Posted on 11/03/2021 6:12:02 AM PDT by C19fan
Beware of the college grad cad!
Men with college degrees have become so cocky that they’re ruining romance for their female counterparts, one “leading expert” alleges.
Just 40.5% of college students in the United States are male, according to the National Student Clearinghouse, meaning they’re in short supply and high demand when dating on campus.
A lack of competition has led these men to develop “golden penis syndrome” — an arrogance that stems from the assumption that a steady supply of females will be sexually interested in them.
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Part of the problem is the women, but a big problem is the breakdown of the old system.
Under the traditional system, the "alpha males" were supposed to pick ONE girl, marry her, and reject the rest. This kept a lid on the female tendency to think a 50th percentile woman will get "Prince Charming" to marry her.
Now, with marriage delayed and lots of sexual freedom, one Prince Charming/Alpha can go through a hundred women, leaving each with the impression she "deserves" an Alpha to commit to her (and can reject lesser mortals), until she's so old that guys have lost interest.
Women need to understand that they have the most options in their early 20’s, and really should strive to find a husband by 25 or so.
At which point the guy moves on to the next girl.
I see this. Although more college educated women are involved with trades guys. And 4 of the highest earners I know are guys with no to little college.
Women know they control access to sex, but fail to understand how much men control access to marriage.
After close to 40 years together, I think my most successful decision was to not marry a girl because I loved her, but rather because I was sure SHE loved ME, and regularly demonstrated that she would make an effort to make me happy.
Some background on the women and divorce statistics.
Men and women initate separation at about equal rates. Men however can live in a separated state without problem. Actually Men benefit from being separated and not divorced. Women find it difficult to be separated. They often initiate because they can not bear the grey area that their estranged spouse left them in.
What man would want to share his life with that? Maybe women project and think they have something golden and they can be repulsive and still should find a man?
Is punishment a Forbidden Word?
Is penis a Forbidden Word?
Good posts.
My only quibble is that the women who decide it is time to “settle” often have negative personalities at that point since they are now “Alpha widows”—and many do not have the intelligence or the ability to hide it. They are easy to spot—they rarely smile or express true happiness with anything. It is depressing to be around them.
The extreme version of this is a woman I know who was young, attractive and dated Alphas in college.
She realized she had to “settle” in her late twenties and got married to a Beta.
Ten years later she divorced the Beta—just got tired of a guy she never really loved in the first place. He never had a clue what her issue was.
She became depressed and gained lots of weight at that point (around forty) and men avoided her.
A few years later she killed herself.
“Maybe women too spoiled to be helped who come up with vulgar terms like “golden penis syndrome” are the problem.”
I’ve run into a few women who had Platinum P**** Syndrome. Insufferable.
That's why I talk about the importance of being sure the woman loves and admires you before marrying her, to avoid the situation of marrying someone who doesn't care about you, who is just "settling" to avoid being alone or because she wants financial support.
Marrying money is at the core of women’s psyches.
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