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My Boyfriend Wants Me to Help Him Pay Off His College Loan Debt, If I Don’t He May Leave Me
Atlantic Black Star via Yahoo ^ | October 31, 2023

Posted on 10/31/2023 1:35:03 PM PDT by grundle

Recently, he came to me with what he thought was a bright idea. He suggested that I use some of my stipend and also money from my loans and grants to help him repay his student loans.

I absolutely detest the idea and told him so.

During a recent argument, the ‘s’ word came out. He’s never called me selfish before, but now he’s calling me all sorts of names that have to do with me withholding money from him. He says he doesn’t want to be with someone who’s not willing to build with him and support him.

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KEYWORDS: dating; lol; manosphere; pua; redpill; relationships
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To: grundle

Help him pack.

Don’t give him a dime.


21 posted on 10/31/2023 1:42:05 PM PDT by Allegra (Stop the Zeepers from Censoring FReepers)
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To: grundle

It is not uncommon to have a spouse help to pay off a college loan.

It is a nice, marriage solidifying action, and what one would expect in a marriage.

But Boyfriend? Girlfriend? One would have to an absolute, moronic idiot to even consider this.

Of course, I see this is oriented towards a segment of society that has a childbirth out of wedlock rate of greater than 80%, so perhaps this is the only option for them.

Still. You would have to be a total loser, dumbass to even consider this for a “boyfriend”.


22 posted on 10/31/2023 1:42:05 PM PDT by rlmorel ("If you think tough men are dangerous, just wait until you see what weak men are capable of." JBP)
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To: grundle
That’s what you get for dating a guy with a man bun.
23 posted on 10/31/2023 1:42:32 PM PDT by Gay State Conservative (Two Words: Banana Republic)
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To: grundle

Run away from him as fast as humanly possible.


24 posted on 10/31/2023 1:42:38 PM PDT by Pox (Eff You China. Buy American!)
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To: grundle

My lawyer wife quit working a month before we got married and I got to pay her law school student loans off. It happens. But not outside of marriage, unless you’re a born sucker.


25 posted on 10/31/2023 1:42:41 PM PDT by pepsi_junkie ("We want no Gestapo or Secret Police. F. B. I. is tending in that direction." - Harry S Truman)
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To: grundle

Run for the hills!


26 posted on 10/31/2023 1:43:03 PM PDT by Howie66 ("Biden-Fetterman 2024. It's A No Brainer")
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To: grundle

dont let him leave you

kiss his ass to the curb

hard


27 posted on 10/31/2023 1:43:21 PM PDT by joshua c (to disrupt the system, we must disrupt our lives, cut the cable tv)
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To: grundle

How fortunate she is to hear this now in such an in your face manner. DUMP that CHUMP.


28 posted on 10/31/2023 1:43:37 PM PDT by Jolla
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To: grundle

Let him leave.


29 posted on 10/31/2023 1:43:46 PM PDT by al_c (Democrats: Party over Common Sense)
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To: Jonty30

That was what I was thinking. Even if he was the nicest, clean, attractive, intelligent man, putting that kind of condition on it must break through the shell of stupidity.

I just cannot imagine someone being stupid enough to do this. Maybe they aren’t stupid. Maybe they are desperate to even consider it.

But if you are that desperate, an emotional predator will pick right up on that and leverage it to the hilt.


30 posted on 10/31/2023 1:44:32 PM PDT by rlmorel ("If you think tough men are dangerous, just wait until you see what weak men are capable of." JBP)
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To: grundle

He’s telling you he’s a parasite and loser without actually saying it.

What man would insist his girlfriend pay off his bills? No decent man would do this. A spoiled, entitled user would do this. Better to be rid of this cockroach now than be kicking yourself later.


31 posted on 10/31/2023 1:44:51 PM PDT by JudyinCanada (America's enemies want you to "trust the plan." Fight in reality, not the rabbit holes.)
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To: grundle

She already sees the red flags and knows the answer, she just wants others to confirm the decision


32 posted on 10/31/2023 1:44:58 PM PDT by PGR88
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Sad what’s become of the modern male. Also sucks for the natural woman and the family. Feminism/Rats are much to blame for this.


33 posted on 10/31/2023 1:45:35 PM PDT by Gene Eric (Don't be a statist!)
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To: pepsi_junkie

Absolutely. I would have done it for my wife, and she would have done it for me.

But outside of marriage? There is no circumstance I can think of to justify that.


34 posted on 10/31/2023 1:45:35 PM PDT by rlmorel ("If you think tough men are dangerous, just wait until you see what weak men are capable of." JBP)
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To: grundle

He’s gonna leave you anyway.
No man who really loves his girlfriend would play that card.

He’s just parking his manhood with you til he finds a better option.
You should too.


35 posted on 10/31/2023 1:45:57 PM PDT by RedMonqey ("A republic, if you can keep it" Benjam Franklin.)
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To: grundle

If you’re not married, the answer is a hard “no”. In fact, the fact that he even floated the idea with a shadow ultimatum is grounds for an immediate dumping.


36 posted on 10/31/2023 1:46:24 PM PDT by Antoninus (Republicans are all honorable men.)
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To: grundle

Get him the heck out of your life! Change the lock, get a new telephones number and if you like dogs and would be a good and responsible owner get a big dog.


37 posted on 10/31/2023 1:46:26 PM PDT by Chgogal (Welcome to Fuhrer Biden's Weaponized Fascist Banana Republic! It's the road to hell.)
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To: grundle

RUN!


38 posted on 10/31/2023 1:46:51 PM PDT by Ann Archy (Abortion....... The HUMAN Sacrifice to the god of Convenience.)
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To: grundle

39 posted on 10/31/2023 1:47:17 PM PDT by al_c (Democrats: Party over Common Sense)
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To: RedMonqey

A family member married some loser that dumped him 30 min after PhD fees were finally paid. Made him change his last name to hers first two. RUN!


40 posted on 10/31/2023 1:47:28 PM PDT by Swanks
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