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I Had a Carefree Sex Life. The Next Generation Will Have Fear. I had the privilege of coming of age when sex-positive women had more options. That’s why we need to fight the movement that equates “sex” with “shame.” (BARF)
Daily Beast ^ | Rebecca White

Posted on 07/26/2022 3:09:44 PM PDT by Morgana

I’ve never had an abortion. But I’ve had a lot of sex. And when I’ve been asked what my “number” is by friends or lovers, I laughed it off because I hadn’t ever considered counting a complete tally of partners.

But today I realize the privilege that comes with not really knowing how many different men I’ve slept with. That’s because I lived during a time when I was lucky enough to be able to separate my sex life from the rest of me. To put sex into a little box that I only accessed when the time was right. I was not weighed down by fears of pregnancy. I was bolstered by rights that I knew would protect me should things not go as planned.

Now, I recognize that the number of sex partners I’ve had defines an era and a mentality that we are all at risk of losing. I’ve been lucky enough to have slept with at least 17 men in my 41 years of life, and I think it might mean something positive that I’m not sure if there were more.

Why keep track? Because if it doesn’t matter to me, it shouldn’t matter at all. That’s the freedom and privilege of having had access to abortion and contraception for my entire adult life.

Talking about abortion access must come in many forms. This has now become a war, and battles for regaining our constitutional rights as women must become manifest on the streets, on the page, and in conversation.

(Excerpt) Read more at thedailybeast.com ...


TOPICS: Chit/Chat; Health/Medicine; Society
KEYWORDS: abortion; donetodeath; myob; prolife; roevswade; whybarf
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To: Morgana

Becca needs to realize what she is and repent.


101 posted on 07/26/2022 4:47:42 PM PDT by sauropod (Unbelief has nothing to say. Chance favors the prepared mind.)
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To: chajin

Honestly I have more respect for the prostitute than the “free” sluts. Make and female. At least they demand to get something for it. Idiots being just plain immoral because “it feels good” or will “make him like me” are the truly cheap and immoral.


102 posted on 07/26/2022 4:48:01 PM PDT by the OlLine Rebel (Common sense is an uncommon virtue./Federal-run medical care is as good as state-run DMV.)
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To: CodeToad

📂


103 posted on 07/26/2022 4:48:35 PM PDT by Varsity Flight ( "War by the prophesies set before you." I Timothy 1:18)
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To: MeneMeneTekelUpharsin

🎓


104 posted on 07/26/2022 4:54:01 PM PDT by Varsity Flight ( "War by the prophesies set before you." I Timothy 1:18)
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To: Diana in Wisconsin

I blame a lot of that “tax-paying cog” exactly on the idea that income should be taxed. To make ends meet have the woman get paid outside, too.

(I blame the 1913 Income Tax Amendment for LOTS of our woes. Sorry to derail a bit but just had to make that remark.)


105 posted on 07/26/2022 4:57:57 PM PDT by the OlLine Rebel (Common sense is an uncommon virtue./Federal-run medical care is as good as state-run DMV.)
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To: Morgana

Rebecca white should sincerely repent and ask God for forgiveness. It is more than shame; it is a grave sin against God that may lead to eternal damnation.

The sinful ways of the world are instigated by the devil and not by Christ.

Sexual sins could be the largest cause for people going to Hell.

So, she feels that killing an innocent life of a baby and offending God is her right for her pleasure. Just another selfish person trying to destroy the family and marriage in our society.

I hope that she seeks God’s truth and seeks forgiveness from God so that she does not spend eternity in an uncomfortable place without love.

Selfish pleasure comes at the cost of sin, disease, relationship problems, possible loss of eternal life with God, etc.

God gave us a way to share our martial love for the procreation of children. “That is why a man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife, and the two of them become one body. Genesis 2:24

St Paul warned that works of the flesh (sins) are plain and those that choose to do so shall not inherit the Kingdom of Gos. (Gal 5:19-21)

Christ told us that we could commit sins of sexual impurity in our thoughts. (Mt 5:28)


106 posted on 07/26/2022 5:04:39 PM PDT by ADSUM ( )
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To: Morgana

Bang all the men you want. Find a new guy every single night on your apps. Nothing is stopping you. NOTHING is stopping you from birth control. There are at least two dozen for women. BUT. These sluts want to kill babies in the misguided belief that it empowers them. this woman of 41 is a broken soulless sad skank who will remain a leftover woman no one wants if she doesn’t change her ways. BUT it is not likely she will change.


107 posted on 07/26/2022 5:04:59 PM PDT by Organic Panic (Democrats. Memories as short as Joe Biden's eyes)
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To: Morgana

Satan in strong in this one.


