Così fan tutte?
treat them well while not being a puppy and letting them know that you’ve put a spell on them. they will probably feel secure enough not to roam, but you still won’t get any sex.
they will use sex outside the marriage if they don’t think you are giving them everything else they need. then that poor guy won’t get sex and will have to give them everything else.
Not surprised for me but haven’t surveyed others
I believe the Puritans (who more more fun than many believe) felt that women did run a little “hot” and needed to be watched more than men, who were more responsible.
And from what I hear about modern dating apps, the women are frequently trying to “trade up” and catch the biggest Alpha they can. I think a fair number of men want to settle down but they seem to make poor choices and end up with women who don’t plan to settle down — at least not with them.
I’ve seen (much) earlier studies finding that young women are more prone to cheating than young men.
Then the numbers reverse as age increases.
Makes sense because women are valued for youth and men for money, which takes some time to accrue.
Don’t mean to rub anyone’s fur backward, but in general men prefer young women and women prefer older men who have money than do the younger ones.
That’s why we have religion, to push people to the right way of doing things and away from the wrong.
Bull crap
Main rule is women must have their heart involved 99% of the time
Us men are plain and simple dogs. As Billy a Crystals character said in “Harry meets a Sally”
New will screw anything, fat, skinny, ugly, beautiful fir 99% of men it dies t matter
All this pertaining to a PreChistian filled life of course
....challenges us to think differently about women and sex....
What ever happened to enjoying your life? Who the hell has time for all this crap? Answer: Women, that’s who.
I’ve known a few straight up nymphos.
I have heard that the vast majority of divorces are initiated by the women. Of course there can be reasons for seeking divorce completely separate from sexual feelings. But maybe sex desire plays into that.
Could it be that both sexes crave sexual variety?
Could it be that this desire for different partners will tie in with the biological imperative of reproduction, such that the males and females with the strongest desires will be the ones who reproduce the most?
Said no healthy woman ever.
More junk science meant to make sociopolitical arguments.
Why post Vice garbage here?
I’ve noticed that.
I think this author wants to push the feminist narrative that women are just like men. It’s crap, like all the other social science crap spewed out by liberals.
When it comes to the younger generation it is absolutely true that women outpace men when it comes to cheating.
Sure, there are men who are total rakes and have enough notches on their bed posts to qualify the bed for a tribal art carving competition. However, in many cases those men tend to be wealthy, successful and/or good looking. Higher-status men.
For younger women however, even ‘average’ women (however one decides to define average) tend to really sleep around. Unfortunately for more and more young women sex is nothing but a commodity that they trade around quite easily. Usually sleeping with the same 30% or so of men, and then calling those men dogs.
The sexual marketplace is actually quite interesting. Your typical college and younger career women will dish it out quite liberally in their twenties and early thirties, and when they want to settle down they act surprised that men their age (now in their mid to late thirties) want to marry younger women. Especially when those men are now older and have better earning power.
But yes - when younger, women definitely cheat more than men. Significantly more. Sure, the jock on campus may have several women, but most men on campus will not have an arms-length of women they are having sex with. The overweight pimply girl however may not come across as ‘conventionally attractive’ to many people, but don’t be surprised if she’s slept with a quarter of the student body by the time she’s a junior in college.
And that’s where the women ‘win’ when it comes to infidelity. Usually men who have many women tend to have something those women want - money, status, whatever. However, any woman who wants to get some in 30 minutes can get some in 30 minutes. And that’s how they ‘win’ - the law of averages is in their favour.
It however comes back to bite them and bite them hard
Women are always shopping. Sometimes they are shopping for a new man, something a little better than the one they currently have.
Now that we have divorce at will, we can all see that it is, of course, the woman who has the midlife crisis, and for obvious reasons.
Mankind is made to operate anywhere from monogamy to polygamy, depending on conditions of war. The man must perform at a moment’s notice. The woman must see that the job is done - if he’s not available, oh well.
Marriage is designed to facilitate monogamy.
It’s rather obvious, when thought about.
Bosh, unless it’s “more difficult” because women have to fight off rapists.
Who cares about Men and Women cheating stats.
I want to know about all the other Sexes.
Can I trust them ?
Higamus, hogamus, woman’s monogamous,
Hogamus, higamus, man is polygamous.
I think I heard that in a James Mason movie — Marriage-Go-Round.