Posted on 08/16/2024 2:12:51 PM PDT by Tom Tetroxide
Four questions asked by young women and the terrible answers they got. My parents resent the guy I have been dating for 4 years. My boyfriend is 5 years older than I and I am now 21. My parents are judging him because his parents divorced. That is not his fault.
The old fashioned way I was raised makes me feel guilt whenever I have a bit of fun. I am not a slut; how do I stop feeling like one? I love my boyfriend very deeply. I am 17 and a virgin. I am not sure about how far to go but I don't want my boyfriend to leave me. Your rabbi analyzes the answers these sad young women are given and the pathos their gushing gratitude to the destructive hosts evokes.
0:00 How advice to young women can be misleading and disruptive to society.
4:56 Gender roles in dating and relationships.
12:11 Long-term dating and setting boundaries with parents.
17:18 Gender differences in dating and relationships.
23:26 Dating apps and their impact on relationships, emphasizing the importance of personal agency and self-governance in marriage.
29:16 Relationships, family, and marriage.
37:05 How past actions impact future generations.
42:34 Gender roles, relationships, and self-worth.
48:14 Dating and relationships, with a focus on the importance of waiting for marriage
4 years? She’s 17?
Is she growing up and learning about the world? Or is she a child bride
She loves him deeply? At 13 she knew she loves a 17 year old
This is completely deranged and normalizing.
She’s a virgin? Whatever.
“My parents are judging him because his parents divorced.”
Don’t know how old he was when that happened but often when kids are subjected to life shattering events like that they determine they will not fall into that same trap.
I understand where these girls are coming from.
They live in a sick and depraved society that would want them to already have 2 abortions by now. A society that has encouraged them to change genders.
No wonder girls and boys are confused.
There are two separate stories in the excerpt. One from a 21 year old and one from a 17 year old.
Both outlining the issues.
Probably means there's one type of sex she has been avoiding.
What I know is girls need to get educated and then settled with their professions for about 3 years before they know what they’re doing with this one life.
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