108 posted on 07/26/2022 5:10:10 PM PDT by Trumpisourlastchance
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To: Morgana
The slut author...

I'm sure she'll have a lonely old life as a cat "lady".


109 posted on 07/26/2022 5:14:03 PM PDT by aquila48 (Do not let them make you "care" ! Guilting you is how they control you. )
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To: eyeamok

“ Could you just imagine having to tell your children that you were a sleazy slut your whole life?”

I don’t think she has to worry about theoretical children.


110 posted on 07/26/2022 5:16:32 PM PDT by Jim Noble (I’ve stumbled on the side of twelve misty mountains)
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To: Morgana

“Why keep track? Because if it doesn’t matter to me, it shouldn’t matter at all. That’s the freedom and privilege of having had access to abortion and contraception for my entire adult life.”

You still have that, you slut! I’m sure you never set foot in a red state, so you can screw around without worries in your blue, infanticide loving state.


111 posted on 07/26/2022 5:18:05 PM PDT by aquila48 (Do not let them make you "care" ! Guilting you is how they control you. )
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To: Morgana

Started giving away the milk for free at 18.
No mention of a husband or children.
At 41 likely cannot conceive naturally.
The only thing to keep her company in her old age will be cats.


112 posted on 07/26/2022 5:29:03 PM PDT by Brooklyn Attitude (I went to bed on November 3rd 2020 and woke up in 1984.)
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To: Ruy Dias de Bivar

Nope, just different criteria. She could have easily slept with hundreds of men if she wanted.

Women determine if sex will occur. Their bedpost notch number is entirely up to them.

Now shes 41 though, and the wall beats all.


113 posted on 07/26/2022 5:30:30 PM PDT by Secret Agent Man (Gone Galt; not averse to Going Bronson.)
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To: MeneMeneTekelUpharsin

17? that is not even a full semester back in the 60’s in college. Course I’m a guy so it is OK.


114 posted on 07/26/2022 5:31:17 PM PDT by oldasrocks
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To: MeneMeneTekelUpharsin

**Men and women who live like this do NOT have good end results. They just won’t admit it. She, nor men like her, are not trustworthy at all.**

I mentioned before on FR how my mother sat me down the evening of my 16th birthday (before I left for town to see my friends, and cruise), and had a one to one talk. Her speech to me was riveting, her eyes locked on to me, as though this was a life or death message. (I knew my parents marriage was not strong. Dad was a Gregory Peck lookalike, and was pursued by various women. Their marriage failed 7 yrs after that speech).

Her love and concern for her children was immeasurable. I was a late bloomer, and when I finally physically matured, getting dates with very attractive girls was easy. Saying no was quite difficult, but I simply wasn’t going to give in to a girl I wasn’t in love with.

Then at 23 I was rewarded with a 21 yr old virgin, who made me wait until wedding night. We both awkwardly started learning about sex that night, and 44 yrs later (this Aug 12th) we still smile about our joint learning experience. The way God intended it to be.


115 posted on 07/26/2022 5:36:05 PM PDT by Zuriel (Acts 2:38,39....Do you believe it?)
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To: Zuriel

Like.


116 posted on 07/26/2022 5:38:32 PM PDT by MeneMeneTekelUpharsin (Freedom is the freedom to discipline yourself so others don't have to do it for you.)
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To: TalBlack

*Why do you think you’ve never knocked up someone? If you were out there getting it on there’s a good chance you did.* Funny you should ask. I would think they’d come looking for me. Single parenthood is not easy.


117 posted on 07/26/2022 5:40:32 PM PDT by DIRTYSECRET
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To: Zuriel

I was both happy and sad to hear our pastor talk about marriage and sexual purity.

He mentioned in his time (he wasn’t much older than we), he had counseled some 15 couples for marriage, and only 1 had never done anything sexual prior. Various ages, too (I was 35 going on 36 when we got married).

Isn’t it disgusting we even talk about this?


118 posted on 07/26/2022 5:43:32 PM PDT by the OlLine Rebel (Common sense is an uncommon virtue./Federal-run medical care is as good as state-run DMV.)
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To: Morgana

Re: the article- I don’t listen to skanks.

CC


119 posted on 07/26/2022 5:46:21 PM PDT by Celtic Conservative (My cats are more amusing than 200 channels worth of TV.)
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To: Brooklyn Attitude

We generally only dry up around 50. 40 is no problem.


120 posted on 07/26/2022 5:46:30 PM PDT by the OlLine Rebel (Common sense is an uncommon virtue./Federal-run medical care is as good as state-run DMV.)
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