman?
Match.Com affiliate ^ | 12 June 2025 | Me (Pure Vanity)

Posted on 06/12/2025 9:43:38 AM PDT by Vigilanteman

My daughters have gifted me a six month subscription for a popular dating site for Father's Day.

My wife of 39 years (their mother) died over two years ago and I went through successful cancer treatment last year and in now in remission. I mentioned to my daughters that I might be open to meeting someone now given that the numerical odds are in my favor and my sweet wife waiting in heaven would want me to be happy for the next twenty years or so of my life.

They are also going to introduce me to some of their contacts who might be open to a pity date. Of course (being good daughters) they asked if I would consider anyone outside my race, religion, etc. I told them that the one and only turn-off would be liberals.

My life's experience is that it is generally easier to get someone to change one's religion, cultural outlook or almost anything other than extreme political views. Liberals come with an entitlement mentality. At best, they would be a waste of time and dinner money. At worst, they would have divorce rape on their minds . . . pretend to love you in order to steal half of what you have worked a lifetime to earn.

I am realistic enough to understand that finding someone like my late wife would be impossible. She was kind, caring, conservative and had a big heart. I loved her dearly and deeply. We raised three highly successful children who have blessed us with wonderful grandchildren. But I would far rather spend the rest of my life alone than get romantically involved with a liberal leftist lunatic with divorce rape on her mind.

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Am I being mean, close-minded and judgmental? Or just accurate? Any hints or advice on navigating this path are appreciated.
1 posted on 06/12/2025 9:43:38 AM PDT by Vigilanteman
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To: Vigilanteman

Nope. I was on there a couple of years ago and stated in my profile that I love Donald Trump. I figure it would filter out the crazies. And it worked.


2 posted on 06/12/2025 9:45:16 AM PDT by kevslisababy (I am a Genuine Female: No after market parts.)
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To: Vigilanteman

Stay single. You’ll be the happier for it.


3 posted on 06/12/2025 9:46:09 AM PDT by Flavious_Maximus (Tony Fauci will be put on death row and die of COVID!)
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To: Vigilanteman

Don’t start a relationship you know will end in a disaster..............


4 posted on 06/12/2025 9:46:22 AM PDT by Red Badger (Homeless veterans camp in the streets while illegals are put up in 5 Star hotels....................)
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To: Vigilanteman

Your nuts to waste your money on Match.com as most are AI generated as most Dating sites and if you find a live one well that opens a whole other can of worms...


5 posted on 06/12/2025 9:46:42 AM PDT by dpetty121263
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Not at all. Do not even consider it. You will be miserable. You would find every conversation will most likely turn into an argument.


6 posted on 06/12/2025 9:46:44 AM PDT by madison10
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To: Vigilanteman

Steer clear. You could end up with a joy behar clone. LOL! Good luck whichever way you go. And condolences for your loss a couple years ago.


7 posted on 06/12/2025 9:47:19 AM PDT by rktman (Destroy America from within? Check! WTH? Enlisted USN 1967 to end up with this๐Ÿ’ฉ? ๐Ÿšซ๐Ÿ’‰! ๐Ÿ‡ฎ๐Ÿ‡ฑ๐Ÿ‘!)
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No, she would kick you out anyway. Why put her through all that?


8 posted on 06/12/2025 9:47:21 AM PDT by SaxxonWoods (The road is a dangerous place man, you can die out here...or worse. -Johnny Paycheck, 1980, Reno, NV)
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To: Vigilanteman

The Book says do not be unequally yoked with an unbeliever.

Same principle applies here.


9 posted on 06/12/2025 9:48:26 AM PDT by jeffersondem
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GO TO CHURCH. Stay out of the sack with any woman you are not dead set on giving your life and fortunate to.

Iow, dont date, if it was meant to be it will happen.

Your meddling with God's plan is sure to turn out in the devils favor.

10 posted on 06/12/2025 9:48:39 AM PDT by Ikeon ( Why don't they, do what they say? Say what they mean? One thing leads to another. )
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No. I would expand that, to avoid most American women, at least urban or suburban ones. Look overseas: Poland, the Phillipines, Colombia. All have lovely women who have not been infected by capital-F Feminism or Western Liberalism . . .


11 posted on 06/12/2025 9:48:48 AM PDT by Salgak (This is a Triumph. I'm making a note here, Huge Success! It's hard to overstate, my satisfaction. )
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Love. If the woman loves you and you love her, you can bridge the divide. I married my wife 27 years ago and she was an agnostic liberal. Now, she votes for Trump and a devout Christian and we are doing fine!


12 posted on 06/12/2025 9:48:51 AM PDT by Chainmail (You can vote your way into Socialism - but you will have to shoot your way out.)
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To: Vigilanteman

Some couples make it work.

But you are entirely entitled to find someone like-minded.


13 posted on 06/12/2025 9:49:38 AM PDT by 9YearLurker
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To: Vigilanteman

2 Corinthians 6:14, (NIV), states: “Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?”โ€ฆ

No way! Hold out for a woman who shares your values. And this will honor your deceased wife as well.


14 posted on 06/12/2025 9:49:52 AM PDT by Joann37 (This )
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Ask yourself, in today’s political environment, do you want to have to listen to TDS every day after work? If the answer is no, you have your answer.


15 posted on 06/12/2025 9:50:19 AM PDT by packrat35 (Pureblood! No clot shot for me!)
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I wouldn’t focus on her liberalism. I would focus on whether she is intolerant of your views and whether she will respect your views. There are plenty of couples out there with loving relationships where the husband and wife have different political views.


16 posted on 06/12/2025 9:50:26 AM PDT by Opinionated Blowhard (When the people find that they can vote themselves money, that will herald the end of the republic.)
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To: Vigilanteman

Sorry to hear about your circumstances. God bless for persevering. As far as the liberal woman thing, I think you’ll find your answer soon enough.


17 posted on 06/12/2025 9:50:37 AM PDT by stevio (Fight until you die!)
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To: Vigilanteman

No. Not in this day and age.


18 posted on 06/12/2025 9:51:05 AM PDT by kosciusko51
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To: Vigilanteman

I got back into the Dating world after being off the market for 10 years and met this Woman on Match and I went to pick her up and found out she was living with a guy in this little shack of a house and it all become clear so if you are smart steer clear of these Women today.


19 posted on 06/12/2025 9:51:37 AM PDT by dpetty121263
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You’re being smart. But it’s a matter of degree of craziness and commitment to the left. She could be turned.


20 posted on 06/12/2025 9:51:39 AM PDT by DouglasKC
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