"As a professional sex writer whose latest research is on maximizing pleasure, communicating with partners, and exploring sexual autonomy, I, too, grapple with the disconnect between the sex I know I could have and the sex I actually have. I now know I am not alone in enduring medium, bad, to very bad sex again and again, even though I know better; even though I own good vibrators..."
The libs. They can't see what the problem is. It's not just Biden's policies that are failing.
Maybe young folks need to visit The Villages in Florida to learn a few things. I hear it’s pretty wild and old folks are really enjoying themselves.
Batteries. The problem is batteries. Rare earth elements.
And self-imposed lobotomies.
Cell phone porn overtook Night moves in a sleeping bag at the local golf course after dark. Having good manners and not being a gossip about your exploits makes a world of difference too.
Bad breath is better than no breath.😎
Purity culture makes sex better. Married women have the best sexual happiness reporting.
Acting like apes is not sexy. Sex is bonding esp for women but for men too. We are not mere animals. Pretending otherwise does not make it so.
“Yassified contraceptives”. LOLwut?
True that
Gods gift is to be used wisely
I googled the author. She’s kind of a hottie!
Yep,
Speak for yourself [and only yourself] Maria....
Song Everybody Knows by Leonard Cohen
Everybody knows that the naked man and woman
Are just a shining artifact of the past
Everybody knows the scene is dead
But there’s gonna be a meter on your bed
That will disclose
What everybody knows
Everybody knows that you love me baby
Everybody knows that you really do
Everybody knows that you’ve been faithful
Oh, give or take a night or two
Everybody knows you’ve been discreet
But there were so many people you just had to meet
Without your clothes
Everybody knows
Everybody knows, everybody knows
That’s how it goes
Sex is like pizza.... never had a bad slice...
Devaluing its seriousness makes it less valuable and therefore less enjoyable? Who would have thought?
I’m not having bad sex. Count me as not part of “everyone”.
My guess is that they are too worried about the wrong things:
— Climate change
— Pronouns
— Social Justice
— #Me Too
I don’t think either social media or porn is helping either. Dating apps have a lot of girls chasing a few alpha males. I’ve overheard guys in their 20s talking about ED drugs.
I’m really glad I came of age in the 70s and 80s.
Wht? Because they awesome, and they are entitled to have the most awesome of every experience they ever have.
They are too effin special to have to experience the mundane, the average, the normal, the humdrum.
Any part of their lives which verges on those is cause for radical self-examination, and of course, over-wrought "look-at-me" blatherings.
God, I hate millenials.
May I opine that the problem is that they search around for sex with different “partners” looking for sexual gratification, rather than getting into a committed marriage and developing a loving relationship in which sex is a “joining together as one”?
They might find more fulfillment and joy should they follow God’s instructions on marriage.
If a person is looking for sex just for the physical gratification from that act of sex then they are not going to be happy the following day. Nothing will be enough because they will not be fulfilled and happy in the manner God intended.
As a professional sex writer whose latest research is on maximizing pleasure …Yes; poor Maria has some big problems in her life. Not least of which are her pronouns (“she/they”) . . .
Real simple: they didn’t invite Laz over to teach them how to do it right.