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Falling in Love Across the Political Divide
Intellectual Takeout ^ | June 3, 2024 | Adam De Gree

Posted on 06/05/2024 7:27:07 PM PDT by DoodleBob

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Marriages Between Democrats and Republicans Are Extremely Rare


1 posted on 06/05/2024 7:27:07 PM PDT by DoodleBob
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To: DoodleBob

Anyone who ‘falls in love’ acrossparty.lines is headed for certain disaster. No ifs, ands, or bits about it.


2 posted on 06/05/2024 7:31:39 PM PDT by hoagy62 (Evil won...again.)
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To: DoodleBob

Don’t marry a Leftist. Period.


3 posted on 06/05/2024 7:36:22 PM PDT by Gnome1949
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I dated a radical feminist Democrat in college. She aspired to be a lawyer, so she loved to argue. That bitch picked an ideological fight at every opportunity. I got sick of it really fast and dumped her. I learned my lesson early.


4 posted on 06/05/2024 7:39:30 PM PDT by GenXFreedomFighter (End of quote. Repeat the line. )
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To: hoagy62

“Anyone who ‘falls in love’ acrossparty.lines is headed for certain disaster. No ifs, ands, or bits about it.”

Just Say No!


5 posted on 06/05/2024 7:39:58 PM PDT by catnipman ((A Vote For The Lesser Of Two Evils Still Counts As A Vote For Evil))
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Anyone who ‘falls in love’ acrossparty.lines is headed for certain disaster. No ifs, ands, or bits about it.
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Agreed. I just skimmed the article so don’t know if it ever came up. How would he handle his wife wanting to abort one of their lovely children? I assume they have children cause he said “family.”
I could never imagine living with someone who has total polar opposite beliefs. My brother is a rabid liberal. I love him, but only cause I’m not around him everyday. I believe I would disown him if it was more frequent. He even told me he wished someone would shoot Trump.And he meant it.


6 posted on 06/05/2024 7:49:50 PM PDT by sunny bonobo
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7 posted on 06/05/2024 7:59:32 PM PDT by gundog (It was a bright cold day in April, and the clocks were striking thirteen. )
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“I understand why people aren’t open to falling in love across the political divide. We want a potential spouse to share our values. Yet when we refuse to love anyone who disagrees with us, even on hot-button issues, we close ourselves off to loving anything but an image of ourselves.”

Disagree. You can save yourself a whole lot of heartache(and cash!) by not getting involved with a liberal especially marrying one. Sure you might convert a liberal who has been misinformed or just ignorant on facts. But an indoctrinated liberal is virtually impossible to change their viewpoint. This guy is in for a world of hurt. He can ignore the elephant in the room for a while but eventually it will rear its ugly head and destroy the marriage.


8 posted on 06/05/2024 8:02:09 PM PDT by princeofdarkness
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I agree, Prince.

Stay with your kind. You don’t have to agree on every single issue, but a few key ones are:

Your religion and how devout you are
How you handle money
Your approach to work
Open marriages
Abortion
Guns

If you can agree on those, a lot of smaller issues will follow or you will compromise.

A devout person who believes in the sanctity of marriage will never be happy in an open marriage no matter how much gaslighting they get.

A committed worker who lives within their means will never be happy with a sybarite who blows their paycheck every week, etc.

Recipe for disaster.


9 posted on 06/05/2024 8:19:04 PM PDT by TheWriterTX (🇺🇸✝️🙏🇮🇱)
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To: DoodleBob

Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?

2 Corinthians 6:14


10 posted on 06/05/2024 8:25:38 PM PDT by Dogbert41 (“Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God” -Matthew 5:9)
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Never sleep with a woman who would murder your child.


11 posted on 06/05/2024 8:30:01 PM PDT by Jeff Chandler (THE ISSUE IS NEVER THE ISSUE. THE REVOLUTION IS THE ISSUE.)
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To: Gnome1949

Good advice.


12 posted on 06/05/2024 8:30:55 PM PDT by No name given (Anonymous is who you’ll know me as)
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To: Jeff Chandler

I wouldn’t even want to be in the same room with them.


13 posted on 06/05/2024 8:31:28 PM PDT by No name given (Anonymous is who you’ll know me as)
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To: DoodleBob

Thirty-five years ago I dated a woman who was a conventional liberal. She was cute and nice and fun and a great cook. We stopped dating after a while but have remained friends. She went completely Obamabot in 2008 and has become more Leftist as the years have gone by. I see what she posts on FB. It would have eventually been a nightmare to be married to her.


14 posted on 06/05/2024 8:45:11 PM PDT by Southside_Chicago_Republican (God save the United States!)
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Thirty-five years ago I dated a woman who was a conventional liberal. She was cute and nice and fun and a great cook. We stopped dating after a while but have remained friends. She went completely Obamabot in 2008 and has become more Leftist as the years have gone by.

She's a woman. What did you expect?

15 posted on 06/05/2024 8:48:23 PM PDT by MinorityRepublican
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To: GenXFreedomFighter

Leftist girls are easy though.

“Just mention modern art, civil rights, or folk music and you’re in like Flynn!”


16 posted on 06/05/2024 8:52:39 PM PDT by dfwgator (Endut! Hoch Hech!)
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To: MinorityRepublican

Well, I know women who are not like that and, at the time, I would never have imagined how crazy our politics would become.


17 posted on 06/05/2024 8:53:22 PM PDT by Southside_Chicago_Republican (God save the United States!)
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To: Southside_Chicago_Republican

Lesson learned.


18 posted on 06/05/2024 8:56:54 PM PDT by MinorityRepublican
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To: dfwgator

Yeah, well...

I was a young, poor college student and I knew I had no business having sex. Even though she wanted me to pork her badly. Knowing that there are no life-long consequences that could have kept her in my life forever, I have no regrets.


19 posted on 06/05/2024 8:59:02 PM PDT by GenXFreedomFighter (End of quote. Repeat the line. )
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To: Gnome1949

Ditto. Enough conservative women turn to the left as they age and feel White Privileged Guilt


20 posted on 06/05/2024 8:59:40 PM PDT by drSteve78 ( Older Je suis Deplorable. Even more so)
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